zen_mistress wrote:
What is your issue with her? She is going through a bad time, a lot of people use this board to get help, especially when people IRL can be less than helpful
As for moaning, well when I travelled through Europe, I whined from one end of it to the other, about the hostel, about waiting for trains, the heat, the cold, getting bad food in a restaurant, annoyingly loud roommates, dirty toilets, I complained about it all. My ex could tell you... in fact he probably could tell you, he lives in London. I was 25 then, I dont know but if something bothers me I feel the need to express myself, I cannot understand how people keep things to themselves. I try and complain less now though but it can mean biting my tongue a lot.
I think he has a point actually.
My view on life is unhealthy, and whining on the internet or messenger clients isn't going to help, it never has in the past. I've been given some good advice in the positivity thread it's time to heed it.