Women are not attracted to me because I'm not 'masculine'?

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This^^^

All of that rhetoric sounds like you're trying to bamboozle us...

Except he didn't. Once again waved them away as, "Oh, I had a part in 'not ideal circumstances', but it's not my fault, not my problem, and I'm not the bad guy. Murderers and criminals - they're the bad guys. It was her fault for not being skinnier and prettier than the one who just walked in the room."

I tried to address this before I went through a cable outage and lost my internet.

Wolf proudly admitted to hurting women, picking physical fights, beating up "losers", etc.
Wolf - if you can't understand why people might be upset with your actions, waving away ALL responsibility, deflecting blame to others, and crying foul when anyone calls you out on it... This is the behaviour pattern of a psychopath or sociopath.

I'd suggest you get help and/or change your ways but less than 1% of diagnosed x-paths ever do, as those people already believe they're near-perfect and have NO need to change for the sake of anyone else except their own self-interests.
People like that are the reason some women LOATHE all men.

My brain wants to fart now.

You can always try dressing like bob the builder

Never make a promise you can't keep.
Actively find someone to my standards instead of trying to mould them.
Be more tactful and sensitive in approaching situation.
Take into account the emotions and be more empathetic.

That's what I have learned so far and I will be moving forward with a new drug free positive outlook.

Wolf, I'm glad you're having this great moment of self discovery, really I am. But if you could somehow tie this all in to the topic......Or maybe start a thread about this...we could all bounce around ideas.....IDK....just a thought.

doesn't matter how many lists are made if they are not followed

Just not the right girls. I have never liked very masculine tough looking guys. while my husband is hairy, I like that he is not a super masculine guy. My first real love was not a masculine type guy either...and no, I am not gay.

True, true.

L.O.L.

If I was to prefer a muscular guy I'd want them to be the type of guy who achieves their physique via genuine hard physical labour (eg. construction worker or any sort of labourer). Not some pretty boy pretender wearing a tool belt who's never gotten his hands dirty before. The difference being that the former probably won't give a s**t that he's muscular.

Again, if I was to prefer a muscular guy, which I don't.

Problem being most construction workers don't need to be muscular, and they arent. There's so many tools for the job its something that can be done by anyone. There literally no job outside of selling fitness where being muscular comes with the field. Even axe men have become bland.

You can't achieve that physique through simply working, moving bricks isn't going to make you Arnold Schwarzenegger. Once again, a labourer is someone that does jobs like mixing cement, moving bricks and doing the physical work for tradesmen, there are plenty of jobs on a construction site from a quantity surveyor, architect, clerk of works, building contractors, general foreman, ganger, building operatives, ground worker, subcontractor, craft foreman, structural engineer to tradesmen.

Believe me, my hands have been covered in dirt, mortar and paint. I have had jobs where I have had my skin on my fingertips peel because the mortar has peeled it away. It cost £5'000 to achieve a City and guilds mastery in Construction crafts and that's something that I achieved. I don't have twenty years experience yet but I do a professional job, I'm getting my business off the ground and I have clients that are happy with the work I have done so far.


That will also be presented in customer satisfaction surveys and testimonials on my website and you will be able to find my business on the Trust Mark websites which means we are working to government standards and providing a fair service.

http://www.trustmark.org.uk/

Now I will ask, what do you do? Are you in the construction industry? Are you a fitness trainer? Personal trainers have to work at all hours. I suggest you shut up before you make claims about professions you have no experience or qualifications, you wouldn't know how hard either profession works so try to think before you talk.

My brother is a personal trainer but spent 3 years plumbing, he decided to do personal training because he wanted to do something he enjoys and he might eventually do something like physiotherapy. I don't see why you are making assumptions that all people have to fit your stereotypical or generalized labels and I don't think you should be making presumptions without any prior experience or qualifications in either professions.

Back to attacking anything that doesn't agree with you are we?

I'm not overly feminine facially but I've managed to find partners

if you don't conform strongly to gender norms you've got to make strength of character, modesty, intelligence, wit and kindness your forte

you can carve out a good niche with these characteristics as they're often in very short supply among the lookers

self-belief is the main thing though

Backstabbing isn't nice. In fact backstabbing is bad. Plus, being honest is what nice people do, not bad people. The only reason you'd want to be around loyal bad guys is if you were bad yourself.