27 Jan 2014, 1:47 am
mouthyb wrote:
aspiemike: Pretty much. There was only so long I wanted to look over and realize that I was having a great time and he was obsessing over me leaving. Plus all the passive aggressive comments about how I couldn't really mean what I was saying to him.
sly: I wouldn't rule out dating, but I would spend time in a realm in which you have competence to help build feelings of mastery and/or confidence. For instance, I am a bad Motherf***er at TF2--if you see my heavy coming, you might as well lay down and die (and usually, no one sees me coming. I like ambushes.) And god help the mothers who piss me off enough for me to switch to pyro.
On days where my obsessive thoughts about myself are a bit heavy, I kill the sh** out of people online for awhile. Or I spend time doing things I rock at which help reinforce my own feelings of being a competent human being. Your mileage may vary, but it's really important to realize that your insecurities are problems you have to deal with yourself, and that it takes time to get a handle on them.
sly: I wouldn't rule out dating, but I would spend time in a realm in which you have competence to help build feelings of mastery and/or confidence. For instance, I am a bad Motherf***er at TF2--if you see my heavy coming, you might as well lay down and die (and usually, no one sees me coming. I like ambushes.) And god help the mothers who piss me off enough for me to switch to pyro.
On days where my obsessive thoughts about myself are a bit heavy, I kill the sh** out of people online for awhile. Or I spend time doing things I rock at which help reinforce my own feelings of being a competent human being. Your mileage may vary, but it's really important to realize that your insecurities are problems you have to deal with yourself, and that it takes time to get a handle on them.
dang that sounds rough, i haven't had that problem when i'm with them i have a blast
its when im alone and have nothing to do.
you sound fun
yeah i have some things like that . skyrim for example currently waiting for the next fallout or elder scrolls. i like multiplayer games but i can't bring myself to play them alone and i have no friends one one kinda, and i got to play this need free to play mmo with him and it was fun but its not often hes on when i am.
theres a drought of games right now i only have battlefiled 4 and free games on the ps4 i have minecraft on pc but i have to be in the mood.
really need another fallout/elderscrolls
i tend to watch youtube, and shows, but those people have lives and can't produce a steady flow for me lol
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