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DreamLord
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17 Mar 2012, 5:38 pm
Mikelight wrote:
DreamLord wrote:
EnglishLulu wrote:
DreamLord wrote:
I've been on there a few months. Its a waste of time like all online dating.
Its just an extravagant way of being ignored by lesser minded people who happen to have bouncy things on their chests and think that you are unworthy of them.
I am Bealdor on there. I have given up though as a quick read of my profile will testify.
I looked at your profile. The main thing that struck me was that although you look relatively attractive, you come across as quite gloomy, which doesn't really scream: Pick me, date me, we'll have some fun and have a good time.Its just an extravagant way of being ignored by lesser minded people who happen to have bouncy things on their chests and think that you are unworthy of them.
I am Bealdor on there. I have given up though as a quick read of my profile will testify.
But the thing that would put me off (if the 20 year age gap wasn't already an insurmountable problem!) would be your answers to a couple of questions regarding race. You don't have a problem with racist jokes. And if you happened to have children you'd want to have them with a white partner because you'd want them to be white. (Incidentally, I'm wondering, how can you live in a multicultural, ethnically diverse city like Manchester and end up with such views?
It's not like you're living out in Sticksville in the country where there are no/few ethnic minorities, where that might be some kind of an excuse for such views?)I'm white, but even I find that kind of attitude problematic. And I'm guessing a lot of other women would too. Lots of young people in this day and age have family members, friends, classmates and colleagues from different ethnic backgrounds and mixed ethnic backgrounds, so they'd be put off dating someone who doesn't have a problem with racist jokes or who only wants to have white children.
You might have a better chance of finding a date at an EDL meeting or rally.
I have no choice where to live and neither do I feel I should have to move from an area of a country that my ancestors have lived in for several thousand years. I do not need an excuse to love my people or to have a preference towards them, such an attitude exists naturally in all humans, regardless of the race they belong to and is only lacking in people who have been programmed to accept the decline of their people.
I do not hate other races, I just object to their large presence in my country, would you argue with a Tibetan about not wanting the Chinese controlling his land or a Palestinian who doesn't want Jewish settlers to force him out of his town?
Only a very nasty person would support this and yet to encourage non-white people to move in large numbers into white towns is not only okay, but to speak against it is wrong?
I an not sorry for loving my people and wanting them to preserve their heritage and homeland, for the same reasons I found the European colonisation of the America distasteful or the same reason I oppose Israeli aggression in the Levant. If women find my pride and willingness to argue for my beliefs off putting, then I can only suggest that the problem does not belong to myself, but to them.
Dream Lord knows what's up. It's not bad to love your own race/culture/people. Ask any of the "minorities" you may live near whether they consider themselves first a part of your country or first a member of their race. You'll see the result. Personally I feel the exact same way as DreamLord but I'm a hispanic living in the US. I don't want to marry a white woman, nor would I want my future children to marry white. There's something to be said for having pride in your culture and in your people.
Not only do I not have a problem with racist jokes, but I quite frequently make them. There's no hate involved but stereotypes exist because people fulfill them. It's not racism, it's the truth.
DreamLord is right to want to preserve his homeland and his heritage.
You've hit the nail on the head there. My people will cease to exist within a century and i'm supposed to smile and pretend it isn't happening. What's worse is that it's my own people who attack me for it!
Life of a man in revolt against the present ideology I suppose, doomed to loneliness, unemployment and misery.
17 Mar 2012, 6:09 pm
DreamLord wrote:
Mikelight wrote:
DreamLord wrote:
EnglishLulu wrote:
DreamLord wrote:
I've been on there a few months. Its a waste of time like all online dating.
Its just an extravagant way of being ignored by lesser minded people who happen to have bouncy things on their chests and think that you are unworthy of them.
I am Bealdor on there. I have given up though as a quick read of my profile will testify.
I looked at your profile. The main thing that struck me was that although you look relatively attractive, you come across as quite gloomy, which doesn't really scream: Pick me, date me, we'll have some fun and have a good time.Its just an extravagant way of being ignored by lesser minded people who happen to have bouncy things on their chests and think that you are unworthy of them.
I am Bealdor on there. I have given up though as a quick read of my profile will testify.
But the thing that would put me off (if the 20 year age gap wasn't already an insurmountable problem!) would be your answers to a couple of questions regarding race. You don't have a problem with racist jokes. And if you happened to have children you'd want to have them with a white partner because you'd want them to be white. (Incidentally, I'm wondering, how can you live in a multicultural, ethnically diverse city like Manchester and end up with such views?
It's not like you're living out in Sticksville in the country where there are no/few ethnic minorities, where that might be some kind of an excuse for such views?)I'm white, but even I find that kind of attitude problematic. And I'm guessing a lot of other women would too. Lots of young people in this day and age have family members, friends, classmates and colleagues from different ethnic backgrounds and mixed ethnic backgrounds, so they'd be put off dating someone who doesn't have a problem with racist jokes or who only wants to have white children.
You might have a better chance of finding a date at an EDL meeting or rally.
I have no choice where to live and neither do I feel I should have to move from an area of a country that my ancestors have lived in for several thousand years. I do not need an excuse to love my people or to have a preference towards them, such an attitude exists naturally in all humans, regardless of the race they belong to and is only lacking in people who have been programmed to accept the decline of their people.
I do not hate other races, I just object to their large presence in my country, would you argue with a Tibetan about not wanting the Chinese controlling his land or a Palestinian who doesn't want Jewish settlers to force him out of his town?
Only a very nasty person would support this and yet to encourage non-white people to move in large numbers into white towns is not only okay, but to speak against it is wrong?
I an not sorry for loving my people and wanting them to preserve their heritage and homeland, for the same reasons I found the European colonisation of the America distasteful or the same reason I oppose Israeli aggression in the Levant. If women find my pride and willingness to argue for my beliefs off putting, then I can only suggest that the problem does not belong to myself, but to them.
Dream Lord knows what's up. It's not bad to love your own race/culture/people. Ask any of the "minorities" you may live near whether they consider themselves first a part of your country or first a member of their race. You'll see the result. Personally I feel the exact same way as DreamLord but I'm a hispanic living in the US. I don't want to marry a white woman, nor would I want my future children to marry white. There's something to be said for having pride in your culture and in your people.
Not only do I not have a problem with racist jokes, but I quite frequently make them. There's no hate involved but stereotypes exist because people fulfill them. It's not racism, it's the truth.
DreamLord is right to want to preserve his homeland and his heritage.
You've hit the nail on the head there. My people will cease to exist within a century and i'm supposed to smile and pretend it isn't happening. What's worse is that it's my own people who attack me for it!Life of a man in revolt against the present ideology I suppose, doomed to loneliness, unemployment and misery.
it's your own choice to reduce your dating possibilities by selecting according to race. you are drastically narrowing your dating pool. i'd say that (looking at the originally quoted post) it is curious that you'd call online daters "lesser minded" when it is your mind that is closed to other races. i think that it is shortsighted to blame the online dating process (and the women on OKC) for your lack of success.
17 Mar 2012, 6:15 pm
DreamLord wrote:
Mikelight wrote:
DreamLord wrote:
EnglishLulu wrote:
DreamLord wrote:
I've been on there a few months. Its a waste of time like all online dating.
Its just an extravagant way of being ignored by lesser minded people who happen to have bouncy things on their chests and think that you are unworthy of them.
I am Bealdor on there. I have given up though as a quick read of my profile will testify.
I looked at your profile. The main thing that struck me was that although you look relatively attractive, you come across as quite gloomy, which doesn't really scream: Pick me, date me, we'll have some fun and have a good time.Its just an extravagant way of being ignored by lesser minded people who happen to have bouncy things on their chests and think that you are unworthy of them.
I am Bealdor on there. I have given up though as a quick read of my profile will testify.
But the thing that would put me off (if the 20 year age gap wasn't already an insurmountable problem!) would be your answers to a couple of questions regarding race. You don't have a problem with racist jokes. And if you happened to have children you'd want to have them with a white partner because you'd want them to be white. (Incidentally, I'm wondering, how can you live in a multicultural, ethnically diverse city like Manchester and end up with such views?
It's not like you're living out in Sticksville in the country where there are no/few ethnic minorities, where that might be some kind of an excuse for such views?)I'm white, but even I find that kind of attitude problematic. And I'm guessing a lot of other women would too. Lots of young people in this day and age have family members, friends, classmates and colleagues from different ethnic backgrounds and mixed ethnic backgrounds, so they'd be put off dating someone who doesn't have a problem with racist jokes or who only wants to have white children.
You might have a better chance of finding a date at an EDL meeting or rally.
I have no choice where to live and neither do I feel I should have to move from an area of a country that my ancestors have lived in for several thousand years. I do not need an excuse to love my people or to have a preference towards them, such an attitude exists naturally in all humans, regardless of the race they belong to and is only lacking in people who have been programmed to accept the decline of their people.
I do not hate other races, I just object to their large presence in my country, would you argue with a Tibetan about not wanting the Chinese controlling his land or a Palestinian who doesn't want Jewish settlers to force him out of his town?
Only a very nasty person would support this and yet to encourage non-white people to move in large numbers into white towns is not only okay, but to speak against it is wrong?
I an not sorry for loving my people and wanting them to preserve their heritage and homeland, for the same reasons I found the European colonisation of the America distasteful or the same reason I oppose Israeli aggression in the Levant. If women find my pride and willingness to argue for my beliefs off putting, then I can only suggest that the problem does not belong to myself, but to them.
Dream Lord knows what's up. It's not bad to love your own race/culture/people. Ask any of the "minorities" you may live near whether they consider themselves first a part of your country or first a member of their race. You'll see the result. Personally I feel the exact same way as DreamLord but I'm a hispanic living in the US. I don't want to marry a white woman, nor would I want my future children to marry white. There's something to be said for having pride in your culture and in your people.
Not only do I not have a problem with racist jokes, but I quite frequently make them. There's no hate involved but stereotypes exist because people fulfill them. It's not racism, it's the truth.
DreamLord is right to want to preserve his homeland and his heritage.
You've hit the nail on the head there. My people will cease to exist within a century and i'm supposed to smile and pretend it isn't happening. What's worse is that it's my own people who attack me for it!Life of a man in revolt against the present ideology I suppose, doomed to loneliness, unemployment and misery.
"Your people" are the human race. The problem with this species has and probably always will be that deep rooted desire to make situations "Us vs Them" for the most arbitrary reasons regarding nationality (invisible lines on the Earth), culture (difference in ideas and the way to live), religion (beliefs in supernatural aspects that cannot be proven or disproved), or race (phenotype differences).
It is truly a pathetic existence, most humans have. I imagine other species exist outside of our planet want nothing to do with us. We fight with each other, kill each other, find every ridiculous reason to separate ourselves from one another when we're all humans living on Earth. We must seem like the lowest of animals to truly advanced species.
I can't even imagine what life would be like today if humans had the capacity as a species to wholly get over ridiculousness like this centuries ago.
17 Mar 2012, 7:11 pm
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17 Mar 2012, 9:11 pm
ReindeerRoger wrote:
Well, if you're wondering why you're not faring so well on dating websites, racist/eugenicist/isolationist ideologies are somewhat unfashionable nowadays, actually I find being around them or talking to people who have them rather discomforting. And OKcupid is also known for having a better educated population than normal websites, and yanow, racist views don't really measure up against science, the humanities etc. Actually if I tried to hand in an essay that had the slightest aftertaste of racism or fears of racial mixing to it I would probably receive a failing grade . . . generally if something is referred to as 'politically incorrect', that's actually a polite way to say that there's something seriously wrong with it on a fundamental level . . . anyways, it's something I'd leave out of a dating profile, unless you're on some specialized white-supremacist/republican-specific/racially-specific dating website. But I could say the same about broaching such topics on a first date, or in a job interview.
Incidentally, OKcupid bases its matching system on answers to the questions, so you might end up finding people who share your racial/cultural protectionist outlook on several points. Unfortunately you'll have to filter through those people for those of your preferred race. (hahaha, karma)
Incidentally, OKcupid bases its matching system on answers to the questions, so you might end up finding people who share your racial/cultural protectionist outlook on several points. Unfortunately you'll have to filter through those people for those of your preferred race. (hahaha, karma)
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this post. well said.
18 Mar 2012, 8:39 pm
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