Am I attractive?

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Most people are driven by their wanton desires and could care less how anyone else feels. I call it the careless generation. The world is a cold place where the caring have no place. At least there are some who continue to carry the torch for caring. We need to stop fighting each other and work together. Society does not work when everyone is fighting everyone else.

I just think what a wonderful world it would be without people. Honestly I am somewhat of a misanthropist. I guess that means I hate myself too. I am ashamed to be a part of the weak and pathetic human race. At least I admit it when everyone is just pretending that they want to be here. But suffice to say leaving this world probably make them happy so I am guess I am here for the long haul.

Yeah people have said this to me too. But do not sell yourself out. That is what that is. Not the route you want to go. It seems there are too many men who have no integrity or self-respect.

Couldn't of been stated better!

You are very attractive! Trust me on this one; I gurantee you all my girl friends would think you're an attractive guy. And most of them are good looking too, so I think that says a lot in itself.

However, being a nice guy and a gentleman only makes a man that much more attractive.
Doesn't matter what a guy looks like though physically if he's a jerk forget about it. A mean character makes even the most physically beautiful people look ugly as far as I'm concerned.

Seriously, I haven't read the other comments but if "anyone" here says that you aren't attractive they are probably just jealous.

Like I said though, just be a good guy! So many people on the internet underrate that quality for some reason, but for the majority of women this rule applys!
I'm 20, so I have friends who about half of them have different dates and relationships frequently. While pretty much the other half are in relatively longterm relationships.

And seriously I've heard it enough. Just about everytime a good looking guy ends up being a jerk, there is no way the women I know will be going on a second date with those types of men.

For women who do stay with a clear jerk, are superficial women and aren't worth your time anyways.
And there are plenty of women who are also attractive and good people.

And if you haven't met one yet and if you're a good guy, I'm sure you'll find her soon enough.

The sheer stupidity of this post makes me want to hurl.

Go f**k yourself.

Are you attractive??

Yes you are beautiful.

lol oh how i love simplistic patronising comments from those who believe in social fantasies

(You are one…)



Look. You're an a**hole. A self hating a**hole.

That is your problem. You hate life, you hate yourself, you hate women... and you're an a**hole.

Guess what? You can go f**k YOURself.

People here have been actually trying to help you, you miserable piece of s**t. And you get mad at THEM? f**k off.


I will give you a piece of advice, take it, ignore it, tell me off, what the f**k ever. Get, the f**k, over yourself. No one likes an ass, and you clearly are one. You need to get your damn head on straight before you could EVER be in a healthy relationship. And I'm telling ya, your head is not straight at ALL.

No one owes you anything. They owe you nothing. Nothing at all, ever. You need to figure that out and come to terms with it. Nothing, at all, is owed to you.

After you figure that s**t out... and get the f**k over yourself... maybe, try to work on realizing what you actually want in life. Not who... what. Do you want to create? Build? Sit in a cubicle? Whatever... figure it out, get good at something. Become an actual person that isn't duller than the broad side of a barn. And do stuff you actually enjoy for a change, start living your life.

Guess what happens when you do all of that? Guess. Holy s**t, people actually want to be part of your life.... because you actually want to be part of your life. Like your life? Someone out there will too.


But hey, you want to keep hating women, talking about wanting to beat them? You want to blame other people for your own miserable existence? Go for it, but no one is going to give a f**k. No one owes you s**t bro. And if all you have to offer is this vile putrid s**t attitude you've shown us here, no one wants anything to do with what you have to offer.

Your appearance is the LEAST of your concerns. Sure, women prefer attractive partners... but it usually isn't the primary factor in anything but casual romances. But for long term, many, many other factors are at play. What do you have to offer?

You want something from other people, what do YOU have to give them?

Right now it seems like you have a sh***y attitude and hate to offer. No one wants that crap. You need a better product.





Sorry if I've offended anyone else with my rough and foul language. I only meant to speak the same dialect as the OP.

Your a decent looking guy. A hair cut might be helpful, you would look better with shorter hair IMHO. A more toned body never hurt either, but you can have a six pack and still never get a girlfriend. Not trying to be an ass by the way sorry in advance.

If your not on sports team already that helps too. School teams if possible. Besides that you could be more outspoken.

I have no idea what type of person you are in real life but being friendly helps.

Friendliness doesn't cut it in relationships.

You just need a pat on the back and some time to pass. Find some hobbies to keep yourself busy and don't let this current state become permanent. Don't stop to meet people. Even if you have a 1000 friends, at least it is something. The more people you know, the higher your chances are of finding someone directly or indirectly that matches your personality.

To answer the OP:

You don't seem particularly handsome, but at least average or slightly above average I'd think. 5? 6? Also, you should probably chill out. If you can vent online and then play it cool IRL, fine. But you freak out around chicks like that and it'll send them packing no matter how hot you are.

Allow me to suggest something better for you:

Get yourself into a calmer emotional state, a better state of mind. Take a step back, assess all of your strengths, and take pride in each one. Then assess each of your weaknesses, and humbly accept all of them. Then improve what makes you good, and mitigate what makes you weak. Once you've managed to feel at ease with your own self, your interactions with people in general will improve, including women. Doesn't hurt to work out a bit either, 6 hours a week at the gym never killed anyone, but it's sure gotten quite a few laid.

If social graces aren't your forte, try to at least brush up on them to adequate levels. There's more ways for a man to be appealing than being charming and funny. "Sufficient" social skills go pretty far.

I've tried that, and it hasn't worked.

Jesus, why do girl treat me like crap?

looked you up but I can't tell how good looking you are because the only picture of your face you have a "i'm pissed" tone to it. It's also hard to tell what type of shape are you in.

I never had any luck with ladies, honestly I was repulsive to most of them. I've lost around 40 lbs. in a couple years. I'm not gonna say I'm a chick magnet, but I've gotten more attention from ladies, even have 8-9's wanting to go on dates with me, basically I can pick who I want to go out with, I thought that wasn't even possible.

Another reason you aren't having any luck is because of your "I can't improve, it's a waste of time" mentality. Seriously, if I was a girl, why the heck should I give you a chance with that attitude? That attitude is way worse then people saying you are a little overweight. What are you good at? Writing people say? Are you afraid of failing? Ask yourself that, it sounds like you are so afraid of failing you won't even attempt something you are passionate about. You only have a certain amount of time on the Earth...so what are you waiting for?

If you wanna attract a certain type of girl (confident, whatever you are looking for) you gotta put in some effort. Things aren't just going to come to you, you gotta make an effort to get to where you wanna be.

just from reading the last 2 pages, the OP is in no shape to be in a relationship anyways until he improves and stops insulting people trying to give him honest advice.

Question to the OP: Are you mad because you are afraid that people here are actually right? Serious question. You don't have to take our advice, but you getting mad at it shows you care and you think we are right...