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Gauldoth
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05 Jun 2015, 12:37 am

goldfish21 wrote:

Rather, all of those things are evolutionarily geared towards women enjoying sex.

Except that, again, none of those things actually affect or are indicative of female sex drive or their enjoyment of sex... it's a straw-man.

goldfish21 wrote:

Then there's the Fact that females have made posts in this thread about enjoying sex... like this one, just a mere few posts ago.

Already answered.

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05 Jun 2015, 12:41 am

Gauldoth wrote:

goldfish21 wrote:

Rather, all of those things are evolutionarily geared towards women enjoying sex.

Except that, again, none of those things actually affect or are indicative of female sex drive or their enjoyment of sex... it's a straw-man.

goldfish21 wrote:

Then there's the Fact that females have made posts in this thread about enjoying sex... like this one, just a mere few posts ago.

Already answered.

What about hundreds of years of documented testimonials from females who've enjoyed sex?

All women who claim to enjoy sex are lying? To what end? For what motive? Please.. enlighten us. :lol:

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05 Jun 2015, 12:54 am

goldfish21 wrote:

Gauldoth wrote:

goldfish21 wrote:

Rather, all of those things are evolutionarily geared towards women enjoying sex.

Except that, again, none of those things actually affect or are indicative of female sex drive or their enjoyment of sex... it's a straw-man.

goldfish21 wrote:

Then there's the Fact that females have made posts in this thread about enjoying sex... like this one, just a mere few posts ago.

Already answered.

What about hundreds of years of documented testimonials from females who've enjoyed sex?

All women who claim to enjoy sex are lying? To what end? For what motive? Please.. enlighten us. :lol:

Again, you already asked that and I already answered. The answer is always the same, no matter how many times you insist on asking. You're a bit thick, aren't you? :roll:

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05 Jun 2015, 12:59 am

Gauldoth wrote:

goldfish21 wrote:

Gauldoth wrote:

goldfish21 wrote:

Rather, all of those things are evolutionarily geared towards women enjoying sex.

Except that, again, none of those things actually affect or are indicative of female sex drive or their enjoyment of sex... it's a straw-man.

goldfish21 wrote:

Then there's the Fact that females have made posts in this thread about enjoying sex... like this one, just a mere few posts ago.

Already answered.

What about hundreds of years of documented testimonials from females who've enjoyed sex?

All women who claim to enjoy sex are lying? To what end? For what motive? Please.. enlighten us. :lol:

Again, you already asked that and I already answered. The answer is always the same, no matter how many times you insist on asking. You're a bit thick, aren't you? :roll:

Me? How ironic. You have several people in this thread politely correcting you and yet you insist you are correct and everyone else is wrong. Newsflash: Most women enjoy sex.

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05 Jun 2015, 1:15 am

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Me? How ironic. You have several people in this thread politely correcting you and yet you insist you are correct and everyone else is wrong. Newsflash: Most women enjoy sex.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gvdf5n-zI14

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05 Jun 2015, 1:23 am

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[ Newsflash: Most women enjoy sex.

Newsflash: most women like to pretend to have zero-interest in sex, when they actually have a small/moderate interest in it.

Then there's also no doubt some like Gauldoth described, that genuinely have no interest in it.

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05 Jun 2015, 2:36 am

goldfish21 wrote:

What about hundreds of years of documented testimonials from females who've enjoyed sex?

All women who claim to enjoy sex are lying? To what end? For what motive? Please.. enlighten us. :lol:

Women are much more likely NOT to enjoy sex than men are. That's indisputable and based on evolutionary adaptations. This leads to an effect that women that enjoy (or claim to enjoy) sex can get an advantage with men, which is the very reason why they lie about it. And since women will lie about this in any context it could be beneficial, including personal interviews in research, much of the published research on this is unreliable. Especially today when contraceptives makes the whole issue risk-free for women, and men will typically complain that women that don't like sex could and should "learn" to like sex.

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05 Jun 2015, 2:46 am

...meanwhile, in reality, women tell me about their hookups they have purely for the physical pleasure of them.

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05 Jun 2015, 2:55 am

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...meanwhile, in reality, women tell me about their hookups they have purely for the physical pleasure of them.

Well, to me, many neurodiverse women say they find sex disgusting when I ask them in an anonymous survey where they have no reason to lie. In fact, quite a few neurodiverse men say the same thing. If you tried to hookup with any of them, they would probably lie to you if they found you interesting.

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05 Jun 2015, 3:45 am

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Maybe the reason why women are telling you you're wrong is that YOU ARE WRONG.

A MAN has clearly explained the "scientific facts" behind your own physiology and sexuality, yet you keep harping, huh? Damn wimminz :twisted:

goldfish21 wrote:

...meanwhile, in reality, women tell me about their hookups they have purely for the physical pleasure of them.

Rotten liars, the lot of them! :wink:

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05 Jun 2015, 7:33 am

This thread needs some Face-of-Boo with his screenshots of faux male stripper conversations with women. That ought to settle it.

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05 Jun 2015, 8:05 am

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...meanwhile, in reality, women tell me about their hookups they have purely for the physical pleasure of them.

You've already brought up that point, and I've already refuted it, and so did at least one other person here... several times. You're just trying to wear us out because you've realized you can't beat us in an actual argument.

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05 Jun 2015, 8:26 am

Janissy wrote:

This thread needs some Face-of-Boo with his screenshots of faux male stripper conversations with women. That ought to settle it.

No, it wouldn't, because strippers don't have sex with their clients. :lol:

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05 Jun 2015, 11:49 am

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Gauldoth wrote:

It is a fear I know only too well, I'd wager most people here would say the same. I'm 22, never had a girlfriend, I've had sex before but only by paying for it.

I will not lie to you, the outlook is pretty bleak for people like us from what I've seen. Society cares very little for men who don't conform to their gender role, regardless of whether or not they do it by choice. It doesn't seem to make much of a difference.

I am slowly trying to come to terms with the fact that I will very likely be alone for the rest of my days, but it hasn't been easy and I've made little progress. I wish I had better news for you, but the truth is I don't, and I will not insult you by offering the same mindless platitudes about how "it gets better" or how you just need to "believe in yourself" that I'm sure you've heard a million times by now. Those are nonsense, and we all know it. As the old saying goes "Hope for the best, expect the worst".

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05 Jun 2015, 11:53 am

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goldfish21 wrote:

...meanwhile, in reality, women tell me about their hookups they have purely for the physical pleasure of them.

Feel free to come to my place of work and have these conversations with my coworkers.

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05 Jun 2015, 12:25 pm

goldfish21 wrote:

Gauldoth wrote:

goldfish21 wrote:

...meanwhile, in reality, women tell me about their hookups they have purely for the physical pleasure of them.

Feel free to come to my place of work and have these conversations with my coworkers.

Again, I don't care what women say. As long as they refuse to put their money where their mouth is, anything they say is just white noise as far as I'm concerned.

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