Romantic loneliness in men

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Yes, fair point about prions. What is that on the right of the brains? I can get chipper, Chinese and Indian food delivered here, that's it!

Do you mean Fish and Chips when you say "chipper?"

Yes fish and chips, also pizza, whole chickens/anything that can be deep fried.

never had a deep-fried pizza before

Lol, neither have I, I should have wrote "pizza (oven baked), fish and chips and whole chickens, battered mars bars/ anything that can be deep fried.

somebody should deep-fry a pizza. i'd be first in line to eat it.

Scotland do deep fried pizzas
http://fxcuisine.com/Default.asp?Display=112

^^^OMG
I want one. wish I lived where they served those things.

One can always learn how to make one themselves. It's probably cheaper too.

I've been known to burn water.

Reflecting back, and thinking on this question, I have to say that I found that feelings of loneliness are most-likely when one is made very busy within their life, such that practically little to no time exists for social-interactions, due to spending much time needing to concentrate on activities like working or keeping a job. Another one is when you are so far ahead of the crowd in your thinking that nobody else can relate to you.

Dealing with "loneliness" I have found is best done by simply exploring additional communities beyond your current one. Sometimes you will even need to go to an entirely different state rather than merely another city over to find any differences, but you will find that certain locations do in fact, have different enough communities, such that you eventually find an area that you like, with people that you like, and whose population is receptive to and wants to keep in touch with you. Wait, wait, just noticed the word "romantic" within the thread-title...

...basically my first paragraph. I used to be interested in this stuff but I now have a "higher calling" I guess that makes me feel compelled to figure out how to help re-structure society so that everyone can fulfill their Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs and Desires.

I'm 37 and have never had any kind of romantic relationship. I wasn't diagnosed with Aspergers until I was 28 and had never even heard of it prior to that so growing up, I had no idea why I was the way I was. I always thought I'd grow out of it. I've never had more than a couple of friends at any given time and have never been a part of a group of friends. I've always been frustrated around some holidays because the friends I do/did have would have a group of friends. So a holiday is coming up and I ask Friend A if he wants to get together and he says he can't because he has plans with his big group of friends, so I ask Friend B and he has the same situation so I'm left alone. I don't really have any friends right now, so my life consists of coming home from work and staying home and watching TV until I go to bed. On Fridays, I go to my brother's after work where we just watch TV or a movie at his place. Not much, but at least it's someone I can talk to.