Do you miss someone right now?

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The truth hurts.

I did, but we broke up. He made a rude comment about my weight, and the fact that I don't wear conventional underwear. Mabe I'm destined to live a bachelor's life. He was also a 55 year old hippie, and I'm an emerging Punk Rocker. Maybe I'm meant to be single. I don't know.

Your bluntness cuts through my flesh like a switch blade. Give 101 reasons why you hate Routemasters. Go on! Hit me with your best shot.

Could you please quote me where I said I "hated" Routemasters? This has nothing at all to do with a model of bus and everything to do with the person itself. I have obsessions and interests of my own but I hardly ever discuss them in public (and WrongPlanet certainly counts as a public place!) and if I do say something the reference will always be short and sweet.

Becoming needy and fixated on someone is unhealthy. Unless you are willing to better yourself (as hard as it might seem) you will forever remain single and lonely. Almost everyone on the autistic spectrum apart from the extremely mild will have to pick up and learn skills of some kind whether they be basic ones such as cooking and cleaning or perhaps social skills. There's people out there willing to help if you let them. But I shall stop here, as I'm not sure this will get acted upon.

Is there someone else behind the scenes that is 'advising' you? Is he or she a member of these boards?

I kind-of miss the old fun cockney_rebel.

I like you me old china, but I have to agree with Tequila you have been a bit intense lately.

i miss my newly found friends from the Asperger Ressource Centers course that finished last night. those people made me a new person

I would ask for help, but I'm afraid to do so. Those helpers are willing to help out adorable, vulerable Rain Man-type adults who are cuddly. They're hesitant to help out scary looking Punk Rockers with colourful Cockney accents. It would be nice if those ornizations took in all types of people all acrossed the Spectrum. There's no hope of that ever happening, in my eyes. I'd need to be obvious like the Rain People for those people to care to help me. I'd love to get help, but I doubt that my province would let me. They only want to deal with "cute child-like victims". If they did let me in, I'd be forced to give up my Individuality. It's a Catch 22.

My sister.

I don't know if I do or not. It is a really weird feeling.

Wouldn't say I miss you, but nice knowing you are out there on WP. As the Stranger (cowboy) says in the Big Lebowski, I don't know about you but I take comfort in that. It's good knowin' he's out there. The Dude. Takin' 'er easy for all us sinners. Shoosh. I sure hope he makes the finals

No, I was only joking. I know what you mean. Don't take it seriously. I'm being a bit daft, to be honest with you. But that's by-the-by.

If you're afraid to ask for help, find someone supportive where you live who can and will help you. Hell, perhaps there are people on WrongPlanet who live in Canada that can see you right. You just need to start making the initial steps, that's all. That's better than sitting there doing nothing all your life, is it not?



I doubt that very much. You do see that sort of stereotype on TV, but there are all kinds of different people out there in real life. I know because I've met some of them.



There are those that will only take certain people and there are those that will take people from right across the spectrum. You need to find a service that fits your needs, not those of someone else.



Never say never. That's all I have to say. If you are willing to come out of your own little shell a bit, there are people who could help you get more out of life than you seem to presently. Do you really want to be sitting there all alone in your flat when you're in your forties or fifties obsessing endlessly about any person who takes even the slightest interest in you? That's not a healthy existence, for sure. Only you have the power to do something about your situation.



There might be other organisations outside the State that could help you. I have often found them to be of more use than the State itself.



Well, some of the symptoms you display isn't 'individuality' but some other disorders. The "accent" sounds like a learned form of speech you've picked up from somewhere. That would need to go. There's no problems having interests - obsessions even - but they need to be managed in a more socially acceptable way. You make yourself socially disadvantaged and ignored by not following basic norms. I'm not saying you should become normal, but you need to find other, more acceptable ways of feeding your interests.

I've probably spent enough time answering this. Whatever you do now is up to you.

Thank you.

Er... and that's why I no longer want to talk to you. You haven't listened to a word I've said!

Very well, than.

I havent listend to a word anyone has said either....sorry....