Ugh, this discussion is a hodgepodge mess. In my opinion, the only way "jerks" get more women is because the ones they do get break up with them more often because they're tired of being treated poorly so it always seems like they're with someone new. But that's not what relationships are about (unless you're a perv who only cares about one thing). Relationships should be about mutual trust, love and respect. A partnership with someone you enjoy being with. And if you're act like a jerk to get women, you're straight up lying to them from the get go. What happens if you truly fall in love with this person and they break up with you cause of the way you acted? Just be yourself and if they can't accept you for who you are, then they're not worth being with. That's all.