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ArrantPariah
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28 Aug 2012, 7:51 am

I really would never date a girl who wasn't breathing.



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28 Aug 2012, 7:53 am

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I really would never date a girl who wasn't breathing.

So "you take my breath away" is probably not a good line to use on you? ;)



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28 Aug 2012, 9:12 am

From my experience, most of the important friendships I've had with certain females have only resulted in them doing a 180 degree spin and stabbing me in the back. In other words, I've had a few instances where girls have been nice to me and I'm nice to them back (albeit incredibly nervous) and later on they decide to cut me off without explanation. I wasn't sure if they were being manipulative or just got bored with me.

That being said, from prior experience I certainly would not date anybody if I found that they were being dishonest, or I knew that they were being manipulative or untrustworthy in any way.



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28 Aug 2012, 9:48 am

Oh boy, where to begin.


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28 Aug 2012, 9:53 am

A blow up doll.

A Gingerbread Woman.

A Barbie Doll.

A Virtual Bride.

A Mail Order bride.

A dead woman.


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28 Aug 2012, 12:08 pm

Pistonhead wrote:
emlion wrote:
her hair is so big! it's intimidating.


I have big things to intimidate women, hair doesn't scare me....unless it's pubic hair.


*spits out coffee*

Big things like your... um, never mind.



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28 Aug 2012, 1:08 pm

This type:

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2194240/Angelina-Jolie-lookalike-stabs-taxi-driver-refusing-sex-her.html



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28 Aug 2012, 5:07 pm

My list is pretty brief:

A woman who doesn't force me to be responsible for her happiness. I can't make anyone happy. Nobody can.
A woman who is terrified of 'becoming a housewife'. Look, if you want to get married and live in a house, you're gonna be a housewife. Not all housewives get beaten, and many housewives are intelligent and are allowed to form a sentence. Cooking is NOT degrading. And not all women cook. My grandmother was a great woman and she didn't do the cooking. If you don't want to be a housewife, then don't get married! And if you don't want to get married, then why all the demands? The more serious the relationship, the more leeway you have to make demands.
A woman who can handle honest emotion, so I DON'T HAVE to lie to her. I don't want to feed her paranoia for the rest of my life.

I could list other things, but none of them are particularly important, and most of them fit into one of the three above 'categories'. Technically, the third one fits into the first one, but I put it down anyway.



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28 Aug 2012, 6:30 pm

yellowtamarin wrote:
Gosh, I'm super fussy, so my list would be pretty long if I included everything. Here's a few main ones though.

I don't want a woman who...

...I can't have an intellectual discussion with
...is superstitious, religious, or has her head in the clouds more often than not
...won't discuss her feelings with me when it's important
...is so money hungry that she isn't interested in following her dreams
...is an extreme extrovert
...refuses to learn or care about my AS traits.


good luck :wink:


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28 Aug 2012, 9:54 pm

aussiebloke wrote:
yellowtamarin wrote:
Gosh, I'm super fussy, so my list would be pretty long if I included everything. Here's a few main ones though.

I don't want a woman who...

...I can't have an intellectual discussion with
...is superstitious, religious, or has her head in the clouds more often than not
...won't discuss her feelings with me when it's important
...is so money hungry that she isn't interested in following her dreams
...is an extreme extrovert
...refuses to learn or care about my AS traits.


good luck :wink:


Yeah.
I managed to fail on the third criteria :lol:.


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28 Aug 2012, 9:57 pm

^^^^

Lucky you I fail at # 1.3 .5 .

I must be a horrible person :wink:

oh part fail at #4 don't care for money though don't have any "dreams"


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28 Aug 2012, 10:01 pm

You're an extrovert? 8O :lol:

In reference to you failing at no. 5 ^


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28 Aug 2012, 10:04 pm

^^^

Thats #5

Wanna come to a party with me :wink:

How about I race you up Mount Cootha instead :wink:


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28 Aug 2012, 11:13 pm

My list is of things I don't want, not things that make someone a horrible person. I know I probably have to be flexible with number 3, because the type of people I go for in other ways also tend to be the types who don't want to talk about feelings. My ex, who I adore, failed on 3 and 5, but passes the rest.



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28 Aug 2012, 11:21 pm

I have three things I don't want

A boring girl
A clingly girl
A girl who is heroine chick skinny or bbw big.



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29 Aug 2012, 12:14 am

aussiebloke wrote:
Lucky you I fail at # 1.3 .5 .
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oh part fail at #4 don't care for money though don't have any "dreams"

Clearly you are not the girl for me, aussiebloke ;)

The dreams part is not really that important, just that IF she has them, she shouldn't neglect to follow them just because some other crappy, meaningless job pays better.