Criteria for your perfect partner

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Men are fun too when they are asleep.

Nice quip

Yes, OC stands for obsessive-compulsive

slightly worrying for me as a guy to hear woman say that

Darn. Technically I am not a genius. So close. Oh and plus, you are a girl, hah! (more into guys right now)

Hmmm, MissConstrue. Funny, that sure does happen to me a lot. Feel like I get misconstrued everywhere I go. Little shy about this attempt to match up, cuz she's a grizzled veteran with over twelve thousand posts. Still, nothing ventured . . .

1.) ". . . not going to be that picky . . ."

*whew* There's some of the pressure off right there.

2.) ". . . cats . . ."

I love cats. My only pet was cat, Cassie. My unconscious mind is a cat. People tell me I'm like a cat. My coffee cup has a cat on it. Big on cats.

3.) "(no fundamentals)"

As previously stated, not religious

4.) "Aquarius"

Sagitarius. No idea if that's compatible or not. Born on the 21st, a cusp, and also the solstice, as it happens. Figures; my b-day is the shortest day of the entire year.

5.) " . . . Creative side . . ."

Guitarist since 17. Still pluckin away. 5 guitars. Should be working NY eve too.

6.) "Good in bed"

Oooooh. This is a tricky one. If I say "oh yeah," then it'll seem like I'm bragging. If I say, "no good at all," then I'd be lying. I'll just say that this really depends on my partner. If she's ready to go, so am I.

7.) ". . . need of space."

Oh yeah. Think I need space too. There might be enough space for everybody around here. I live in a good size place. There's plenty of room.

8.) ". . . try and get along with me.'

Done. If she can get along with me too. fair's fair after all. I'm easy. Or at least that's what some of the girls I know say about me. I'm not sure what they mean though. Is that the same as "pushover?" cuz I hear them saying that too sometimes.

9.) ". . . not discriminatory . . ."

Done. For the record; non-religious, apolitical, and no ideologies. I've got my hands full minding my OWN business. No need or desire to mind anybody else's. What fun is that?

Wow, Miss, this isn't a bad matchup here. Unless you're hiding the fact that you've got a third arm or something, we are pretty good stuff, looks like. Still, these were only your "must-haves." so it's probably a pretty sure thing that there's lots more. Best one so far though, gotta admit.

That's me gone, then.

I just though i`d see how i`d match up to this,
just for fun i mean, i saw the post a little
further up.
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Tolerates cats and isn't a cat or animal hater.
--Check.

Must not be involved in a fundemental religion. I'll respect if he has a faith or non-faith but fundmentalism is not something I can tolerate
--Check.

Must astrologically compatible with Aquarius. There's some acceptions though.
--What the hell..why comes to my mind but i respect that.
i`m a leo, have no idea how they meazure up against others.
But i know my big sister is a Aquarius, and we have almost
killed each other many many times but that might just
be because we`re siblings.

Must have some sort of creative side. Not real into guys who are only interested in facts in figures.
--Check.

Must be good in bed. (slightly kidding)
-- um... pass

Must be able to respect my need of some space.
--Check.

Must try and get along with me.
--Check.

Must not be so openly discriminatory to such things as race, religion, culture, sex, and so on.
--....dont think i am that...check..(with a ?)

Think i have to steal this text and call it my own:

""non-religious, apolitical, and no ideologies. I've got my hands
full minding my OWN business. No need or desire to mind any-
body else's. What fun is that?"" - Very nicely put.

Also, my ideal girlfriend must not smoke nor drink alcohol.

I am not sure if I am a genius. I have never taken an IQ test on ADHD meds. (meaning I have never been able to sit still and finish an IQ test)

He doesn't have to have both. He can have either one or the other. Look. I am conservative. I don't really care if I wind up with a liberal partner, she just has to be a good Christian (catholic or not). So, you can describe me as a pretty open-minded conservative.

Yeah, I am on ADHD meds as well. First stratterra, then ritalin, and now concerta (though I forget if that is technically different from ritalin). My IQ is anomalous due to my AS and what-not, so I don't have a single IQ number to report. Rather, I have two, 119 and 103, referring to tests that relied upon verbal communication and communication of abstract thought. Much of my time and mental energies are devoted to abstract thought, but it always takes 10 times the effort to translate such thoughts into something another person can understand. However, there was just no accommodation during the testing for that.

I highly suspect that ASD's have a causal effect on the measurement of IQ scores due to a variety of reasons. I suspect there might be some literature on this, but I have not started plowing through the journals yet to find it.

I would be curious to see the discrepancy between me on Adderall and me off Adderall, IQ-wise. I mean I can still do math off it. I only took (ritalin) for 5 months during my last semester of college. and I started again but switched to Adderall because it lets me be more me, just able to concentrate better. I think I would do well because my thing is patterns. I use them to relax, I use them to evaluate situations, and I like to study them.

Sorry, I'm married.....

You are probably the first person that would like my kind of humor when i'm at my best (mostly mixed with a sharp cynical flavour)....normal reply is: how could you say that!?

:roll:
*crickets chirping*

Here's the deal: This is slightly digressive but I have to say that while I certainly DO want sex from a partner, I also want Attention just as much as physical love.