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karathraceandherspecialdestiny
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10 Jun 2018, 9:50 pm

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Women call their vagina the c word all the time, it’s just another word for vagina now same as the p word. It’s not polite words but it’s not negative unless used in negative way. Like man she’s just a c word or what c words, but saying she has a c word isn’t negative.

Black people use the n-word all the time, that doesn't change the fact that lots of white people still use it negatively as a slur, just as men often still use the c-word against women like was done here in this thread. There was no need for it.

Just because some women use the word doesn't make it OK for men to throw it back at us when they are mad, like Peacesells did.

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10 Jun 2018, 10:27 pm

It’s like the old adage: One can mess with one’s little brother....but one outside the family BETTER not mess with that little brother unless they want serious harm to come to him.

White people can’t can a black person the “N” word—but black people can. That’s just reality. Accept it.

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10 Jun 2018, 11:22 pm

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Nobody is looking for a fancy dinner but come on mate....step up your game. Donuts unless it happened like GF said.

They are already in an established relationship - this is not a first time date.

Yes it was not a smart idea, if a girl invites me to a donut , ok I would let it pass as is, I wouldn't make a fuss out of it like "OH how dare you invite ME to a donut? " or gives a silent treatment . It's just a little thing that doesn't deserve a drama over it, If I still hungry I would just make a sandwich at home later.

And remember that 10 minutes before we went into the donut shops she said she wanted a donut. Why would you make a fuss if you asked for a donut and then someone gave you a donut?

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Making a drama out of it as if he did something sinister is very stupid - and concerning; this leads to a walking-on-eggshells life.

I won't walk on eggshells because then she'll expect me to do it all the time.

Okay here's the way I see it:

You already know that she has a habit of snacking before meals. So you knew that.

You had plans and were on the way to a restaurant.

She passed a donut shop on the way to the restaurant and wanted a donut before her meal. As stated before, you already know she has this habit.

But you said no because you were on the way to the restaurant.

You found out the restaurant was closed so you left.

As you passed the donut shop again, you bought her the donut.

Yeah, I spoke to her about it. She said she wanted the donut as a before dinner snack. Even though snacking before dinner is a foreign concept for me, it's something she likes to do so I down have a problem with it.

At the time I didn't realise that was her plan. She didn't tell me before or after. I wasn't mad at her for wanting more food, I was mad at her for not telling me what she wanted. I was mad at her for getting mad at me and not telling me the reason why.

I told her before during and after that conflict that if she gets mad at me she has to tell me the reason why. Even as she gave me the silent treatment I told her I didn't know why she was mad at me and as I don't know what the problem is, it's impossible for me to solve it.

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So what I got out of this was that you got her the donut as a cheap replacement for the dinner she was expecting.

It's not a question of cheap. The money wasn't a concern for me. If she'd told me she wanted to go to a restaurant I would have gladly paid for it.

I should probably mention that the place I was originally planning to take her was also a dessert place. In my mind I thought I was just substituting one dessert for another.

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11 Jun 2018, 12:07 am

Luhluhluh wrote:

RetroGamer87 wrote:

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HistoryGal wrote:

Nobody is looking for a fancy dinner but come on mate....step up your game. Donuts unless it happened like GF said.

And remember that 10 minutes before we went into the donut shops she said she wanted a donut. Why would you make a fuss if you asked for a donut and then someone gave you a donut?

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Making a drama out of it as if he did something sinister is very stupid - and concerning; this leads to a walking-on-eggshells life.

I won't walk on eggshells because then she'll expect me to do it all the time.

Luhluhluh wrote:

So what I got out of this was that you got her the donut as a cheap replacement for the dinner she was expecting.

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

^ It is still utter ridiculous to make a such fuss over a missed meal.

I wouldn't blame her for making a fuss if she had asked to go to a restaurant and I refused. The point is she didn't ask.

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11 Jun 2018, 12:26 am

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Sure it just wasn't PMS. You do not want to talk to me a week before my period.

I don't know whether or not she has PMS. Is there a way I can tell?

My psychologist suggested her mood may have been altered by her birth control pills.

BCP are evil. When I take them I get extremely depressed, gain weight, lose my sex drive and it changes the way I act towards my partner. Normally I’m quite independent and we do our own things and everyone is happy. When on the pill I get super clingy, want my boyfriend to anticipate my every desire and get really upset when he doesn’t. It makes me feel abandoned, like he doesn’t love and appreciate me. These changes happen slowly so it’s hard to even recognize that it’s happening. Most doctors won’t even mention the possibility of these horrible side effects.

If you want to understand female cycles there’s a book called Taking Charge of Your Fertility. There are only 5 days during a cycle that it’s possible for a woman to get pregnant. If you really want to avoid pregnancy they advise avoiding sex during these times even when using birth control, which is never 100% effective. I know you don’t want a baby now but having her on the pill just might be making your relationship harder than it needs to be.

Sounds like a good idea but I have some questions.

1. How many days do sperm live for? Does this number of days need to be added to the 5 days?
2. Aren't the 5 days she's fertile for coincide with the 5 days in which she has the most sexual desire?

If the answer to the second question is Yes I might be fighting her off with a stick for 5 days per month. Before she went on the pill she had quite a high sex drive.

Meanwhile, the period in which she's not fertile would include 5 days of menstruation and 5 days of PMSing. Some girls have sexual desire during their period but not this one. So that's 15 days of the month we can't have sex.

I'm not sure if the calendar technique will be effective if we can only have sex when she doesn't want it and if we can't have sex when she really really wants to. Especially since she already desires kids and she desires kids even more (and desires sex even more) while she's ovulating.

Before she went on the pill her sex drive was so high while she was ovulating that there were times when I had to literally fight her off because I was worried she would conceive.

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11 Jun 2018, 12:27 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Retro, does she have a job?

At-stay-home partners often develop immature patterns.

Yes she has a job.

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11 Jun 2018, 12:32 am

So is the dick a misandrist slur for a penis?

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11 Jun 2018, 2:56 am

karathraceandherspecialdestiny wrote:

sly279 wrote:

it's sexist only if used in an objectification process like "she is a c**t/b***h". It's not the same if i call someone a dick, a nutsack, or if I say he has a dick or a nutsack. Former is the sexist insult, the latter is the state of the matter unless he's a eunuch.

Also, it depends on the area where one's from. c**t can be used for men as well, I've only heard it in that form.

You have a history of calling male members here who disagree with your viewing of the male-female relations misogynists and let me remind you that the TOS here protect both genders.

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11 Jun 2018, 3:18 am

karathraceandherspecialdestiny wrote:

The fact that you use anti-woman slurs when you are upset says otherwise.

If I started calling people the n-word and then tried to claim it was because I was upset and not because I have racist tendencies that come out when I am emotional people would be right to point out my BS.

The words you choose say a lot about how your mind works. You chose the worst word you can direct at women for a reason, and that reason was to express contempt at an entire gender. That's how it came across, and you know that and you showed that you knew it by changing your wording to "vagina" when trying to claim you're not being misogynistic. Just admit your language choice was definitely misogynistic.

c**t is not anti-woman slut, is just slur for vagina which I used because I was very angry, if I were talking with a guy I would have said cock. I have also told people not to be a dick on these same forums, so I guess that I am a misandrist. :lol:

I can post a hundred videos of people starting using slur of all kinds as soon as they get angry, it's a point easily proven.
Stop trying to use ad hominems against me to make up for your lack of argumentations.

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11 Jun 2018, 4:57 am

kraftiekortie wrote:

I think Retro is okay. He can take the “heat.”

Cook her some steak next time

I think she would like that.

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11 Jun 2018, 5:22 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

So is the dick a misandrist slur for a penis?

The c word has more shock value than dick. Using the c word is more likely to escalate an argument too.

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11 Jun 2018, 5:32 am

domineekee wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

So is the dick a misandrist slur for a penis?

The c word has more shock value than dick. Using the c word is more likely to escalate an argument too.

Oh my, you got shocked because I said c**t to mean vagina during a heated argument. I must be the reincarnation of Hitler and Elliot Rodgers.

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11 Jun 2018, 5:38 am

PeaceSells...relax, we won.

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11 Jun 2018, 5:39 am

Peacesells wrote:

domineekee wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

So is the dick a misandrist slur for a penis?

The c word has more shock value than dick. Using the c word is more likely to escalate an argument too.

Oh my, you got shocked because I said c**t to mean vagina during a heated argument. I must be the reincarnation of Hitler and Elliot Rodgers.

No, you're the reincarnation of Mussolini, since you're Italian you know.

And I am the reincarnation of Saddam Hussein's grandfather.

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11 Jun 2018, 5:49 am

domineekee wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

So is the dick a misandrist slur for a penis?

The c word has more shock value than dick. Using the c word is more likely to escalate an argument too.

If I call him a c**t, is that misogynist or misandric?

Or misagynandric? Misandrigynist?

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11 Jun 2018, 5:59 am

This is not a win for anyone!

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