Get TONS OF MESSAGES/INTEREST from women! A Numbers Game..

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I agree with the last points you made. I've hinted towards that the rest of the work is up to the individual once they get the girl's attention a little bit before your post. No biggy, the thread is starting to get long and verbose, easily missed.

Well, I won't be coy. People have said about your looks in the style you have mentioned. That really shouldn't decide the quality of someone's words (most of the time) but it appears the Asperger's community is just as human as the NT's in this respect. However, where have I personally challenged your contributions to WP or your looks? Why did you even need to bring this up? If you don't want such comments to be made, stop encouraging them with vanity!

I don't like how some of the members have tackled this thread as it is more to do with their own personal agendas, but I will say they aren't without merit. This thread was disingenuous. Lately, what you've posted has been. It's a far cry from the old material you posted, and far be it for me to explain why this is publicly. What I will say though, is (speaking from experience) posting private info publicly is a bad idea, and having the audacity to do it to members that have confided in you in the very same board says a whole lot of bad.

I look forward to more threads from you in the future, as you have made good contributions in the past.But if they are like the ones present, your rep will have no future!

I don't know if you are a darksider or the white knight feminazi defender of the forum but you need to make a choice and not sit on the fence.

No one needs to do anything. This is only a discussion forum. People can think how they want and come and go as they please!

Stop giving him attention

You can see by his use of so many Americanisms and cliche words that he's one big pose and not open to intelligent reason - wasted effort

I don't have to prove anything to you and the simple reason you think that shows you have a biased and rigid of what someone on the spectrum is. I was diagnosed at Maudsley hospital, largest mental health training institution in the country and before that, I was diagnosed by several psychologists. I didn't suddenly develop social skills overnight, it has been a process of trial and error, learning and putting myself in situations that I didn't feel completely comfortable with.

So maybe you should think before you start judging or running your words, how about you? Who were you diagnosed? where were you diagnosed? Do you wave your AS badge around and think you are something special?

Edit: I've already been to several meet ups and arranged a couple so I know the wide variety of people that exist on the spectrum, you clearly don't seem to though.

Why do you keep saying Americanisms? Do you have something against Americans? Are you prejudice? The only person that has been throwing around negative presumptions, let me tell you, darling, I use negative presumptions and throw around sneaky little remarks like you. Let me tell you, the only two people who have aggressive and spiteful verbally are you and ntgrl, you've already been warned once by hyperlexian and you don't want to be warned again, nessa.

Now back on topic.

I didn't even go looking for an Aspergers diagnosis - it was foisted upon me via occupational health at work who sent me to The Priory in Edgbaston. I think The Priory beats the Maudsley in terms of pretentiousness so I win! Lol I didn't even have to pay for it.

And yes I am something special and no I don't see the AS label as a good thing and think the wide variety of people given it shows what a meaningless label it is

Oh right how sad, so now it's going to be a case of who was diagnosed by a more credited psychologist, ridiculous, absolutely ridiculous. I didn't pay for it either but is their a problem if someone does pay for it?

Why do you have such a stereotypical view of how someone on the spectrum should be? And why do you think everyone on the spectrum is like Sheldon Cooper? If you believe that, I don't think you've met many people from the spectrum and you should come to one of the future meet ups if you are willing to act like a responsible adult.

What I mean by Americanisms is phrases like 'I rock' and lots of other stuff you say. I know most people in this country invariably end up copying everything America does but I think it's sad we have to even start using American-style dialogue as well. We're not American, we're English/British. People invariably say 'movies' now instead of films. I live in the UK and my own country's words and phrases are enough for me.

Most people on this forum are from the US with quite a few members from the UK and Australia, don't like it? You know where the exit is.

You really don't have much of a sense of humour at all do you?
I was making sarcastic comment but it evidently went right over your head. I don't give a toss who diagnosed me - I'd rather it hadn't even happened.

I've been to meet ups in the past and organised them and have nothing in common with people who want to take part in group socialising.

Again my point has gone over your head - you aren't American or Australian - you're English so why talk like an American??

I have no problem with Americans talking like Americans but English people talking like Americans sounds daft.

people who wear sunglasses inside remind me of the person my niece married. he was a gym junkie and he wore trench coats and pork pie hats and he dismissed me as a moron. he had much attention from girls but my niece divorced him after a while because he was not a real person.

i disliked seriously his smell of "musk" and masculinity, and i can not understand how anyone can be attracted to it.

i knew a girl once who had a very muscular and macho boyfriend who i thought smelled like salami (severe musky B.O), and i told her that i thought he smelled frightful, and she told me she liked when he did not shower because she used to nestle her face in his stinking armpits when she slept with him, and she sniffed it like a drunken angel and it wafted her off to sleep. good grief. she liked to talk to me, but she found me to be sexually sterile like a prepubescent.
i do not care because i did not like the sweaty stinking masculine scent that she was attracted to, and i was glad she was not attracted to me because i would have thought "i have to shower more", and i hate showering.

girls that i like are very few and far between, and they certainly are not average girls who float on a whiff of musk toward the smelly alpha males.

enough. i asked people to stop with the personal attacks, and that meant you, too.