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04 Oct 2021, 2:38 pm

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Where I live you can shoot trespassers.  Incels (capital 'I') have killed women just to vent their frustrations.  They have driven cars into groups of people just because they were mostly women.  They think rape should be legal and that the government should provide them with women to rape.  They have been caught with lists of people they would like to either kill or rape.
Incels (upper-case 'I') are just a few blown synapses beyond your average incels (lower-case 'i').  More research is needed to determine what morphs a whiny, cowardly incel (lower-case 'i') into a raving, murdering Incel (upper-case 'I').

Either way, their misogynistic ideologies really suck.



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04 Oct 2021, 5:43 pm

Fnord wrote:
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Where I live you can shoot trespassers.  Incels (capital 'I') have killed women just to vent their frustrations.  They have driven cars into groups of people just because they were mostly women.  They think rape should be legal and that the government should provide them with women to rape.  They have been caught with lists of people they would like to either kill or rape.
Incels (upper-case 'I') are just a few blown synapses beyond your average incels (lower-case 'i').  More research is needed to determine what morphs a whiny, cowardly incel (lower-case 'i') into a raving, murdering Incel (upper-case 'I').

Either way, their misogynistic ideologies really suck.


Their views of women are so warped and one dimensional. It's not this alpha beta Chad garbage that gets them rejected. It's their sociopath like personalities.



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04 Oct 2021, 6:02 pm

Axeman wrote:
Fnord wrote:
Axeman wrote:
Where I live you can shoot trespassers.  Incels (capital 'I') have killed women just to vent their frustrations.  They have driven cars into groups of people just because they were mostly women.  They think rape should be legal and that the government should provide them with women to rape.  They have been caught with lists of people they would like to either kill or rape.
Incels (upper-case 'I') are just a few blown synapses beyond your average incels (lower-case 'i').  More research is needed to determine what morphs a whiny, cowardly incel (lower-case 'i') into a raving, murdering Incel (upper-case 'I').

Either way, their misogynistic ideologies really suck.


Their views of women are so warped and one dimensional. It's not this alpha beta Chad garbage that gets them rejected. It's their sociopath like personalities.


They've got some killer pick-up lines though.

Hey b***h, what ugly shoes. A pickup artist online taught me that line. Wanna go back to my place and watch some porn with me or am I not Chad enough for you? Why don't you like me? What the f**k is wrong with you?! Why doesn't anyone like me, it's not my fault I'm a 28 year old virgin.


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04 Oct 2021, 6:02 pm

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It's not this alpha beta Chad garbage that gets them rejected. It's their sociopath like personalities.


I am inclined to agree; I avoid sociopaths whenever possible.


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04 Oct 2021, 6:51 pm

I'm not sure If I was included in this dragnet but a lot of the advice that was directed at the posters who feel frustrated at not being able to interact with women follow some general principles
1. Be authentic
2, Be pro-active
3. Put your best foot forward
3. Don't have expectations
4. Be polite, reserved and respectful
5. take rejection philosophically and move on

As a general point there is a lack of insight in understanding women and this naturally comes from having minimal experience with single women who are open to dating. Imparting experiences is not mean't to be a solution but to provide notes for some of our colleagues to factor when/if they try their luck.



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04 Oct 2021, 7:20 pm

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Since I started this thread, I prefer that it NOT be locked and left to sink to the bottom; but if that is what it takes to stop incel ideology from poisoning the minds of the membership, then so be it.
At the same time, if someone posted a thread that "all men are evil misogynists, and should be eliminated, because the world would be a better place without men", I'm sure that thread would be applauded and allowed it to remain. Like or not, agree or disagree, this is an extremely leftist site with views to match. Heck, I'm pleasantly surprised I wasn't banned yet for holding conservative views. Facebook and Twitter would send unmarked white vans to follow me around I posted there what I post here.

That said, being left to sink into obscurity is the best way to treat an undesirable thread. This way, a free market, and not a mod's personal whim/belief, decides the fate of a specific thread.


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04 Oct 2021, 7:23 pm

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Fnord wrote:
Since I started this thread, I prefer that it NOT be locked and left to sink to the bottom; but if that is what it takes to stop incel ideology from poisoning the minds of the membership, then so be it.
At the same time, if someone posted a thread that "all men are evil misogynists, and should be eliminated, because the world would be a better place without men", I'm sure that thread would be applauded and allowed it to remain. Like or not, agree or disagree, this is an extremely leftist site with views to match. Heck, I'm pleasantly surprised I wasn't banned yet for holding conservative views. Facebook and Twitter would send unmarked white vans to follow me around I posted there what I post here.

That said, being left to sink into obscurity is the best way to treat an undesirable thread. This way, a free market, and not a mod's personal whim/belief, decides the fate of a specific thread.


Like Facebook and Twitter have the resources for that or would want to do it in the first place. That's just nuts.



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04 Oct 2021, 7:24 pm

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...if someone posted a thread that "all men are evil misogynists, and should be eliminated, because the world would be a better place without men", I'm sure that thread would be applauded and allowed it to remain...


That post wouldn't last a half-hour and no one of sound mind would try to insist otherwise unless it was to troll.


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04 Oct 2021, 8:07 pm

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...if someone posted a thread that "all men are evil misogynists, and should be eliminated, because the world would be a better place without men", I'm sure that thread would be applauded and allowed it to remain...


That post wouldn't last a half-hour and no one of sound mind would try to insist otherwise unless it was to troll.


Next he is going to go buy himself a date.



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05 Oct 2021, 12:39 am

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That post wouldn't last a half-hour and no one of sound mind would try to insist otherwise unless it was to troll.


Eh, were you around for the gender wars here? I remember them being around 2014, but I can't remember what part of the year, but that parody post wasn't far off of some of the posts I remember. In the end, the two ringleaders were actually banned for misandry, though I think the constant dramatics and unpleasant personalities were just as much factors as the male bashing in drawing the bans.


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05 Oct 2021, 1:02 am

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funeralxempire wrote:
That post wouldn't last a half-hour and no one of sound mind would try to insist otherwise unless it was to troll.


Eh, were you around for the gender wars here? I remember them being around 2014, but I can't remember what part of the year, but that parody post wasn't far off of some of the posts I remember. In the end, the two ringleaders were actually banned for misandry, though I think the constant dramatics and unpleasant personalities were just as much factors as the male bashing in drawing the bans.


I'm not sure the place is exactly the same as it was that long ago.
Do you think that sorta post would last long on the site in 2021?


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05 Oct 2021, 5:20 am

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Next he is going to go buy himself a date.
Don't knock it till you try it. :mrgreen:



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05 Oct 2021, 5:37 am

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Next he is going to go buy himself a date.
Don't knock it till you try it. :mrgreen:


I get free sex every night so I'm good. 8)



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05 Oct 2021, 5:53 am

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I get free sex every night so I'm good. 8)
Many men who see escorts are married. But that's beside the point.

NOTHING in life in free. First off, living with a wife as an adult is like living with your parents as a child: you must obey her rules/wishes or face consequences; you are NOT a free man. Those rules/wishes can change at random for any reason, or even for no reason. If you don't think on your feet and obey the changes, she'll scream at you for hours for "not understanding her needs", make you sleep on the couch, give you the silent treatment for days, or even outright abuse you.

Also, wifely sex comes at a price too. A man has to continually appease his wife, so she doesn't get angry and withhold sex as punishment. Because hell has no fury like a woman scorned, right? Also, when she randomly decides she's "not happy" and files for divorce, he loses his home, his car, his prized possessions, 50% of his bank account, has to fight tooth and nail to see his kids, and has to pay her alimony for the rest of her life.

No, thanks! I'd rather pay $350 once every few months.


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05 Oct 2021, 10:06 am

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I get free sex every night so I'm good. 8)
Many men who see escorts are married. But that's beside the point.

NOTHING in life in free. First off, living with a wife as an adult is like living with your parents as a child: you must obey her rules/wishes or face consequences; you are NOT a free man. Those rules/wishes can change at random for any reason, or even for no reason. If you don't think on your feet and obey the changes, she'll scream at you for hours for "not understanding her needs", make you sleep on the couch, give you the silent treatment for days, or even outright abuse you.

Also, wifely sex comes at a price too. A man has to continually appease his wife, so she doesn't get angry and withhold sex as punishment. Because hell has no fury like a woman scorned, right? Also, when she randomly decides she's "not happy" and files for divorce, he loses his home, his car, his prized possessions, 50% of his bank account, has to fight tooth and nail to see his kids, and has to pay her alimony for the rest of her life.

No, thanks! I'd rather pay $350 once every few months.


Nothing that you posted applies to me or my situation. It's a stereotype produced by a mind whose view of marriage and women is warped and one dimensional.

My wife is also on the spectrum. We were so happy to find each other. She totally understands me and vice versa.



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05 Oct 2021, 10:10 am

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Nothing that you posted applies to me or my situation. It's a stereotype produced by a mind whose view of marriage and women is warped and one dimensional.


It kinda reminds one of how little kids will sometimes try to devalue something they've been denied by inventing reasons for why they don't actually want it (when they most assuredly do).

I've gotta say, I'm grateful that I was able to see past that way of viewing things because it seems to trap people.


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