Why do Normies always blame men for their lack of dating?

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I think this is why PUA lost ground in early 2010's, and was superseded by the Red Pill. (Or MGTOW, for men who lost interest in women, once they learned the truth.) PUA is about using scripted statements and actions (a.k.a. "game"). The Red Pill is about understanding the dark nature of women---as well as men, like the alpha/beta divide---and leveraging it in your favor. It also teaches men about society: that in today's world, being a woman is like playing the game of life on god mode. You can even use the Red Pill to lose a woman you're not attracted to: by acting beta with her (which is actually more honest than stringing her along).

Old PUA forums are still around, but they're shadows of their former selves, and are only good as static reference material. Most of their members migrated over to Red Pill or MGTOW. The latter two forums are free and peer-to-peer, rather than being operated by a specific PUA writer.

I'm going to warn you now. Don't. Just don't. Understand something about this Hurt. You have two options at this point and I mean it. You can take this advice rationalize in your head that you do want a partner before you die, go find a man who fits this exact description. And it doesn't matter if they are the one or if you met them in the coffee shop or while going to the bathroom pick one figure out within the first week if its going to potentially work and if not drop if so stick with it and make it work.

"I'm sure you all remember the dialogue, but it's Season 3, Episode 5 (Love and/or Marriage).

At one point, BoJack is talking to Taneisha in the bathroom. She asks if he means for her to "settle".
Yes, thank you, exactly. Settle. Because otherwise you're just gonna get older and harder, and more alone. And you're gonna do everything you can to fill that hole, with friends, and your career, and meaningless sex, but the hole doesn't get filled. And one day, you're gonna look around and you're gonna realize that everybody loves you...but nobody likes you. And that is the loneliest feeling in the world."

OR you can disregard this advice and get into this stupid biology redpill s**t that is pandora's box and will destroy you. You will realize that the world has lied to you, that your own mind has BS you for years, and come to understand just how pathetic and robotic almost every single woman who doesn't get married at a semi young age really is. And I mean that with a serious tone because this s**t is real. And it's mind shattering to a lot of guys(hence the anger) and even some women who read it. But if you want the truth like I said its just E mostly. Women feel things on a stronger level than men and society caters to it at a young age, it's always validated as true and because of that men who can manipulate those feelings to keep women on emotional highs are desired even tho its acutally emotional manipultion but ok rant over.

Just take my advice or don't and go google the best of the rational male year one and start with the hypergamy section while ur at it. But it will break your mind just a forewarning.

Yes, animated talking horses are the go-to source when you want the truth about relationships...

Hahaha haha down vote and disregard the quote even if it's true. Just because it's from an animated show doesn't make it any worse. But continue to laugh I enjoy sheep like comments.

Hurt, thank you for explaining (i can actually follow this thread now!)

If red pill is reality and blue pill is delusion, I would think red pill would be better in all cases (even in the matrix; wasn't that the point?).

Ah yes but what if the person handing you the red pill is deluded and is only offering a further distorted version of reality?

I think the red pill community relies on studies like this one http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/ ... ealth.html instead of what individuals say.

They think from big data perspective and judge the genders based on that.

That's not just it though. There's more to the red pill world than that. I'd say most NTs are focussed on material things. It's kind of obvious that money is a huge motivator.

But do most of us here want to live like that? I don't. I'd rather sidestep that rat race and have a peaceful life.

Yeah back to my point about what the red pill world is about. Focussing intensely on the negative. Taking the worst of society and applying it to all society and becoming bitter and fearful of affection because it could end in pain.

I actually know a lot of women who live like that too strangely enough. Who won't take a chance on trusting another because they've been burned or they've been told they'll get burned.

That's not what it is about at all. It's about examining human behaviour and trying to figure out the truth. It just so happens that the truth seems to be quite "negative". I try not to view it as negative though.. You could say that it's quite negative that lions kill other animals, but that's what lions do, most of us don't have any emotional attatchment to the behaviour of lions. It just merely is.

It's not examining human behavior, it's examining the western philosophy of human nature. Why the distinction? There's two cultures that are matriarchal in nature in existence today and they operate nothing like what is described in the article. The study shows more about the culture the researchers came from than anything that's actually 'natural' and that's because nature isn't black and white, it's a whole host of competing strategies that are as varied as there are living organisms on the planet.

That's not what it is about at all. It's about examining human behaviour and trying to figure out the truth. It just so happens that the truth seems to be quite "negative". I try not to view it as negative though.. You could say that it's quite negative that lions kill other animals, but that's what lions do, most of us don't have any emotional attatchment to the behaviour of lions. It just merely is.

You surely can't deny the fact that there are young men out there that are taking this information and fuelling their fears and making those fears worse. All they expect now is to be ill treated, lied to and tricked by women.

Even if you don't feel that way yourself, you can see comments like that on this forum and on red pill websites. "Don't get too involved with a woman because she'll just leech off your resources and dump you and leave you with nothing," seems to be a recurring theme.

I wasn't the one who linked the article, what I talked about was way beyond any one article. I disagree, hypergamy is present in every culture on the planet.