Dating websites are not for males - scientific proof.

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sly279
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14 Jan 2016, 3:52 am

Out where I live being the sub Area of my town, yes they have pretty much all been replaced by women. Even the bank manager was himself eventually replaced with a woman.

The stores, fast food places, restaurants : all the cashier and waiters are women, the cooks, stockroom workers are women. Use to be mostly men or a mix. Mostly now teenage attractive women.

I really dislike being called a liar just becaus you don't want to admit your wrong about something that doesn't effect you, have no way of knowing what I say isn't true and no reason to dismiss.

You don't live here, shop at these stores, eat at those fast food and restaurant, bank at the bank.

So how is it you know more then me about what goes on where I Live? Man I must be super crazy of I'm imagining all those men as women. To refabricate the world as such would require super super level of craziness, and my family and friends see it too it must be a viral outbreak.



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14 Jan 2016, 3:53 am

Or possible there's employ,net shifts that vary based off location.but that'd just be too logical. Everywhere is the same as everywhere else.



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14 Jan 2016, 4:35 am

The answer to all of this is MGTOW.



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14 Jan 2016, 3:02 pm

I never said, nor implied 'you're a liar'.
I'm out.


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14 Jan 2016, 3:59 pm

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Go read lots of threads in this sub forum guys are constantly told they can't and that it must be why their not getting dats.

On a broader term guys who reject a woman because she's fat have always been bashed in the media. And it's become the stereotype of what all men are like.

It's not fair to bash men who only dat thin women but then defend women who only date thin men.


Can you provide a concrete example of this? I have lived in the US for many years, and have barely even seen any fat women in the media. I have seen lots of movies where fat guys get thin women, though. I think you have it backward.

Don't you think all the fat bitter women you referred to above are being told by their friends to lower their standards as well?

I don't even know what the sides are here. I'm saying there are billions of people on the planet who are all different, and each deserves to be treated as an individual. I know this for a fact: I'm an overweight man, and no one has ever once told me I'm not allowed to be attracted to thin women. I can't even conceive of that happening.

Start posting about how your lonely and such and your start conceiving it a lot.

Just in this thread I believe they told me and outrider we can't. I'm told it a lot . I don't even go for thin women. They just assume I do.


I do not see anywhere in this thread where everyone was telling you or anyone else that they 'cant' be attracted to what they want. If anything it might be some of your attitude that might lower your chances of getting a relationship, but even if someone here tries to imply you can't or shouldn't do something why do you listen to them...no one here has any control over what you do with your life. But really even a woman who doesn't expect some well to do guy with their own house, car and well paying career are going to be turned away by someone who seems very bitter all around. I mean if you just assume every women fits your generalizations then how will you mask your disdain for women if you did end up in a conversation with someone potentially intrested?

I mean granted when I got with my boyfriend he mentioned some crappy dates, and things he found difficult in finding a relationship so he wasn't just pretending their aren't picky shallow women....but if he had talked my ear off about everything he hates about women in a generalizing manner like you do I wouldn't have wanted to see him again as I wouldn't want to be around someone who's constantly saying negative things about the female sex which I did not choose to be born as.

Point is it makes sense to vent, hell I can even be caught complaining about terrible yuppie women and petty ones that seem they never mentally graduated highschool or b*tchy ones but constantly taking the most negative traits you've seen in some women and applying it to them all is a bit unfair. Do you like if someone negatively generalizes males across the board? and constantly contradicts anything a guys say about themselves with more generalizations as if the generalizations overrule the individual persons actual behavior, personality and way they see them-self.


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14 Jan 2016, 4:22 pm

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The answer to all of this is MGTOW



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14 Jan 2016, 7:06 pm

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Because it's not ok for a obese man to want a thin woman.
So it shouldn't be ok for a obese woman to want a thin man

That is equality. Applying the same ideas equally on both genders.

It's ok for anybody to want anybody (with the possible exception of pedophiles); it's not ok for anybody to expect anybody. If you're fat and only attracted to thin people, then you'd better hope that there's not only a thin person out there who's attracted to fat people, but one who's single and whose personality fits yours. Otherwise you're SOL regardless of your gender.



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14 Jan 2016, 7:11 pm

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Out where I live being the sub Area of my town, yes they have pretty much all been replaced by women. Even the bank manager was himself eventually replaced with a woman.

The stores, fast food places, restaurants : all the cashier and waiters are women, the cooks, stockroom workers are women. Use to be mostly men or a mix. Mostly now teenage attractive women.

I really dislike being called a liar just becaus you don't want to admit your wrong about something that doesn't effect you, have no way of knowing what I say isn't true and no reason to dismiss.

You don't live here, shop at these stores, eat at those fast food and restaurant, bank at the bank.

So how is it you know more then me about what goes on where I Live? Man I must be super crazy of I'm imagining all those men as women. To refabricate the world as such would require super super level of craziness, and my family and friends see it too it must be a viral outbreak.


Whenever people present the theory that women are paid less than men for the same work, someone always snarks, 'If that were true, all of the businesses would fire all of their male employees and replace them with women.' :lol:



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14 Jan 2016, 7:13 pm

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The answer to all of this is MGTOW.

I *love* MGTOW. For the ones who take it seriously, it gets some really unpleasant men away from the women in their local populations.



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14 Jan 2016, 7:32 pm

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Why do women want to be put on a pedestal?
It's disgusting.

Who said women want to be on a pedestal? The pedestal experience is a form of confinement and a form of control on the part of whoever built the pedestal.



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14 Jan 2016, 7:49 pm

Claradoon wrote:
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Why do women want to be put on a pedestal?
It's disgusting.

Who said women want to be on a pedestal? The pedestal experience is a form of confinement and a form of control on the part of whoever built the pedestal.

QFT. I left my first boyfriend because he wanted to put me on a pedestal. Pedestals are uncomfortable; you cannot take a metaphorical full step in any direction, and chances are good that you'll fall off or be knocked off by the one who put you there if you do. I chose to jump down and land on my feet, instead.



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14 Jan 2016, 9:38 pm

LKL wrote:
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The answer to all of this is MGTOW.

I *love* MGTOW. For the ones who take it seriously, it gets some really unpleasant men away from the women in their local populations.


I had never heard of this before. I went to the mgtow website and I'm honestly not sure if it's satire or not. It's basically a bunch of guys who've decided to be gay so they can be jerks without any women complaining? I must be missing something.

If not, that is the most hilarious social movement I've ever heard of.


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15 Jan 2016, 3:06 am

Claradoon wrote:
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Why do women want to be put on a pedestal?
It's disgusting.

Who said women want to be on a pedestal? The pedestal experience is a form of confinement and a form of control on the part of whoever built the pedestal.


Control? That sounds like a ridiculous claim. I'd guess it would be more closely related to obsessive thoughts, and those have nothing to do with power games and control. :roll:



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15 Jan 2016, 5:50 am

women get 50+ messages a day, they can pretty much just pick and choose who they want to talk to.

obviously they're going to talk to the one who can best hold their interest.. science isn't really needed.


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15 Jan 2016, 11:13 am

black0441 wrote:
LKL wrote:
xile123 wrote:
The answer to all of this is MGTOW.

I *love* MGTOW. For the ones who take it seriously, it gets some really unpleasant men away from the women in their local populations.


I had never heard of this before. I went to the mgtow website and I'm honestly not sure if it's satire or not. It's basically a bunch of guys who've decided to be gay so they can be jerks without any women complaining? I must be missing something.

If not, that is the most hilarious social movement I've ever heard of.


They're not gay; in fact, they seem to spend most of their time on the internet complaining about how evil women are. But they've decided that dolls, their hands, whatever are better than real women because real women are too much trouble to deal with.

Unsurprisingly, most women who hear about this movement are **perfectly ok** with those particular guys staying away from women.



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15 Jan 2016, 4:57 pm

886 wrote:
women get 50+ messages a day, they can pretty much just pick and choose who they want to talk to.

obviously they're going to talk to the one who can best hold their interest.. science isn't really needed.


It's not true for all women. I would get 3 or 4 at the most.



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