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14 Jul 2015, 3:13 am

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Current events would be great, but I've never met any girls in my age range interested in them. I usually just let the conversation flow and ask questions.

Did it work?

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14 Jul 2015, 3:29 am

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Did it work?

I think it does work most of the time. Most girls I hang out with are very talkative. There's hardly any silences and as a bonus I learn something interesting about them. However the girl I went out yesterday said that she talks too much. I guess that was a hint for me to talk more.

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14 Jul 2015, 3:32 am

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However the girl I went out yesterday said that she talks too much. I guess that was a hint for me to talk more.

Ah. I really need to learn to read between the lines like that. Sometimes I suspect that things girls say to me could have hidden meanings.

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14 Jul 2015, 10:10 am

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Congrats, Boo!

I hope, soon, you will schedule these "encounters" more frequently.

She's half Lebanese/Yemeni half Filipino and she lived most of her childhood in Philippines, I found out that Asians find me more attractive - so let's say... I am capitalizing on that recently.

And they are usually way more open to mutual casual encounters than the locals.

I had almost an encounter with another Filipino as well weeks ego, but her work schedule (private nurse) is such big burden and she almost has no day off.

Asians don't usually care about height or what parties you're invited to, but will care about physical fitness, usually and education. I'm in a long-term relationship with a Chinese girl myself.

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14 Jul 2015, 1:08 pm

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Asians don't usually care about height or what parties you're invited to, but will care about physical fitness, usually and education. I'm in a long-term relationship with a Chinese girl myself.

So that was my problem, I should have been chasing Asian girls all along. Education level is the one thing I do have going for me-I have a Ph.D

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14 Jul 2015, 4:17 pm

Kurgan wrote:

Asians don't usually care about height or what parties you're invited to, but will care about physical fitness, usually and education. I'm in a long-term relationship with a Chinese girl myself.

Not always. I just wish a certain Chinese girl would care more about her own physical fitness

Her Chinese friends said I was fit but she took little notice.
I was hoping she'd follow my example.

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14 Jul 2015, 5:15 pm

I believe many Asian ladies are the Cat's Pajamas!

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14 Jul 2015, 8:03 pm

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I believe many Asian ladies are the Cat's Pajamas!

so few of them in my state. most are 2nd generations so they are just like other girls. never met a 1st generation Asian immigrant. there are a lot of guys from asia that go to the university here though. though asians here also seem to keep to dating other asians. suppose it makes sense to seek someone similar to you.

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14 Jul 2015, 8:49 pm

Most of the Asian women I know personally are fiercely loyal to their husbands, hanging on to the marriage even if the husband goes to prison (for something other than a violent crime).

My wife puts up with me; and if there is anyone on WP who thinks that I am a terrible person, imagine how it must be for my saintly Asian wife ... patience ... kindness ... intelligence ... shapeliness ... :heart:

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14 Jul 2015, 9:23 pm

I'm fat, old, and ugly. The reason I'm fat and ugly is it's the only way I could keep girls out of my shorts. Many a times while riding the school bus in high school, the local girl gangs would beat me up, and try to get their hands down my pants to play with Jack Mehoff. I try to tell my parents, but get my arse beat by them for me allowing it to happen. Eventually, food became my friend, and I kept myself locked in my room, except to go to school, go to work, or go to church. Even if I wanted an intimate relationship with a girl, here come the nightmares from high school.

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15 Jul 2015, 12:16 am

simple, apparently it's not in their nature to actively pursue men.

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15 Jul 2015, 1:59 am

Kurgan wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

kraftiekortie wrote:

Congrats, Boo!

I hope, soon, you will schedule these "encounters" more frequently.

Asians don't usually care about height or what parties you're invited to, but will care about physical fitness, usually and education. I'm in a long-term relationship with a Chinese girl myself.

I have no long term experience with them, only mutually agreed short terms....

What I can tell tho, and that's a very noticeable common trait of them, that they generally extremely emphasize on exclusivity and loyalty even within a fling relationship. It makes sense, due to STD risks and all..but I think culturally they value monogamy a lot even if it's a short term thing.

And unlike girls from some other cultures and communities, they don't like it much if the guy has a lot of sexual experience.

The women who ever hit me on the most are Asians and Maghrebians(Morocco, Tunisia, Algeria).

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15 Jul 2015, 2:08 am

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most are 2nd generations so they are just like other girls. never met a 1st generation Asian immigrant. there are a lot of guys from asia that go to the university here though. though asians here also seem to keep to dating other asians.

Hey, 2nd gen Asians can still be cute. That girl I was dating was 2nd gen. Not cute though. She's the fattest Asian girl I've ever seen

On the other hand she's one of very few Asian girls I've ever met who was willing to date a white guy. Almost all the Asians I've ever known only dated other Asians. Maybe that's why I couldn't get one of the cute ones. Maybe the Asian guys rejected her.

Very rarely do I see white guy, Asian girl mixed couples and most of the time it's with a noncute Asian girl. The cute ones are nearly always in homogeneous couples. My only hope is to make her cute but tath seems like a near impossibility. Even if she could lose weight she doesn't have the bone structure to pull off the cute look (anyway, she eats very little (at least when she's with me) so I don't understand why she's fat in the first place, maybe lack of exercise).

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15 Jul 2015, 2:31 am

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That sounded like a sexual gang abuse to me.

Sad, that dads often take this attitude if it's happening to a boy - what was your mom's stance about it?

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15 Jul 2015, 2:39 am

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Hey, 2nd gen Asians can still be cute. That girl I was dating was 2nd gen. Not cute though. She's the fattest Asian girl I've ever seen

Retro, the reason why you always get fat girls is because of this: viewtopic.php?t=288359

It is a fact of life, you complain that they are fat, but be aware that it is their fatness that you nag about is what made them more accepting of you.

If they were slim, chances that they would be way pickier because they would have more suitors to pick of, and would want someone who looks better, fitter and more successful than you.

The "sexier" the girl becomes, the pickier she becomes - that's a non-deniable fact. And those who deny it, are burying their heads in sand.

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15 Jul 2015, 2:50 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

The "sexier" the girl becomes, the pickier she becomes - that's a non-deniable fact. And those who deny it, are burying their heads in sand.

People are obviously as picky as they can be.

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