6-Pack Abs

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Wtf?? you're too skinny already.

Medically speaking, I'm not "too skinny" - all of my clinical parameters are excellent, especially for someone my age.

Aesthetically speaking, I really need to change my body composition to more lean mass and less fat. That's my objective and I'm sticking to it...

You already got a gf, why so desperate for a better body?

1. Not "desperate" - I just have a difficult time accepting myself until I am satisfied that I have put my best effort into it, which to date I have not done.

2. I'm doing it for me, the GF has made it clear that I'm acceptable the way I am.

Fulloftars, tell him he's being silly.

Personally, I think what you need is more fat, not less.

Fullofwhat?

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Yes, of course I think anyone can be insecure, I think plenty of people are insecure. I do find a positive aspect in not being content or truly secure and it gives you the ability to strive to be better or to push yourself further, I do think the moment you become content or not as hungry, you lose motivation or determination. Achieving realistic fitness goals or any short term goals can be motivating and productive also, successful athletes and people improve because they refuse to be satisfied with attaining just one goal, I don't think success is a place you arrive at and sit down for years.

Realistically, It also takes a very strict diet regime, workout plan and amount of time, devotion and motivation to maintain a shredded developed body. For instance, if you work a day job or spend time studying at University in the day and spend the evening participating in a class or going to the gym, it's very important that you have a partner who respects this and understands that it's healthy to spend time apart and pursue personal goals. I suppose what really matters when it comes to finding a partner realistically is if it agrees with your lifestyle, goals, mutual interests, nobody should have to compromise their goals or dreams to be with someone.

Personally I prefer women that are tomboys and I do admit that. I find them to be very attractive and I'm attracted to girls who don't have typical feminine characteristics or traits. I don't really know why but I'm able to relate, connect and hold a better conversation with a girl who is a tomboy rather than one of typical or conventional characteristics or features, I like a girl that I can treat like one of the guys and hang out with and I'm not saying that a girl has to like lifting weights, gaming, cars or physical contact sports and hate shopping to be a tomboy by any means.

6 Pack depends on diet as well as exercises. If you like getting free torrents there are ebooks, audio books and videos that could be of great help. I hope to get fit by new year. To do some of the things I want to be able to do, I am required to be much healthier and fitter than I am now.

Grisha, if getting fitter and going for the six pack is what you want, definitely go for it. There's no substitute for being healthy, thats what my dad always says. He's more than twice my age and he's much fitter than I am

Thanks!

Yes, many people don't realize that abs are made in the kitchen, not the gym - that's why people are suckers for all those wacky devices that people sell.

It's almost 100% a function of bodyfat, that's it.

Yes, well, of course. I didn't mean to imply that only unattractive people can be insecure, sorry if it sounded that way. I just think it's a good reminder, especially on a board such as this one, that most of the people have their insecurities even if they appear like they don't have any problem in this department.

And yes, I agree certain level of insecurity is actually beneficial, because it makes you work harder and improve yourself more. It also helps you not to fall into an egoistic trap of considering yourself "teh best" thing in the world and it makes you stay a decent human being.



I agree with this. Maybe sharing similar interests or lifestyles isn't as important as respecting your partner's interests and not wanting to change him/her in order to fit your time schedule or your idea of an ideal person. Also, I do think it's beneficial for partners to maintain their individual interests and hobbies; nothing wrong about spending time alone, doing your individual interests.



Now that I think about it, you're right. There are many guys who like tomboy girls. I'm a tomboy and while guys usually acted like I wasn't even there, those who were interested were usually very interested. For some reason, they were also good looking, and I was never really picky there. Same goes for my tomboy friends - none of them gets approached by guys on a regular basis, but they all end up in relationships with great (and, well, attractive) men.

A good thing about being a tomboy is that you always know a guy is truly interested in you as a person.

There are torrents of p90x, a complete workout system with diet plan. The abs part is 'ab ripper x', already mentioned in this thread. Probably the whole system is worthwhile.

I agree with whichever television character said the hottest thing in a woman is being into me.

He doesn't listen to me. My plan is to just make bacon 'round the clock while he tries to work.

mmmmmm...bacon...

Heheheheheh. I like you.

Heh, you know what my figuring for wimmenz is? You're gonna get girls as good looking as you are, more or less.