Aspie men, we're all probably gays according to this

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18 Feb 2009, 3:26 pm

That's so gay!


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18 Feb 2009, 3:30 pm

Lol, well hopefully not #5 -- if you find yourself doing that a lot, you probably are gay. (not that there's anything wrong with that ;) )



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18 Feb 2009, 3:35 pm

So I take it that my aspie guy who keeps staring at my butt and legs and is not very interested in my breasts must be gay. :roll:



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18 Feb 2009, 3:38 pm

Alla wrote:
So I take it that my aspie guy who keeps staring at my butt and legs and is not very interested in my breasts must be gay. :roll:


im not hap-py


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18 Feb 2009, 3:48 pm

I copied/pasted that link from a thread posted by a girl in a local forum.


I commented there:

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On this forum, the only men whose hotness the girls here comment on look like Hollywood actors. It’s just too convenient to say they’re only attracted to exactly what society tells them to be into.

Does that make you gay, <OP girl>?


Such articles are always double-standards.





and so the "OP girl" initiated that interesting and funny msn convo with me:

(The OP girl)says:
How am i gay?!
(The OP girl)says:
HOW!
Samer says:
based on the Action figures rule, you are.
(The OP girl)says:
I am not
Samer says:
oh come on
(The OP girl)says:
no i am not
(The OP girl)says:
plus when i gush about hollywood actors
(The OP girl)says:
uve seen them
(The OP girl)says:
but like u dont know what i gush about in reality
(The OP girl)says:
they're far from looking like actors
Samer says:
I can't know, that's what you gush in public ....on the shoutbox
Samer says:
so you're gay in denial
(The OP girl)says:
exactly so the rule wouldnt apply
(The OP girl)says:
I am not gay in denial!
Samer says:
let's read the rule again
Samer says:
Action Figure: The only women whose hotness he comments on look like Barbie dolls. It’s just too convenient to say you’re only attracted to exactly what society tells you to be into.
Samer says:
So if a man always comments that he's attracted only to angelina jolie look-like , then he's gay.
Samer says:
if we switch the rule for the other gender...
Samer says:
then we get : the only men whose hotness she comments on look like Rambo dolls. It’s just too convenient to say they’re only attracted to exactly what society tells them to be into.
(The OP girl)says:
ok seriously
Samer says:
and based on the shoutbox convos ..
(The OP girl)says:
that wouldnt make a woman gay
(The OP girl)says:
shouldnt the women be attracted to barbie doll look alikes?
Samer says:
those are the type of men that you always comment about their hotness
(The OP girl)says:
yeah samer
Samer says:
no, I didn't say that
(The OP girl)says:
but it doesnt mean
(The OP girl)says:
theyre the ONLY kind i find hot
Samer says:
I just said , based on the 'rule' (I didn't say that this rule is true) , you girls there are gay
(The OP girl)says:
ma u said
(The OP girl)says:
ru gay ?
(The OP girl)says:
how can i be gay when i'm attracted to rambo men?
Samer says:
and how a guy can be gay when he's attacted to barbies-like girls?
(The OP girl)says:
bc its the more feminine kind of girl?
(The OP girl)says:
how should I know...I'm not the person that wrote the article
Samer says:
huh? but men like feminine girls. wth.
(The OP girl)says:
lol
(The OP girl)says:
like i said
(The OP girl)says:
i dont know what the writer meant here
(The OP girl)says:
go sue them
(The OP girl)says:
maybe they meant
Samer says:
but you posted it
(The OP girl)says:
barbie in the sense that they would play with a barbie??
(The OP girl)says:
I am confused
Samer says:
so you probably agree on every point
Samer says:
no, not that,
(The OP girl)says:
so?
(The OP girl)says:
erm no
(The OP girl)says:
i just posted it bc
Samer says:
she meants barbies dolls as = hot blonde skilly and busty girls .
(The OP girl)says:
the forum is pretty dead
(The OP girl)says:
like when i posted abt the 13 year old dad
Samer says:
that's what she meant.
(The OP girl)says:
that means i agree with it?
Samer says:
you don't ?
Samer says:
rofl
(The OP girl)says:

Samer says:
besides , I never noticed you commenting on that another KIND of guys
Samer says:
so how can i get a correct idea about your taste?
(The OP girl)says:
bc u dont know the kind of men in my life from a personal level
(The OP girl)says:
however u do know the actors
(The OP girl)says:
so ur stereotyping of my taste really isnt justifed
(The OP girl)says:
justified*
Samer says:
so that's exactly the same reason why the author think that men only comment about barbies-like,
(The OP girl)says:
I think we should have this discussion in the topic
Samer says:
I mean she only knows the actors too, no?



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18 Feb 2009, 4:03 pm

Sounds like she's seriously confused about herself.... :lol:

Probably why I have trouble in fem boards...I can't identify with half the females on them or this attraction or obsession with what is "normal" or mainstream in our culture of men and life styles.

Maybe that's why I get defensive on these boards about women lol.


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18 Feb 2009, 4:41 pm

Quote:
1. Fire Starter: You always make the first move.

2. Action Figure: The only women whose hotness he comments on look like Barbie dolls. It’s just too convenient to say you’re only attracted to exactly what society tells you to be into.

3. T&A: He may go to your boobs and your booty, but you have to take him by the hand to lead him to the Promised Land.

4. Q&A: You’ve wondered, “Is he gay?” After getting to know him, most of your friends would say, “YES!”

5. Private Eyes: When close to another man, he’ll stare at their body. For example, he’ll watch the waiter’s gun show when he drops off your plates.

6. Excuses, Excuses: He typically dates women who aren’t interested in sex, are so insecure they easily internalize a lack of physical contact, or are virgins.

7. Talk Is Cheap: He is really vocal about objectifying women in obvious, yet awkward ways. “Look at that rack—yeah, boy, that’s what I’m talkin’ about!”

8. Loose Lips: When he’s drunk, he jokes around about how everyone thinks he’s gay. But when he’s sober, he would take that accusation seriously.

9. Step It Up: All of his sex moves seem straight out of a magazine’s advice column. It just feels like he’s pushing buttons in exact order rather than enjoying himself.

1. Check (Duh.)
2. X
3. Check (I'd find it rude.)
4. X
5. Check (Don't like eyecontact.)
6. Check (Most likley.)
7. X
8. X
9. X

Yeay! Not gay! :lol:


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18 Feb 2009, 4:53 pm

the person who wrote that would have made a good propagandist for the nazis


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18 Feb 2009, 4:54 pm

the person who wrote that would have made a good propagandist for the nazis


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18 Feb 2009, 4:55 pm

the person who wrote that would have made a good propagandist for the nazis


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18 Feb 2009, 4:55 pm

1. Check
2. X
3. Check
4. Check (in some surroundings, like it was at school and with some coworkers at work, including girls)
5. Check (avoiding eye contact)
6. ~ I don't know how to reply this, but let's check it.
7. X
8. I barely drink, so I don't know.
9. I am virgin, so I can't know.

I might be gay after all :O.



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18 Feb 2009, 5:00 pm

LePetitPrince wrote:
1. Check
2. X
3. Check
4. Check (in some surroundings, like it was at school and with some coworkers at work, including girls)
5. Check (avoiding eye contact)
6. ~ I don't how to reply this, but let's check it.
7. X
8. I barely drink, so I don't know.
9. I am virgin, so I can't know.

I might be gay after all :O.

We'll have to just hope together that we're not supposed to have zero to avoid being gay. :lol:


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18 Feb 2009, 5:26 pm

Quote:
1. Fire Starter: You always make the first move.

2. Action Figure: The only women whose hotness he comments on look like Barbie dolls. It’s just too convenient to say you’re only attracted to exactly what society tells you to be into.

3. T&A: He may go to your boobs and your booty, but you have to take him by the hand to lead him to the Promised Land.

4. Q&A: You’ve wondered, “Is he gay?” After getting to know him, most of your friends would say, “YES!”

5. Private Eyes: When close to another man, he’ll stare at their body. For example, he’ll watch the waiter’s gun show when he drops off your plates.

6. Excuses, Excuses: He typically dates women who aren’t interested in sex, are so insecure they easily internalize a lack of physical contact, or are virgins.

7. Talk Is Cheap: He is really vocal about objectifying women in obvious, yet awkward ways. “Look at that rack—yeah, boy, that’s what I’m talkin’ about!”

8. Loose Lips: When he’s drunk, he jokes around about how everyone thinks he’s gay. But when he’s sober, he would take that accusation seriously.

9. Step It Up: All of his sex moves seem straight out of a magazine’s advice column. It just feels like he’s pushing buttons in exact order rather than enjoying himself.


1. Yes, sadly
2. No
3. Maybe, I can't say for certain
4. I hope not
5. No
6. No
7. No
8. No
9. I can't imagine this, but who knows?



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18 Feb 2009, 5:46 pm

Cmon guys -- #5 --

Not liking eye contact is one thing, but stare anywhere else except the waiter's crotch!! !!



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18 Feb 2009, 8:35 pm

LoL, how ridicules : /
it's funny, yet lame at the same time lol.