Constant rejection from women is making me suicidal

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Agreed! You might want to get a sexy hooker who would give you a good time and hopfully you'll stop being so depressed and angry.
Or he could just find a girl with asperger's because there usually very nice and more understanding.

Mindgames is a bad word for it, honestly, as that has connotations of trickery and the such. No, it's more like a test. See, when girls challenge you or try to manipulate you, they're testing you and if you come up with a bad answer/response, you fail the test. Fail too many tests, and you fail the class, metaphorically speaking.

What do rational people do when they fail tests? They study! They learn the correct answers or at least avoid the incorrect ones so they don't fail it next time. If you pass enough tests, you might pass the class. What does the I-have-no-luck-with-girls crowd do? They whine and call girls manipulative and resign from trying.

Sometimes, you just have to learn.

Btw, I've personally found, the more attractive a girl is, the more they'll tend to test you (They have to make it harder to pass the class since there are so many students in it and only so many are allowed to pass. Unless they're a slut.). So, if you want it easy, go for the unattractive girls.

Finding "true love" is a bit more complicated than trying to hook up with cute girls. That requires more interpersonal similarity and, let's say, compatibility (And rapport... and stuff.).

I've been with hookers...it's a great experience while it lasts, but I would like something more meaningful.



Asperger women don't want me either. I've had no more luck with them than with NT's...if anything, I've actually had less.

I know I don't know what I'm talking about. I'm not a girl, after all.

Do you have anymore manipulative techniques I could possibly use in the future? Thanks! I'm still looking to improve my relationship skills, you see.

I hate all this game, psychological, manipulation crap. It all goes over my head, and I'm probably too simple-minded to follow it. I just wanted a girl that's nice and has the same interests as me; pretty much a hermit, a loner that doesn't many friends, enjoys watching anime and playing video games.

But that's pretty much a dream as I'm too pathetic and worthless for any girl/women to want me. I'm ugly, slow, uneducated, poor, porn-addicted, boring, and un-charismatic.

I'm 25, never dated, friendless, car-less (can't drive), and still lives with my parents. I'm a disgraceful bum, and I'm sick of people using my attitude as an excuse for the way I am. I was born this way, and destined to be a failure and alone forever.

I have all those things (except looks) that you lack in spades - well above average in most cases - and I'm no better off than you are: How do you explain that?

Bad luck, maybe? IDK, having most of those qualities doesn't guarantee a date/GF, but your chances are a lot better than someone like me.

So what's to say you're not just having "bad luck"? Look at my age - no one's luck is that bad.

All I'm trying to say is that even though you keep mentioning all those things, having them won't solve your problem - why don't you try something else?

I could give you a very simple (and accurate) answer to that question, but the PC police would have my head.

You are expecting love yet have already expressed hate for prospective girlfriends BECAUSE they are women. You won't find any meaningful connection with someone if you radiate contempt for them from the get go. My guess is they are AFRAID of you. The problem is not them it is YOU and the sooner you deal with your misogyny and own your own behaviour the sooner you'll find someone to love you.

Case in point. You act like a jerk which is why you can't get any without paying for it.

You hate women so they hate you.

Why did they reject me before I started hating them?

You have the cause-and-effect relationship reversed. They hated me, so I hated them.

That´s an acceptable logic.
However you dont have a right to complain about how no female wants to be friends with you if you claim to hate them all. Thats just illogical.

Females hated me when I was younger, I was pushy, needy, had no clue about how to interact with them and had no clue on signs of not being interested on talking with me so I ended up being accused of this things several times a month.

I could have hated all women and avoid any contact with them, as a matter of fact I did for a while, I refused to interact with any female and whenever a female approached me asking for help I pointed her out all the times she had been mean to me so even though my teachers and all werent happy about it they had to put up with it because I had my reasons.

After a while I realized that even though they had hurt me several times... I still craved for some sort of connection with a female so I started talking with one of my class mates(he was the kind that asked me to help him with his homework while I tried to sleep whenever the teacher wasnt coming so I figured I could get something in return) and the first thing he told me is that I needed to change my attitude towards females and pointed out what was wrong with other aspects of me(going as far as why my clothing style was uncool and what I should start wearing). I didnt pay any attention to some of the things he said(ie the clothes thing) but I figured he had a point about the attitude thing and since he had pointed out all the flaws I had I knew what I should be working on and everything improved.

Well with an attitude like your's you never will,you need to lose the bitterness and let go of the past a little,we all have problems like this so you arent alone, so just be yourself,there is plenty of girls out there who would be interested in you,but they want someone more positive and fun to be around,dont doubt yourself so much and you'll be fine,its one of those things you've just gotta take the gamble on and go for it,hell I've been rejected 100+times in a month on a single dating site recently,remember the worst that can happen is being rejected.

I don't know what other things about your turned them off only you can answer that.