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DialAForAwesome
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08 May 2013, 8:35 am

AnonymousGIrl wrote:

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I'm glad you didn't think my post was too insulting, but I was asking because I kinda sensed some misandry there.

How did you sense misandry from her talking about a single person's actions and not an entire or the majority of a gender's actions. Is it saying anything remotely negative about a guy's actions = misandry?

I'll answer your question with a question of my own.

Why is it that talking about one woman's actions is considered misogyny but we can't consider one man's actions being talked about as misandry?

Besides that, it's quite clear she isn't just talking about one man in her posts. She makes it seem like ALL men do these things.

And then she had the audacity to attack Boo over a couple threads because she didn't read the content of the threads well enough.

That's why I stood up for him. It just makes no sense.

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08 May 2013, 8:47 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

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appletheclown wrote:

Boo, what the hell is a Nice Girl™?

It's a new shampoo brand.

And why would that be conversation worthy?

Because it's shampoo? Don't you like shampoos?

I use it, but beyond that, I couldn't care less.

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08 May 2013, 8:57 am

PsychoSarah wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

PsychoSarah wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

appletheclown wrote:

Boo, what the hell is a Nice Girl™?

It's a new shampoo brand.

And why would that be conversation worthy?

Because it's shampoo? Don't you like shampoos?

I use it, but beyond that, I couldn't care less.

but ...but...

you are a future biomedical student! :lol:

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08 May 2013, 9:00 am

Which would primarily be artificial limbs/organs and developing new medications. Not beauty care products.

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08 May 2013, 9:13 am

spongy wrote:

This thread was mostly one of boo´s jokes.

We had a thread called nice guy™ at the time stating some similarly ridiculous things as some sort of joke and he figured females deserved the a chance to laugh at themselves too(always in the name of humour)

If you need to complain to somebody I suggest you track down the original nice guy ™ thread and go to the source(it cited a source), this is just a parody of that

I don't have a need to complain and it's odd and telling how seemingly defensive you are from me pointing out Nice Girl™ isn't a fitting name.

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08 May 2013, 9:23 am

AnonymousGIrl wrote:

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I don't have a need to complain and it's odd and telling how seemingly defensive you are from me pointing out Nice Girl™ isn't a fitting name.

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Nor do I find it fitting to state one is not a nice friend if they don't find their friends dating material as to me nice friend is how one treats their friends not if they would date them.

So we don't disagree on that, I exactly stated the same reason why one is not nice.

I didn't state one is not nice if they don't find their friends dating material.

I stated one is not nice by how they treated their friend.

Let's read together again ... .A...B..C.

Sorry, I mean let's read together again what I said there:

What does make Nice Girl™ not really nice?

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How would you feel if your same-sex friend thinks of you as an unworthy dating material? or even as "eww" and "yuck" material? Exactly, you wouldn't think of him as a really nice friend - it's for the same reason why the Nice Girl™ not really nice. the Nice Girl™ is not really a nice friend because she thinks less of you as a male; hence as a person too. A true friend, regardless of gender, shouldn't view you as a lesser material/valuable compared to other people and would not be saying things around you that might hurt you.

So as you see, "unworthy dating material", "eww" and yuck material are completely different that not finding him a dating material.

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08 May 2013, 9:25 am

Why is it that talking about one woman's actions is considered misogyny but we can't consider one man's actions being talked about as misandry?
This question is not only an evasion tactic but bs and seems to be a poor menz propaganda as there are plenty of times one gal's actions are talked about and it's not considered misogyny.

Besides that, it's quite clear she isn't just talking about one man in her posts.
She made it quite clear she was talking about one guy in her posts as she quotes Boo, responds to Boo, and repeatedly stated you in reference to Boo.

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How would you feel if your same-sex friend thinks of you as an unworthy dating material? or even as "eww" and "yuck" material? Exactly, you wouldn't think of him as a really nice friend

What? No. Why on earth should your platonic friends find you sexually attractive? Do you require that your male friends be attracted to you, or only the female ones?

It seems pretty clear to me that you don't consider your female friends friends at all, but potential girlfriends. Not only that, but you actually take it as some kind of betrayal that they don't see you that way! No, women have no obligation to find you attractive, and they aren't doing anything mean if they don't.

I can only assume that you consider women you find unattractive to be "lesser" as human beings, since you're so convinced that's what these women think of you.

She makes it seem like ALL men do these things
Show where she made it seem like all men do these things when the only time she mentioned other guys was one comment when talking to you and she did not say all men she said she saw a ton of guys do these things.

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Nonperson, were you screwed over by a bunch of men in the past or something? Some of the posts you're making are just a liiiiittle bit scary.

I'm one of the few people on here who is actually happily married. But I've seen tons of guys saying this kind of sh** on the internet and it gets old. I actually find that kind of scary: these guys who go into a rage because some woman dares to say she finds them unattractive.

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08 May 2013, 9:34 am

AnonymousGIrl wrote:

Nonperson wrote:

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How would you feel if your same-sex friend thinks of you as an unworthy dating material? or even as "eww" and "yuck" material? Exactly, you wouldn't think of him as a really nice friend

Nonperson wrote:

DialAForAwesome wrote:

Nonperson, were you screwed over by a bunch of men in the past or something? Some of the posts you're making are just a liiiiittle bit scary.

Why are you arguing over nothing?

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08 May 2013, 9:37 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

So we do disagree on that as as you did not state the same reason why one is not nice. To me a person saying they find a trait of their friend unappealing for thier romantic/sexual partner is not badly treating a friend.

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

So as you see, "unworthy dating material", "eww" and yuck material are completely different that not finding him a dating material.

No I do not see as as to me they both the same as both are not finding him dating material. It seems your issue is not being treated badly but that they aren't expressing themselves the way you want.

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08 May 2013, 9:40 am

appletheclown wrote:

Why are you arguing over nothing?

Asking where he got misandry from her post is not arguing.

It's questioning not arguing. I asked him where did he sense misandry in her answers and have yet to get a response other than an evasion and lies (she didn't make it clear she was talking to one guy and she made it seem like all men do these things).

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08 May 2013, 9:42 am

AnonymousGIrl wrote:

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So as you see, "unworthy dating material", "eww" and yuck material are completely different that not finding him a dating material.

No I do not see as as to me they both the same as both are not finding him dating material. It seems your issue is not being treated badly but that they aren't expressing themselves the way you want.

Ok... so you see them the same.

For you unworthy, "eww" "yuck" material == not a dating material.

I get it.

What are your main external physical attributes, AnonymousGIrl? Blonde/brunette/dark/readhead? Slim or heavy? Tall or short?

Just give me a clue in one of them.

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08 May 2013, 9:48 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Ok... so you see them the same.

For you unworthy, "eww" "yuck" material == not a dating material.

I get it.

What are your main external physical attributes, AnonymousGIrl? Blonde or brunette? Slim or heavy? Tall or short?

Just give me a clue in one of them.

I'm not seeing a reason to clue you in on one of them as it seems you potential objective is to go eww yuck in reference to one of my physical attributes in order to perhaps have me 'get it' in your perception. It wouldn't happen as a guy saying that he finds a trait I have unappealing for his romantic/sexual partner is nothing other than a guy stating what he doesn't like in a partner. I don't take offense or get butthurt when someone finds something unappealing about me for their romantic/sexual partner.

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08 May 2013, 9:52 am

AnonymousGIrl wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

AnonymousGIrl wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

So as you see, "unworthy dating material", "eww" and yuck material are completely different that not finding him a dating material.

Ok, you don't want to give a clue, fine.

Let's suppose you're blonde.

Let's suppose that we are friends and drinking coffee in a cafe.

Scenario 1:

You: You know that girl there? Do you find her cute?
Me: No, she's blonde, I am not attracted to blondes.

You most probably would be indifferent here.

Scenario 2:
You: You know that girl there? Do you find her cute?
Me: Eurgh! She's blonde, blondes disgust me, they look like filth!

So for you Scenario 1 is the same as Scenario 2?

Just say YES or NO.

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08 May 2013, 9:54 am

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08 May 2013, 9:56 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Ok, you don't want to give a clue, fine.

Let's suppose you're blonde.

Let's suppose that we are friends and drinking coffee in a cafe.

Scenario 1:

You: You know that girl there? Do you find her cute?
Me: Yeah, she's blonde, I am not attracted to blondes.

You most probably would be indifferent here.

Scenario 2:
You: You know that girl there? Do you find her cute?
Me: Eurgh! She's blonde, blondes disgust, they look like filth!

So for you Scenario 1 is the same as Scenario 2?

Just say YES or NO.

Yes for me it's the same and I'm unsure why you'd have to question when earlier you said you 'get it' that to me both are not finding a person with that trait dating material.

* Edited after your edit. The original
No Scenario 1 is not the same as Scenario 2 as in Scenario 1 you're attracted to blondes and in Scenario 2 you're not attracted to blondes.

I thought this was about not being attracted and your issue was your friend(s) not being attracted to a trait you share and expressing it in a way you dislike so I'm unsure why you're adding in them being attracted unless you want your friends to be attracted to a trait you share...

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08 May 2013, 9:58 am

AnonymousGIrl wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Ok, you don't want to give a clue, fine.

Let's suppose you're blonde.

Let's suppose that we are friends and drinking coffee in a cafe.

Scenario 1:

You: You know that girl there? Do you find her cute?
Me: Yeah, she's blonde, I am attracted to blondes.

You most probably would be indifferent here.

Scenario 2:
You: You know that girl there? Do you find her cute?
Me: Eurgh! She's blonde, blondes disgust, they look like filth!

So for you Scenario 1 is the same as Scenario 2?

Just say YES or NO.

No Scenario 1 is not the same as Scenario 2 as in Scenario 1 you're attracted to blondes and in Scenario 2 you're not attracted to blondes.

I thought this was about not being attracted and your issue was your friend(s) not being attracted to a trait you share and expressing it in a way you dislike so I'm unsure why you're adding in them being attracted unless you want your friends to be attracted to a trait you share...

I edited my post, it was typo. Subconsciously i like blondes :lol:

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