17 Sep 2017, 11:46 am
K4NNW wrote:
nomoretears wrote:
K4NNW wrote:
The only issues that I see would be lack of talkativeness (although that could go either way, depending on the guy) and the social anxiety/panic attacks. Could it be that these guys weren't wanting to put in the effort to continue a relationship? Or possibly they just expected you to be bubbly and outgoing, or to become that way after being in a relationship?
Obviously, I'm no relationship expert, and I may be way off. Who knows?
Obviously, I'm no relationship expert, and I may be way off. Who knows?
Thats def one of my problems. Sometimes my panic attacks come out as anger. So there i an, an adult having a tantrum.
Two of my relationships were at least partially long distance. Im not the best talker. Thats why my exs comment hurt. I cant make myself bubbly unless i take drugs. Sadly, people like me much beyter when im under the influence.
That makes sense. It sucks that folks like you more with the drugs than without, though
It's ok, i'm at the acceptance phase. One guy told me the real me came out when i was drunk, and he liked to take me to bars and buy me drink after drink. I was on a pain med for awhile, and people seemed to like me. It was the first time people really seemed to enjoy me. Things were better at work, too. People could tell I wasn't on meds anymore.
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17 Sep 2017, 12:11 pm
nomoretears wrote:
K4NNW wrote:
nomoretears wrote:
K4NNW wrote:
The only issues that I see would be lack of talkativeness (although that could go either way, depending on the guy) and the social anxiety/panic attacks. Could it be that these guys weren't wanting to put in the effort to continue a relationship? Or possibly they just expected you to be bubbly and outgoing, or to become that way after being in a relationship?
Obviously, I'm no relationship expert, and I may be way off. Who knows?
Obviously, I'm no relationship expert, and I may be way off. Who knows?
Thats def one of my problems. Sometimes my panic attacks come out as anger. So there i an, an adult having a tantrum.
Two of my relationships were at least partially long distance. Im not the best talker. Thats why my exs comment hurt. I cant make myself bubbly unless i take drugs. Sadly, people like me much beyter when im under the influence.
That makes sense. It sucks that folks like you more with the drugs than without, though
It's ok, i'm at the acceptance phase. One guy told me the real me came out when i was drunk, and he liked to take me to bars and buy me drink after drink. I was on a pain med for awhile, and people seemed to like me. It was the first time people really seemed to enjoy me. Things were better at work, too. People could tell I wasn't on meds anymore.
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