How many of you are on OKcupid?

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Jean_Descole
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19 Mar 2012, 9:28 pm

CrazyStarlightRedux wrote:

If I were in your shoes (as in if I were a homosexual), I would try out the Gay Villages (it's a term for a night out targeted at Gay/Bi/Lesbian people (straight people can go too!), they are very friendly places and you will rarely find trouble in them, and you will find some people there to be attracted to! Although there maybe a small chance the person you like maybe a straight guy, so I'd read all the signs first.

A night in the Castro? I think I'd have to shoot myself first. :lol:

I think I'd have more fun starting out GSAs around campus. But the fact is, finding gay extroverted science nerds is quite hard (and may not be wholeheartedly worth my time). :roll:

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20 Mar 2012, 1:54 am

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I think I'd have more fun starting out GSAs around campus. But the fact is, finding gay extroverted science nerds is quite hard (and may not be wholeheartedly worth my time).

I met like, 6 million cool gay people by volunteering at my university's LGBT Drop-in Centre . . . school clubs are probably a good way to meet gay people. Actually I know alot of people who use Grindr, the gay casual sex hook-up Iphone app., to meet people to go on coffee dates with. Indirect/online options are a major blessing to gay people, in contrast to the crazy stuff gay guys used to have to do to meet eachother. And given its straightforwardness in contrast with RL where there are no real gay dating pools, there's probably more extroverted people on OKcupid than you think. There's alot of people nowadays who are extroverted but also really Internet savvy/absorbed.

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20 Mar 2012, 2:28 am

Yeap, I have one. Haven't found anyone decent yet

"funkyowls" by the way x3

However I met my last (and only) boyfriend on "PlentyOfFish"

Jean_Descole
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20 Mar 2012, 2:38 am

ReindeerRoger wrote:

I actually have much fewer problems with GSAs. That said, we don't have an LGBT Drop-in Centre on campus The problem with the gayborhood is that the Castro is full of old people. Creepy old people. And the 18+ clubs around SF are just terrible. Mind you, I only contacted one, maybe two people, via OkCupid, and it was just meh. Not bad, but not great. Still, the main issue is just that I'm not looking for anyone, and even less time for a relationship. But, yeah, if I were looking, I'd probably begin at my school's GSA. It's just a lounge that's open all the time, and I have stopped there on occasion.

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20 Mar 2012, 4:08 am

Just joined but haven't done much there.

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20 Mar 2012, 2:15 pm

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/sexymelia

^^^ Something is gonna blow up there!! ! and it's gonna be massive.

Quick to the vaults!! !! !

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20 Mar 2012, 5:51 pm

I'm on OKcupid, but I'm currently seeing someone right now. My inbox is probably full with a lot of people interested in me... I'll get to them eventually...

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23 Mar 2012, 11:49 am

Some of those women on there give me the chills
and not in the good way either!! !

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24 Mar 2012, 2:33 pm

been chatting there with an atheist local girl for a while, she got disappeared after i showed her my pic (3 small messages in a row (ie. "how are you doing") - one each day, no reply to any of them = ignoring). She's being visibly online there so often.

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24 Mar 2012, 2:41 pm

slovaksiren wrote:

I'm on OKcupid, but I'm currently seeing someone right now. My inbox is probably full with a lot of people interested in me... I'll get to them eventually...

Of course your inbox will be full and a lot of people would be interested in you there ^_^ (making a face like your avatar).

(hyperlexian and co. won't like this) You are a girl.

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24 Mar 2012, 3:02 pm

lol i think okc gave up on me. no quiver matches for 3 weeks now

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24 Mar 2012, 3:58 pm

Yes - and without result, more's the pity.

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24 Mar 2012, 5:42 pm

Thinking I'm getting off OkC soon, this seems like a waste of time. I'm not getting matched with anyone remotely interesting anymore thanks to their bs attractiveness scale. If you are reasonably good looking but not the least bit shallow, OkC may not be for you...

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24 Mar 2012, 8:17 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

slovaksiren wrote:

I'm on OKcupid, but I'm currently seeing someone right now. My inbox is probably full with a lot of people interested in me... I'll get to them eventually...

Of course your inbox will be full and a lot of people would be interested in you there ^_^ (making a face like your avatar).

(hyperlexian and co. won't like this) You are a girl.

girls get tons more messages then guys on online dating. i completely agree.

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24 Mar 2012, 8:34 pm

I haven't got a message there in weeks. My last message was from a guy asking me what my fave dinosaur was. Other things about him lead me to believe he had permanently reverted back to childhood

It doesn't help that I don't live near any capital cities but get matched with guys who do, and they're only interested in local girls.

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25 Mar 2012, 2:37 am

I personally think online dating is a waste of time, two years on OKcupid, all I got was gold diggers, crazies(I don't mean eccentric people, someone actually asked me to help kill her dad), and serial daters. Its much better to go out and meet people IRL, its free, you can see if you click before you date, and you can see them in the flesh no fake pics.

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