How to use OKCupid (from an actual success story.)

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Thank you.

I just don't get what qualifies you to make some of the comments you do.

It's ok to disagree, but to be suggest things without having your own problems solved first is something that anybody can do.

I never said you were good or were not good at relationships. However, you've already came to the conclusion that I've never been in one with no evidence.

Well bud, perhaps I am and perhaps I am not. Come to whatever conclusion you want.

Problems? What problems? You misunderstand.

Do you really care what conclusion I come to? No. You don't. So, what's the problem then?

And you've missed my questions. Good old alpha thinking, you know, ask the questions and don't answer anybodys, pretty boring that.

This is just a suggestion - you're never going to converse with anyone 'like me' again, and if you meet anyone like me they'll probably take exception to you and crap on you from a great height - without you even knowing it. Yet, you insist on not listening, and not learning a thing. So rather than puff your chest out, and question my qualifications, why not learn something? Eh? It could save you your trip to Batangas just to get a shag (pretty pathetic IMO), two marriages, three children and an exclusion order when she presses your very easy-to-press-buttons and you finally snap and hit the cow. Or turning gay, in the end. It's all coming, bud.

But nooooooo, you've got to be Mr Right. Okay, okay, you win. I give up already. What's the prize? Oh yeah, nothing at all.

I've had my share of success here in the states.

My trip to batagnas is my choice to find a woman that is marriage material. It's not something that I need to do to get laid.

What do you think you can teach me? I'm curious about that as well. You claim that I'm the arrogant one but you say stuff like " ill crap on you"

Keep telling yourself that. You're so 'hungry' it drips through all of your bitter posts. It's obvious, for all to see!

You're a funny one. I never said 'I'll crap on you'. Don't be a silly billy.

You're not capable of this conversation. You lack respect, flexibility - and understanding of yourself. I hate to use the term 'pearls before swine', or even 'pearls before Nice Guys in Denial', so I won't.

Anyways BAR CLOSED no more free drinks at the last chance saloon.

Enjoy your destiny. It's your life, after all.

Keep telling myself what?

I'm hungry for what? Sex? Nah. My medications kill my sex drive.

Here's proof from a thread I started 2 months ago:

http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt237615.html

I'm really serious now, if you think you can teach me something than I want to see it.

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BAR CLOSED

Have A Nice Life

Exactly you can't back up what you said.

I'm sorry, I'm Keef and I sleep in a bath. No idea what you're on about.

Good night, whoever you are

Ok keef the white tiger.

Maybe she respects him for his morals, or his kindness to animals, or any of dozens of reasons why someone might deserve respect. You're being rather hard on yourself here.

My okcupid site is shut down.

I agree! Wonderful post Geekonychus.

And I also think it can be just as useful for women as men. I treat OkC basically as described in the OP and I have success with it. I don't think I get as many messages as other women do, but the quality of the messages I do get is higher, I'm guessing. By that I mean, I get people who are interested in ME sending me messages. Not just people who are interested in a version of me that I think more people might like.

I do not hide my quirkiness in my profile and the people who contact me don't mind that at all! I think a really important thing is that I'm not serious about it. Dating is supposed to be fun, and so should your online profile and messages be!

It makes little difference if they overlap, it is mutually exclusive in the minds of the masses, when a woman is browsing hundred of profiles she wouldn't pause on every profile analyzing stuff (oh this guy has a nerdy side but he is cool too..), she would quickly label the thing and goes on.

He's into traditional women, those usually don't value jobless men at all because their minds are too implemented into gender roles.

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Why should I respect someone for his job? What does a job do with someones quality? Exactly what should have changed about my partner, when he lost his job for a year, that I shouldnt have respected him during that time? Is that somehow changing the way he thinks, his oppinion toward certain topics, the person that he is? And when I will be at home with our baby for the first 1,5 years, as we have planned, do I have to fear as well, to deserve disrespect of him, because of him working, while I´m "worthlessly wasting my time" at home, not deserving respect from him, because of having no job during that time?

A job gives you money, nothing more. So that isnt totally unimportant when it comes to founding a family, but its not changing in any way, the person that you are. Saying that you want on purpose a "type of woman" ( ^^ ), that is a goldleecher and is not giving you any respect and credits for the person that you are, but only for the material benefits she gets from you... Do you really think you want to spend the rest of your life with such a person, having to fear for the rest of your life, that she will leave you for the next person, offering her more, of that what you want her to be interested in? The money her potential husband earns?

I dont get it, why you are blaming about the manhating woman, when in reality, you are the one saying, that man deserve no respect and have no own worth, and can only acchieve that with a certain number of money on their bank account. My oppinion about men, seems to be far better then yours.