Do you think u'll end up a 40 y.o. virgin?

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Nah, doubt it. I'm 16 soon (the legal age in the UK), so I'm hoping to do it when I get my next girlfriend

I doubt I'll get that old anyway.

Lol, well I'm 35 and still shhhhhh you know what.

It seems most likely that I may be listed as PDD-NOS which I noticed yesterday but I have to try a few things, although the long term evidence points to that^^^.

100%. I won't have sex until I'm married, and marriage (As well as dating in general) aren't part of the plan. I'll die a virgin.

Okay, to summarize the first page of this thread.

Females, don't have a strong sex drive, so they don't really care if they are virgins.

Males, have a stronger sex drive, and thus feel more distress and frustration at being virgins.

of course i will if i don't off myself before then, it's just a part of the autism experience.
the only way i'll lose it is if i make it to thailand.

25 year old and still a virgin? 50/50 chance. It all depends on how bad I want it and how willing i'm able to put myself out there.


30 years old and still a virgin? No because iv'e already planned it out. If i'm still a virgin by the time i'm 29, i'm losing it to a prostitute.



I just turned 22 a few days ago so I really need to get some experience. This is going to be my year!

I am 0 on the look scale and have poor intelligence.

Of course i am gonna be virgin when i am 40. What female want a guy like me? Nobody.

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If the flag on your avatar indicates your country of residence, that's not helping you, sorry. I keep reading news articles in the US, that make Sweden look like the most feminist country in the world. One article talked about a Swedish political party that wanted to pass laws requiring all men to pay, wait for it... domestic violence taxes. That can't be good for your self-esteem, given how you describe your looks. And a politician telling you that your gender is horrible just pours salt in the wound.

"Cucked"? That's a PUA term. Have you been reading that material too?

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I don't have to read their material directly to be familiar with it--as a woman existing on the internet (and some feminist spaces therein), I've had those terms lobbed at me by enough angry men/trolls to figure out what they mean. Know your enemy, they say; to that end I will admit I have read a couple articles and excerpts, from those types of places online. Like I know what "negging" is and various of their other BS "strategies" so I can recognise them IRL if they are ever used against me, and treat the offending jerkwad accordingly.

On behalf of the female counterpart, I'd like to apologize for the Neanderthals. I really don't understand why some males feel the need to degrade women that just want to be treated equally and fairly. It's as if they are afraid their manhood is under attack if you aren't submissive. At a primitive instinctual level, I feel the need to protect women so that type of thinking disgusts me. You may not like me saying that, but it's part of me in the sense of fight or flight, purely reflexive. I fully understand you are capable of protecting yourself, I just can't understand why some men act the way they do.

The whole point of PUA is learning to understand your "enemy". It's like reading a police training manual to learn how to get out of a traffic ticket. The alleged "negging" barely even scratches the surface. But I can understand not wanting to mistake a beta male who memorized the "neg" technique for an alpha male who does it naturally. Also, the term "negging" is outdated. It was common in mid to late 2000's, but is becoming increasingly archaic.

OK, off my soapbox now. Carry on as you were.

I hate that kinda juvenile gamesmanship and will not partake.

You misunderstand me completely.

Not without a time machine to go back and unf**k everyone I've ever been with.

Really just came to post a big at the only non-virgin poll option assuming one night stands vs. people having relationships & also that you must be desperate if you do opt for a one night stand. Newsflash: Some of us are in, or have been in, relationships - or even married. Others who decide that one night stands are for them aren't necessarily desperate. People do choose to do these things for pleasure w/o a shred of desperation. Different strokes for different folks.

Don't apologise--if you want to help, then talk to other men about it. When you hear men being gross about women, speak up and let them know that's not OK. Guys like that are more likely to listen to you than they are to me; they are more likely to consider your point of view and care about your opinion of them because you are male. Let them know they are not in the majority, that other men (good men) look down on their behaviour and think it's pathetic--that will matter to them more than it bothering me and other women will matter.