Here is photo of me...am I attractive , soso, cute, ugly?

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07 Feb 2012, 6:35 pm

If there are people that doubt that I have had Asian girlfriends in the past...I will post some photos of me with them. Do I have to do this? It is not a big deal to me.



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07 Feb 2012, 6:37 pm

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If there are people that doubt that I have had Asian girlfriends in the past...I will post some photos of me with them. Do I have to do this? It is not a big deal to me.

no, people just don't really read posts that fully sometimes so it seems like they managed to skip over the 2 or 3 times you mentioned you had actual girlfriends.


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07 Feb 2012, 6:48 pm

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If there are people that doubt that I have had Asian girlfriends in the past...I will post some photos of me with them. Do I have to do this? It is not a big deal to me.

no, people just don't really read posts that fully sometimes so it seems like they managed to skip over the 2 or 3 times you mentioned you had actual girlfriends.


I honestly feel that I might have to as it would help back up my claims that I have had girlfriends...all being Asian.



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07 Feb 2012, 7:54 pm

http://imgurlyman.imgur.com/all/

Here are photos of me with my Asian girlfriends of the past.

There are a few photos with my ex gf's and friends of theirs. I have other girlfriend photos on my computer, but I figured this proves my point...I can only attract Asian women...



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07 Feb 2012, 7:56 pm

did you read my links about profile pictures?


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07 Feb 2012, 8:00 pm

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did you read my links about profile pictures?


Yes thanks a lot! They are helpful that is for sure. I am pretty clueless with how to look interesting to most women...especially on a dating site.



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07 Feb 2012, 8:59 pm

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Alienboy, OKCupid has done a lot of research about effective profile pictures

http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/dont- ... -accident/
http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/the-4 ... -pictures/

it may be worth considering these articles. also, you may actually have some success on OKCupid as opposed to PoF if you don't already have a profile there.


Following that second link, here's what it says:

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Of course, there is some self-selection here: the guys showing off their abs are the ones with abs worth showing, and naturally the best bodies get lots of messages. So we can’t recommend this photo tactic to every man. But, contrary to everything you read about profile pictures, if you’re a guy with a nice body, it’s actually better to take off your shirt than to leave it on. We would never suggest to a Fitzgerald or a Dave Eggers to limit his profile to 100 words, and so why should guys with great bodies keep their best asset under wraps?


Quite interesting, don't you think?



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07 Feb 2012, 9:00 pm

i have no idea. what is your point?


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07 Feb 2012, 10:47 pm

Ok so this woman from Thailand messaged me and we were chatting on plenty of fish for a while and she gave me her number. She said that she is interested in meeting me. So I proposed we meet up Saturday night and she said ok. She told me that she is not comfortable meeting at her apartment, so I told that it is alright and that we can hangout at a restaurant. She told me alright. So then I ask her for her address so that I can pick her up from there and to go somewhere to hangout...now she is completely ignoring me? Seriously...wtf? Even if she doesn't feel comfortable having me pick her up from her place...she could at least message me telling me where else I could pick her up..but nope...she just leaves me hanging. Why is almost every woman I meet like this?



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07 Feb 2012, 11:14 pm

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Ok so this woman from Thailand messaged me and we were chatting on plenty of fish for a while and she gave me her number. She said that she is interested in meeting me. So I proposed we meet up Saturday night and she said ok. She told me that she is not comfortable meeting at her apartment, so I told that it is alright and that we can hangout at a restaurant. She told me alright. So then I ask her for her address so that I can pick her up from there and to go somewhere to hangout...now she is completely ignoring me? Seriously...wtf? Even if she doesn't feel comfortable having me pick her up from her place...she could at least message me telling me where else I could pick her up..but nope...she just leaves me hanging. Why is almost every woman I meet like this?

asking her for her home address to pick her up makes it look like you are trying to get her address at all costs even though she already said she is not comfortable going to her apartment for the date. you should have just suggested meeting her in a public place for the date - no pickup at all.

essentially, you may have worried her.


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07 Feb 2012, 11:19 pm

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Ok so this woman from Thailand messaged me and we were chatting on plenty of fish for a while and she gave me her number. She said that she is interested in meeting me. So I proposed we meet up Saturday night and she said ok. She told me that she is not comfortable meeting at her apartment, so I told that it is alright and that we can hangout at a restaurant. She told me alright. So then I ask her for her address so that I can pick her up from there and to go somewhere to hangout...now she is completely ignoring me? Seriously...wtf? Even if she doesn't feel comfortable having me pick her up from her place...she could at least message me telling me where else I could pick her up..but nope...she just leaves me hanging. Why is almost every woman I meet like this?

asking her for her home address to pick her up makes it look like you are trying to get her address at all costs even though she already said she is not comfortable going to her apartment for the date. you should have just suggested meeting her in a public place for the date - no pickup at all.

essentially, you may have worried her.


Well she messaged me initially, so I figured she would want to meet. If I creep her out...she should not have messaged me in the first place. I sent her a text later saying I can pick her up somewhere else and she is ignoring me anyway. Whatever. Honestly, I don't really care. It is just annoying because she was messaging me a lot and then suddenly nothing. Oh well. Nothing new. Story of my life.



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07 Feb 2012, 11:30 pm

i didn't mean you creeped her out before she messaged you in the first place, but if she specifically says she would not want to have you come over to her apartment, it is logical she would not want to give you her address. that was an error on your part, but now you know for next time.


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07 Feb 2012, 11:54 pm

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hyperlexian wrote:
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Ok so this woman from Thailand messaged me and we were chatting on plenty of fish for a while and she gave me her number. She said that she is interested in meeting me. So I proposed we meet up Saturday night and she said ok. She told me that she is not comfortable meeting at her apartment, so I told that it is alright and that we can hangout at a restaurant. She told me alright. So then I ask her for her address so that I can pick her up from there and to go somewhere to hangout...now she is completely ignoring me? Seriously...wtf? Even if she doesn't feel comfortable having me pick her up from her place...she could at least message me telling me where else I could pick her up..but nope...she just leaves me hanging. Why is almost every woman I meet like this?

asking her for her home address to pick her up makes it look like you are trying to get her address at all costs even though she already said she is not comfortable going to her apartment for the date. you should have just suggested meeting her in a public place for the date - no pickup at all.

essentially, you may have worried her.


Well she messaged me initially, so I figured she would want to meet. If I creep her out...she should not have messaged me in the first place. I sent her a text later saying I can pick her up somewhere else and she is ignoring me anyway. Whatever. Honestly, I don't really care. It is just annoying because she was messaging me a lot and then suddenly nothing. Oh well. Nothing new. Story of my life.


Sounds like she basically lost interest or has decided it wouldn't be right to go meet you after a bit more thinking. It's not totally your fault. It happens.



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07 Feb 2012, 11:57 pm

I have to agree with Hyperlexian on this one.

"I don't want to meet at my home" is a polite way of saying "There's no way I'm giving you my address".

She may have had problems with stalkers in the past. You have to think about it from their point of view. She probably thinks you aren't respecting her wishes by suggesting that you come over there to pick her up. That isn't normal tbh, usually people off dating sites make their own way to a cafe or something in town.

But it doesn't matter, just don't do it again.



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08 Feb 2012, 3:53 am

Ok well things surprisingly turned out alright. She lost contact with me because she needed to help her roommate with reconnecting the internet, which kept kicking them offline. She called me up on Skype earlier this evening and a date for sushi and sake is on for Saturday night. She seems interested in me as our chat went on for almost 2 hours. She told me that she likes me, but still want to see how date 1 goes before deciding to take things further. She also told me to text her tomorrow to say hello and ask her about her day. She told me she likes when guys show they care. This is a normal thing...but I guess she wants to make sure I don't just want sex...which isn't the case don't worry. I would like a steady girlfriend again to be honest. Anyway, I hope things go well...but we will see I guess.



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08 Feb 2012, 5:25 am

That's an interesting one.
http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your- ... ne-dating/

Lillypod was right when he said that most women view only a minority of men as good-looking.

But they're more likely to message the average ones.



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