Why do I rarely get any attention on dating sites?

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i hate my mom

Ouch

You're not the only one. I pretty much hate my whole family. I appreciate the things they do to help when they actually help, but I don't appreciate the inevitable bitching that always comes with it, and I don't appreciate the years of being bitched at for not being "normal" or being made to feel like nothing I ever did was right, and that I never made my parents proud of anything. I hate the fact that when asked about whether or not they should circumcise me, the only bit of thought that went into the decision was "well it's what everybody else is doing."

You know, it's quite ironic, isn't it? Parents are the first ones to say "if johnny jumped off a bridge, would you do it too?" Then they just chop off your foreskin because "johnny" did it. f*****g hypocrites.

you're mad that your parents circumcised you? That is a good thing, and how do you expect your parents to include you in that decision we you were so young when it happened?

Because you're a guy, one out of several hundred million. Women get messaged 50+ times per day if they are even slightly attractive. If you don't stand out from the crowd, you won't be receiving many messages.

yeah i hate her for not aborting me as a fetus

I hate nature for making me this way, but eh, what can I do about it?

yeah thats another way of looking at things

Well, I hear people telling me a pressure chamber might work. IDK

i also hate how guys are not allowed to get sympathy from others

No, that is absolutely NOT a good thing. It is an atrocity. have you ever watched a circumcision take place? Try watching one once... If you can watch the whole thing to its completion and NOT feel extreme rage and feel like you want to throw the f**k up, then you are a monster. End of story.

The foreskin is supposed to be there. It serves a purpose, a purpose that is now completely lost. Thousands, if not millions, or even billions of nerves were removed. The frenulum was removed. The glans became scarred and dry and lost sensitivity. It's a hell of a lot more than "just a little snip." In fact, about 50% of the total skin that makes up the human penis is foreskin. That's right, HALF of it. None of the reasons given for having the procedure done make any sense UNLESS the child is allowed to age to the point where the foreskin should be able to retract, and it is unable to. Even then, that's debatable, and in any case, should be decided by the individual TO WHOM IT IS DONE. That is NOBODY else's decision.

Gee, how did I expect them to include me in the decision? First of all, they could have WAITED til I could even give my consent in the first place, or til I could at least fight the f**k back. Secondly, there is ZERO reason to do one in the first place, so a decision is entirely irrelevant. The question should never have even come up. "do you want to mutilate your son's penis?" "no, why the f**k would I do that?!" Anybody who's not a sadistic a**hole should have the same response.

I'm not just "mad" that they circumcised me, I'm f*****g furious about it. Here are these two people whose job it is to raise me and protect me and all this other s**t, and they f**k up on the first 10 minutes. I feel f*****g betrayed, and I feel like I was born to a bunch of ret*ds... I seriously asked my mom about why they did it one time, and all she had to say was "well that's just what we did then." I tried to tell her how much it bothered me without being too much of an a**hole because it's not like she could have researched this s**t on the internet, but that still doesn't excuse the fact that she didn't even bother to think about it. Anyway, she didn't really seem to give a s**t that it bothered me at all because she just ignored me afterwards.

Why the f**k did they even have me? Nothing about me was good enough, everything was to be changed or controlled. Apparently even my penis wasn't good enough within 10 minutes of being born, so they had to f*****g mutilate it. Sometimes I seriously wish my parents had just f*****g aborted me. It would have saved me a lot of trouble. What kind of sick Motherf***er came up with the idea of circumcision in the first place? If I could, I'd go back in time and beat the f**k out of him until he died... And this is all coming from pretty much the least violent person you'll ever meet.

Last edited by DerStadtschutz on 31 Oct 2012, 2:36 am, edited 1 time in total.

Honestly, you seem pretty violent!

Uh... based on what, exactly?

I very rarely talk about violence on here. In fact, I'm pretty sure the ONLY time I've mentioned desire to be violent is in response to the subject of circumcision, and you obviously don't know me in real life, so to say such a thing is incredibly stupid.

Disclosing that you are a virgin disqualifies you in a big way. You need to show that you have higher social value compared to all the hundreds of guys the girl sees online. Pictures of you doing things that look like they cost money, things that show that you have money to burn.

Men are attracted to looks, women are attracted to social status. This is human biology. Accept it and exploit it.

You could also just focus on developing marketable skills and use the money you earn to bang hot 19 year old escorts and forget about dating.

I've already hidden the fact that I'm a virgin after the s**t luck it's given me on XXX dating sites I used to be on. I've been thinking about escorts, but I don't know of any in the Philly area.

Don't disclose you are a virgin...

And dude, calm down. Circumcision has been proven to reduce the risk of AIDS transmission significantly. Sex is still plenty pleasurable without the foreskin.