Why do people have sex outside of marrige?

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06 Apr 2011, 8:35 am

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Why do people have sex outside of marrige?


because there is no such thing as "marrige", so no one can get into it.


it was a failed joke. i thought it was funny until i read it the next day when i realized it was not funny.

it was supposed to be a pun on the words "get into it" meaning both "enter into it" and "enjoy it".
i have never corrected anyone's grammar in my whole time here.

It made me laugh. :P



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06 Apr 2011, 9:08 am

ToughDiamond wrote:
b9 wrote:
b9 wrote:
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Why do people have sex outside of marrige?


because there is no such thing as "marrige", so no one can get into it.


it was a failed joke. i thought it was funny until i read it the next day when i realized it was not funny.

it was supposed to be a pun on the words "get into it" meaning both "enter into it" and "enjoy it".
i have never corrected anyone's grammar in my whole time here.

It made me laugh. :P

i admit that i laughed too.



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06 Apr 2011, 9:37 am

hyperlexian wrote:
ToughDiamond wrote:
b9 wrote:
b9 wrote:
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Why do people have sex outside of marrige?


because there is no such thing as "marrige", so no one can get into it.


it was a failed joke. i thought it was funny until i read it the next day when i realized it was not funny.

it was supposed to be a pun on the words "get into it" meaning both "enter into it" and "enjoy it".
i have never corrected anyone's grammar in my whole time here.

It made me laugh. :P

i admit that i laughed too.

It's YOU! Where the heck have you been? And how the freak are you?

[Insert possible awkward and uncomfortable hug here]



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06 Apr 2011, 6:27 pm

AngelRho wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
ToughDiamond wrote:
b9 wrote:
b9 wrote:
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Why do people have sex outside of marrige?


because there is no such thing as "marrige", so no one can get into it.


it was a failed joke. i thought it was funny until i read it the next day when i realized it was not funny.

it was supposed to be a pun on the words "get into it" meaning both "enter into it" and "enjoy it".
i have never corrected anyone's grammar in my whole time here.

It made me laugh. :P

i admit that i laughed too.

It's YOU! Where the heck have you been? And how the freak are you?

[Insert possible awkward and uncomfortable hug here]

hey, i'm great. relaxed and ready to resume all usual annoyingness!



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06 Apr 2011, 10:10 pm

hyperlexian wrote:
AngelRho wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
ToughDiamond wrote:
b9 wrote:
b9 wrote:
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Why do people have sex outside of marrige?


because there is no such thing as "marrige", so no one can get into it.


it was a failed joke. i thought it was funny until i read it the next day when i realized it was not funny.

it was supposed to be a pun on the words "get into it" meaning both "enter into it" and "enjoy it".
i have never corrected anyone's grammar in my whole time here.

It made me laugh. :P

i admit that i laughed too.

It's YOU! Where the heck have you been? And how the freak are you?

[Insert possible awkward and uncomfortable hug here]

hey, i'm great. relaxed and ready to resume all usual annoyingness!

Awesome!! ! I haven't been properly annoyed in a long time!! !
:lol:

Seriously, though, it's really great to see you back here again. You have been missed!



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06 Apr 2011, 10:12 pm

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I don't understand why people do it before they even get married. Is the whole western world sex crazy? What's so great about sex? Whats with teen pregnancy these days? Does anybody understand? Am I the only one confused about this? I know I am throwing a lot of questions out there, but this is a complicated issue. Somebody PLEASE help me with this concept.


1. Most of it, yeah.
2. For me, not much. :roll:
3. Teens are whores these days because they aren't given enough homework to keep them busy. :P
4. Nope.
5. Nope.



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07 Apr 2011, 7:36 pm

PHISHA51 wrote:
I don't understand why people do it before they even get married. Is the whole western world sex crazy? What's so great about sex? Whats with teen pregnancy these days? Does anybody understand? Am I the only one confused about this? I know I am throwing a lot of questions out there, but this is a complicated issue. Somebody PLEASE help me with this concept.


Seriously? Why do people eat candy?

Because they enjoy it. If people said "You can't eat candy until you're married", how many do you think would eat candy before marriage?

Specifically, guys like the orgasms that accompany ejaculation. Girls like orgasms, though there are other reasons why they might engage in the activity (Such as pressure and expectation.).



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09 Apr 2011, 1:25 am

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Girls like orgasms, though there are other reasons why they might engage in the activity (Such as pressure and expectation.).


You left out manipulation.



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09 Apr 2011, 8:13 am

blauSamstag wrote:
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Girls like orgasms, though there are other reasons why they might engage in the activity (Such as pressure and expectation.).


You left out manipulation.


And money!
Because if there's one thing that I've learned from the boys on this forum, it's that women only care about men with money.



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09 Apr 2011, 9:53 am

wefunction wrote:
blauSamstag wrote:
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Girls like orgasms, though there are other reasons why they might engage in the activity (Such as pressure and expectation.).


You left out manipulation.


And money!
Because if there's one thing that I've learned from the boys on this forum, it's that women only care about men with money.


Enough money, usually. :)

(Although they'll usually be attracted to the "alpha dogs" and confident humorous people of various kinds, too, regardless of their actual money situation. Though, it definitely doesn't hurt, especially with its attractive arrogance-inspiring powers.)



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09 Apr 2011, 1:10 pm

swbluto wrote:
wefunction wrote:
blauSamstag wrote:
PHISHA51 wrote:
Girls like orgasms, though there are other reasons why they might engage in the activity (Such as pressure and expectation.).


You left out manipulation.


And money!
Because if there's one thing that I've learned from the boys on this forum, it's that women only care about men with money.


Enough money, usually. :)

(Although they'll usually be attracted to the "alpha dogs" and confident humorous people of various kinds, too, regardless of their actual money situation. Though, it definitely doesn't hurt, especially with its attractive arrogance-inspiring powers.)


Oh yes, that's right. Women will have a gabillion welfare babies with an "alpha male" who's a jerk.



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09 Apr 2011, 1:19 pm

I know I did. I just pretend my husband is a giant nerd and that I have only two children.


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09 Apr 2011, 6:07 pm

wefunction wrote:
blauSamstag wrote:
PHISHA51 wrote:
Girls like orgasms, though there are other reasons why they might engage in the activity (Such as pressure and expectation.).


You left out manipulation.


And money!
Because if there's one thing that I've learned from the boys on this forum, it's that women only care about men with money.


That's all part of the manipulation game.

I'm not making a claim that all or even most women use physical affection to distract men from the reality that they're being used, but some certainly do.

There's no denying that, on average, a guy is more likely to emphasize the physical than the emotional. Some women like to take advantage of that.

Conversely, some guys feign an emotional attachment in order to manipulate women into giving them physical affection.

Increasingly i just find that whole game distasteful. Sure I'd like to get involved with a woman who wants me for my body, for at least a few weeks or so, but I already have too much stress in my life to get into a relationship with some female who sees things in terms of give & take.