The_Face_of_Boo
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12 Dec 2018, 1:10 pm
12 Dec 2018, 1:10 pm
The_Face_of_Boo
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12 Dec 2018, 1:12 pm
kraftiekortie wrote:
I happen to KNOW that Isabella and Hurtloam are two very substantial women. Both have had their trials in life. Both have overcome them.
No joke.
The way to be successful is to STAY AWAY from the singles' scene. And possibly stay away from online dating sites, too.
No joke.
The way to be successful is to STAY AWAY from the singles' scene. And possibly stay away from online dating sites, too.
But they are still guuurls, and they a lot of cooties.
12 Dec 2018, 1:15 pm
12 Dec 2018, 1:16 pm
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
ezbzbfcg2 wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
There are Aspie women who are absolute airheads, too.
Very true. Two of them are posting on this very page right now.
...Relax, that's a joke!
Hmmmm.....is it?
I laughed:)
12 Dec 2018, 1:18 pm
It's always excellent to have a sense of humor. I have to tell myself that all the time! 
12 Dec 2018, 1:50 pm
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
ezbzbfcg2 wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
There are Aspie women who are absolute airheads, too.
Very true. Two of them are posting on this very page right now.
...Relax, that's a joke!
Hmmmm.....is it?
Last week I was called a birdbrain, so I challenge you to a duel.
(I'll fight with my cooties and cushions and their non-matching drapes).
12 Dec 2018, 1:53 pm
kraftiekortie wrote:
I happen to KNOW that Isabella and Hurtloam are two very substantial women. Both have had their trials in life. Both have overcome them. No joke.
Thanks, Korts! You're always such a logical gentleman! (((Triple hugs)))
The_Face_of_Boo
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12 Dec 2018, 3:07 pm
IsabellaLinton wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
ezbzbfcg2 wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
There are Aspie women who are absolute airheads, too.
Very true. Two of them are posting on this very page right now.
...Relax, that's a joke!
Hmmmm.....is it?
Last week I was called a birdbrain, so I challenge you to a duel.
(I'll fight with my cooties and cushions and their non-matching drapes).
Airhead Cushion fight!!
12 Dec 2018, 3:30 pm
Don't be so judgemental, Boo! (I'm really more of a ginger!) 
puzzledoll
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12 Dec 2018, 5:11 pm
12 Dec 2018, 5:24 pm
puzzledoll
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12 Dec 2018, 5:28 pm
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12 Dec 2018, 5:49 pm
puzzledoll wrote:
So... someone accused me of abusing my boys in this thread because I am raising them as decent humans. I would like to say mindsets like that very well could be why people are having trouble finding relationships....
And we have people saying not to listen to women's opinions about what women want. That is literally the height of misogynistic thinking right there. Claims that we couldn't possible know what NT women actually want were thrown in there too. So my decades of being a female interacting with other females and learning to mask so well that I wasn't diagnosed till I was 39 means I have NO clue what NT women could possibly want in a relationship... *sighs*
Guys, you literally have women AND men here who are capable with relationships spoon feeding you how to not suck at finding a mate and you are disregarding everything we say. I know you've been hurt. I know you have had all sorts of crap dumped on you during your lives to get you to this point, but seriously, we're actively trying to help you out of that hole and you are making it crystal clear you don't want that help. You want to sit in your hole whining, "Poor me, I can't get the sex because women are these awful creatures who only want money and perfect abs and great social skills in a partner." You are literally burning the ladder we are passing down to you.
It's not about checklists. It's not about pick up lines. It's not about red pills or blue pills. It's about being a decent human being who wants to better themselves and is willing to push their bubble enough to find someone whose interests match theirs. Women want people they get along with and who share interests with them and who care about them as people, not as the win condition of filling up a check list. We aren't the prize you get when you are done checking off those marks. We are PEOPLE with wants and needs JUST LIKE YOU. Women struggle to find dates. Women struggle to match themselves with people who appreciate them and their quirks. I can't tell you how many single women I know go on date after date after date trying to find someone they get along with. They don't talk about cars or abs (well a little about that with some of them) or wallet size. They talk about personalities.
So make all the checklists you want, but when you don't get a woman when you fill it up, don't say we didn't warn you.
And we have people saying not to listen to women's opinions about what women want. That is literally the height of misogynistic thinking right there. Claims that we couldn't possible know what NT women actually want were thrown in there too. So my decades of being a female interacting with other females and learning to mask so well that I wasn't diagnosed till I was 39 means I have NO clue what NT women could possibly want in a relationship... *sighs*
Guys, you literally have women AND men here who are capable with relationships spoon feeding you how to not suck at finding a mate and you are disregarding everything we say. I know you've been hurt. I know you have had all sorts of crap dumped on you during your lives to get you to this point, but seriously, we're actively trying to help you out of that hole and you are making it crystal clear you don't want that help. You want to sit in your hole whining, "Poor me, I can't get the sex because women are these awful creatures who only want money and perfect abs and great social skills in a partner." You are literally burning the ladder we are passing down to you.
It's not about checklists. It's not about pick up lines. It's not about red pills or blue pills. It's about being a decent human being who wants to better themselves and is willing to push their bubble enough to find someone whose interests match theirs. Women want people they get along with and who share interests with them and who care about them as people, not as the win condition of filling up a check list. We aren't the prize you get when you are done checking off those marks. We are PEOPLE with wants and needs JUST LIKE YOU. Women struggle to find dates. Women struggle to match themselves with people who appreciate them and their quirks. I can't tell you how many single women I know go on date after date after date trying to find someone they get along with. They don't talk about cars or abs (well a little about that with some of them) or wallet size. They talk about personalities.
So make all the checklists you want, but when you don't get a woman when you fill it up, don't say we didn't warn you.
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12 Dec 2018, 5:50 pm
