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25 Mar 2018, 2:04 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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Then why we see bully men married with the same
women for years all the time?


Because a girl with very low self-esteem, living with a bully men, will see her self-esteem going even lower, because of the bullying... until the day she realizes she is actually not that peace of s**t the men is claiming through his insults.



And why you are always assuming that the girl in this case has a low self-esteem issue? Who teaches you this nonsense?

I am talking about men who are bully with everyone except with their women - we are not talking about domestic violence here.


1.Observation, reading teaches me, it appears also very logical to me
2.A bully is a bully, not suddenly nice with his women



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25 Mar 2018, 3:26 pm

LaetiBlabla wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
LaetiBlabla wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Then why we see bully men married with the same
women for years all the time?


Because a girl with very low self-esteem, living with a bully men, will see her self-esteem going even lower, because of the bullying... until the day she realizes she is actually not that peace of s**t the men is claiming through his insults.



And why you are always assuming that the girl in this case has a low self-esteem issue? Who teaches you this nonsense?

I am talking about men who are bully with everyone except with their women - we are not talking about domestic violence here.


1.Observation, reading teaches me, it appears also very logical to me
2.A bully is a bully, not suddenly nice with his women



What I remember from school, male bullies are often not nasty with girls - and girls didn't have any problem with them.



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25 Mar 2018, 3:32 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
LaetiBlabla wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Then why we see bully men married with the same
women for years all the time?


Because a girl with very low self-esteem, living with a bully men, will see her self-esteem going even lower, because of the bullying... until the day she realizes she is actually not that peace of s**t the men is claiming through his insults.



And why you are always assuming that the girl in this case has a low self-esteem issue? Who teaches you this nonsense?

I am talking about men who are bully with everyone except with their women - we are not talking about domestic violence here.
I thought you meant bullying the wife too. You were not clear. :tongue:

I am sticking my tongue out at you, by the way, not offering to lick your face. Some of these smilies could do with being a bit clearer as to their meanings too :D .


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25 Mar 2018, 3:32 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
LaetiBlabla wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Then why we see bully men married with the same
women for years all the time?


Because a girl with very low self-esteem, living with a bully men, will see her self-esteem going even lower, because of the bullying... until the day she realizes she is actually not that peace of s**t the men is claiming through his insults.



And why you are always assuming that the girl in this case has a low self-esteem issue? Who teaches you this nonsense?

I am talking about men who are bully with everyone except with their women - we are not talking about domestic violence here.

If a guy treats everyone like s**t, he's bound to treat his partner like s**t at some point too. He only treats her well as long as he's happy and he's getting something from her. At some point he may have a bad day and take it out on her. He may get jealous and become irrationally paranoid that she's cheating, then comes the abuse. If someone's an a**hole it will eventually come out. If the girl doesn't have low self-esteem, she just hasn't learned about people yet... i.e. she's naive and/or delusional.



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25 Mar 2018, 3:35 pm

NoClearMind53 wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
LaetiBlabla wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Then why we see bully men married with the same
women for years all the time?


Because a girl with very low self-esteem, living with a bully men, will see her self-esteem going even lower, because of the bullying... until the day she realizes she is actually not that peace of s**t the men is claiming through his insults.



And why you are always assuming that the girl in this case has a low self-esteem issue? Who teaches you this nonsense?

I am talking about men who are bully with everyone except with their women - we are not talking about domestic violence here.

If a guy treats everyone like s**t, he's bound to treat his partner like s**t at some point too. He only treats here well because as long as he's happy and he's getting something from her. At some point he may have a bad day and take it out on her. He may get jealous and become irrationally paranoid that she's cheating, then comes the abuse. If someone's an as*hole it will eventually come out. If the girl doesn't have low self-esteem, she just hasn't learned about people yet... i.e. she's naive and/or delusional.
I agree, a lot of women are this delusional though.


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25 Mar 2018, 3:38 pm

fluffysaurus wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
LaetiBlabla wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Then why we see bully men married with the same
women for years all the time?


Because a girl with very low self-esteem, living with a bully men, will see her self-esteem going even lower, because of the bullying... until the day she realizes she is actually not that peace of s**t the men is claiming through his insults.



And why you are always assuming that the girl in this case has a low self-esteem issue? Who teaches you this nonsense?

I am talking about men who are bully with everyone except with their women - we are not talking about domestic violence here.
I thought you meant bullying the wife too. You were not clear. :tongue:

I am sticking my tongue out at you, by the way, not offering to lick your face. Some of these smilies could do with being a bit clearer as to their meanings too :D .


I would never have thought of it as a licking-offering face if you didn't mention it. :|

Pervs....



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25 Mar 2018, 3:49 pm

^ :lol: :lol: :lol:


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25 Mar 2018, 3:51 pm

NoClearMind53 wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
LaetiBlabla wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Then why we see bully men married with the same
women for years all the time?


Because a girl with very low self-esteem, living with a bully men, will see her self-esteem going even lower, because of the bullying... until the day she realizes she is actually not that peace of s**t the men is claiming through his insults.



And why you are always assuming that the girl in this case has a low self-esteem issue? Who teaches you this nonsense?

I am talking about men who are bully with everyone except with their women - we are not talking about domestic violence here.

If a guy treats everyone like s**t, he's bound to treat his partner like s**t at some point too. He only treats here well because as long as he's happy and he's getting something from her. At some point he may have a bad day and take it out on her. He may get jealous and become irrationally paranoid that she's cheating, then comes the abuse. If someone's an as*hole it will eventually come out. If the girl doesn't have low self-esteem, she just hasn't learned about people yet... i.e. she's naive and/or delusional.


It's possible ....very possible , but it's not always the case.

The immorality I am talking about doesn't always comes in form of a violent caveman with anger issues, that's just one example of a "guy morally worse than you".

Let's take for example such as corrupt politicians or a drug lords, these men may be charming and hence, despite being far worse than us morally, are doing far better than us in dating and relationships.



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25 Mar 2018, 4:35 pm

^^like trump? he has a beautiful wife despite his disrespectful language and manners.

We have no idea of their real relationship. If I had to bet, i doubt she loves him or he loves her. I bet there is no more than money and theatre in their relationship.