Would you date an NT?

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Would you date an NT?

I am a female aspie and I would date an NT	12%	[ 32 ]
I am a female aspie and I would date an NT	12%	[ 32 ]
I am a male aspie and I would date an NT	27%	[ 73 ]
I am a male aspie and I would date an NT	27%	[ 73 ]
I am a female aspie and I wouldn't date an NT	1%	[ 4 ]
I am a female aspie and I wouldn't date an NT	1%	[ 4 ]
I am a male aspie and I wouldn't date an NT	3%	[ 8 ]
I am a male aspie and I wouldn't date an NT	3%	[ 8 ]
Other	4%	[ 12 ]
Other	4%	[ 12 ]
I am an NT and I just wanted to vote in this poll	3%	[ 7 ]
I am an NT and I just wanted to vote in this poll	3%	[ 7 ]

Total votes : 272

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27 Jan 2006, 12:29 pm

Well, he is an Aspie Male, and the two seem synonymous: being an Aspie Male and dating/women being important to them.

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28 Jan 2006, 12:16 am

Psychlone wrote:

I would, but that's because I am desperate. I would much prefer a nice aspie girl. I just think an aspie-aspie relationship is more likely to succeed than an aspie-NT relationship. Am I right?

I would disagree. If an NT understands, nothing else should matter.

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30 Jan 2006, 8:20 am

Hurrah for the 50% of males who have voted yes. It doesn't matter if someone is Aspie or NT as long as it 'feels right' to be together and you both make an effort to understand and support each other.

Lots of NT/NT relationships are complete disasters - and they're supposed to be fully equipped to communicate, read expressions etc...

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31 Jan 2006, 5:20 am

comeonandseeme wrote:

Agreed

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07 Apr 2006, 5:45 pm

Yes, I would date an NT. Maybe a relationship with an Aspie would succeed better, but of course there are disproportionately more male Aspies, than there are female. Our pool of female Aspies is drastically limited.

Maybe would be as good for us male Aspies to find female partners who, while NT, have an understanding of AS?

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07 Apr 2006, 6:21 pm

MishLuvsHer2Boys wrote:

Honestly I doubt you could choose AS vs NT to fall in love with, you just fall in love.

I think you are right. My husband is NT and we are very much opposites. I think that was part of the attraction - that he is so different than I am. He is very extroverted and impulsive. It is a good balance sometimes, but other times you don't get alot of understanding. But, I think if you respect each others boundaries that helps.

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07 Apr 2006, 6:23 pm

yeh

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08 Apr 2006, 6:18 am

Quote:

Would u date a NT?

if she s nice then why not?

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09 Apr 2006, 5:30 am

i'm aspie and voted that i would date an NT... but what kind of "choice" is this..? if i don't consider NTs as dateable people, then i'll be single until i die of old age! it's almost enough to make one convert to islam... atleast muslism get 72 virgins after they die...

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09 Apr 2006, 5:44 am

lol

thats kinda... unsustainable

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14 Apr 2006, 4:38 pm

My ex-gf is an NT, and I don't know about the one before her; That was before I was familiar with Asperger's or knew I had it. I'm currently in a relationship with a boy who isn't on the autism spectrum by any stretch of imagination, but he was recently diagnosed with OCD.

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