The irrational standards women have toward men

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05 Jan 2018, 5:10 am

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In fact, I would say most of these people actually slightly above average in looks because wedding photographers only post the better looking people to their portfolios. I'd also say the women are better looking than the average woman more than the men are better looking than the average men.


These are not average couples but financially well stable ones who can afford to have professional photographers which costs like 5000 dollars/wedding. I'm not going to argue about that a stock marketing broker with average looks can find a girl who looks better than him but it's not the standard and it's well known that women tend to settle down for marriage after they're already overused by other men who had one night stands, love based relationships with them before they started to look the financial aspects to settle down with a "beta man" who likely provide them a good life which costs him money leaving aside other consequences like the court system which highly advance women and it often ends up with a financial cut off leaving men broken by cutting of 50% of their assets after they divorce.

Yeah she already defined average as upper middle class income. Which isn’t what me or anyone I know would consider an average joe. I always saw average people as poor or working class. I’ve neber heard middle class or upper middle class consider themselves average.

I dont know about the rest of what you said thoug. About beta males and such, lots of women do have fun with the bad hot guys before settling down with the steady guy when their older and want kids though I use to be told that growing up. That not to worry their have their fun then want to settle down with a guy like you(imaging I’d be sucessful). Um yeah I get to be some woman’s boring last resort guy how’s that anything to look forward to, just made me depressed. I won’t date after 35 because of this. I won’t be some woman’s last choice who she doesn’t really love and doesn’t want to have fun with cause she had all her fun and wild sexual experiences with other men already and telling young men this is awful, it tells them from the start thst they worthless to women besides reliability. Men want to be women’s Porsche not their vokeswagon bettle or Honda. I really hope I die before 35.

And be honest women, you wouldn’t want to be some guys last resort either, the ugly one he settles for cause you won’t cheat but he had tons of hot attractive women before you. No one wants thst. And people shouldn’t do thst to huamans. Either go be with one of your younger partners or stay single. Don’t use some person who you’d never dated when you were younger. It’s not fair to thst person. I loved never date a woman who I don’t find attractive or like just to be with a stable person like that.


I don't get the point why Men living in America or Western Europe would want to settle down with Western women when they can move to Asia and find a bride or girlfriend who demands far less and look better and healthier. When I get financially stable I'd move the hell out from here and find a bride or girlfriend overseas where women still have a more down to earth mindset and more feminine than the modern western feminist influenced woman.

Let these feminist living in a system where men don't have a presence let's see how they gonna repair their microwave, build their own houses, do the fireman and police jobs, see how well they can handle a system where men don't have a presence.



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05 Jan 2018, 5:58 am

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I just think you're a giant hypocrite, there is no group which society has less sympathy for than poor men, and you somehow feel justified sh*****g on them when you feel like it, yet act outraged by one or two comments about bad eating habits...


lol wtf is wrong with poor men? I only s**t on poor men if they’re also self proclaimed niceholes who think other people should change for them, or w*kers in general. News break, no one needs to change for anyone.



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05 Jan 2018, 6:05 am

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To be fair, men can be just as irrational with their standards towards women, rare though those individuals may or may not be. Believe it or not, I can assure you that there are men out there who wouldn't date anything less than a supermodel. This isn't a one-sided issue.


Finally someone with some sense. Both genders can be a**holes and shallow. All the nasty comments about my looks have come from men. To the extent of “Your lips are too puffy” - my lips aren’t even huge, lol.
“You are one dress size out of my preferred range” - I was sporty and fit at the time, but fat apparently.
“Can I see a pic of you in underwear so I can assess your body before we meet” - lol
“Your boobs are too big”
“Your face is weird”

Then the general ugly etc.

Just give it a rest about shallow women. All genders do it. One gender isn’t worse.



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05 Jan 2018, 7:00 am

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My example. If I could pick I would go for a Swedish, blonde, blue eyed viking looking guy. I ended up with a bold, 1 inch shorter than me, chubby guy. Why? He was charming, he made me feel like I found my soulmate! OK, he turned out to be a narc at the end but anyway. I hope you get my point.
Feeling sorry for yourself and blaming women will not help.


Or maybe because you realized that you are not attractive enough to get a Swedish, blonde, blue eyed viking looking guy - so you accepted to be with what you can obtain.

Most humans realize that at some point - women tend to realize this bit more late than men though.



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05 Jan 2018, 7:07 am

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Are you sure it’s that, there is no possibility that your personality and methods of interacting with people are unattractive? Can you explain why so many short, bald and overweight men seem to have families?

lol sly. No one needs to change their standards. It’s your problem they aren’t attracted to you, not theirs. Feminism is about the oppression and mistreatment of women. If someone doesn’t want to date you, they’re not mistreating you. No one owes someone else their attraction.

You like healthy weight women, right? You sexually prefer them? Women with feminine body shapes? It’s because it’s what biology dictates. Healthy women promote healthy offspring. You don’t have to be attracted to fat women if you’re not feeling it.

Biology dictates in women to go for good providers, strong men who protect and provide, negotiation and social authority which adds to that protection etc.

How exactly is it fair for you to be allowed to not feel anything for fat women, but it’s not okay for women to follow those biological instincts?

It really seems more like you are all butt hurt no one will have you so you blame the world. It’s the way it is. I’m not ideal for men, and I don’t expect them to change for me!! ! ! !


I'm not butthurt at all. I haven't been on any dating site nor even had a date for 2 years from now. I don't care anymore because it's all a big fuss about nothing but I see many of my male fellows suffer because of it and I'd highly advocate men to refuse dating women because it doesn't worth. Most women just use men for their money or status.

It's a lie that personality matters the most when it's looks.

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Racist guy still manages to get attention because of his looks

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In fact, I would say most of these people actually slightly above average in looks because wedding photographers only post the better looking people to their portfolios. I'd also say the women are better looking than the average woman more than the men are better looking than the average men.


Most of those are from bit above to well above average.

In the pics you posted, average men are with average women: like the pic 1 and 3 and others , and handsome men with beautiful women like in those:

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Those two couples are not 'average'.

And Asian women perceive Asian beauty in men differently.

You realize that there are plenty of men who are far uglier / less desired looks wise (ie. very short, or very fat, acne...etc) than the examples you posted?



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05 Jan 2018, 7:48 am

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Or maybe because you realized that you are not attractive enough to get a Swedish, blonde, blue eyed viking looking guy - so you accepted to be with what you can obtain.

Most humans realize that at some point - women tend to realize this bit more late than men though.

It may have something to do with the fact that, unlike girls, boys do not read stories about Swedish, blonde, blue eyed viking looking princes as much. Well at least I did not.



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05 Jan 2018, 8:22 am

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On the other hand women have had multiple partners and lose virginity earlier than men on average.

If the average woman has had multiple partners that means there can't be very many men who haven't had a partner. If women are having relationships that means men are having relationships or else the women would have no one to have relationships with. There's no way every woman could have a boyfriend while none of them men have a girlfriend.


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05 Jan 2018, 8:25 am

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I don't get the point why Men living in America or Western Europe would want to settle down with Western women when they can move to Asia and find a bride or girlfriend who demands far less and look better and healthier.

Why travel to Asia when many Asian women are moving to western nations? Don't go to them. Let them come to you.


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05 Jan 2018, 9:01 am

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I don't get the point why Men living in America or Western Europe would want to settle down with Western women when they can move to Asia and find a bride or girlfriend who demands far less and look better and healthier.

Why travel to Asia when many Asian women are moving to western nations? Don't go to them. Let them come to you.


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05 Jan 2018, 10:43 am

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On the other hand women have had multiple partners and lose virginity earlier than men on average.

If the average woman has had multiple partners that means there can't be very many men who haven't had a partner. If women are having relationships that means men are having relationships or else the women would have no one to have relationships with. There's no way every woman could have a boyfriend while none of them men have a girlfriend.


Women willing to have sex with the top 20% of men, so various women share the same guy.



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05 Jan 2018, 11:16 am

Enough of this 20% crap!

This "theory" doesn't stand up when placed before people who have actually gone out and lived life.

Who in the "ef" is in the "top 20%," anyway? How can you determine that?

Just because a guy looks like a model doesn't mean he smells like one. Or he can have bad breath. Or he can just be a total a**hole.



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05 Jan 2018, 11:24 am

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Or maybe because you realized that you are not attractive enough to get a Swedish, blonde, blue eyed viking looking guy - so you accepted to be with what you can obtain.

Most humans realize that at some point - women tend to realize this bit more late than men though.

It may have something to do with the fact that, unlike girls, boys do not read stories about Swedish, blonde, blue eyed viking looking princes as much. Well at least I did not.


No, I realized that I don't live in Sweden. I wanted to move, I was learning the language and meeting one, a rock singer, a couple of times, it just cost too much money to visit him and I just can't cope with Nordic winters.



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05 Jan 2018, 11:35 am

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Which two go togother?



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05 Jan 2018, 11:38 am

The panda would be the "outlier" amongst this group---because they only eat vegetation.

Baboons also eat fruit.



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05 Jan 2018, 12:12 pm

The assumption that men will settle for dating most women is just absolutely incorrect. Just because you might feel like you would settle for dating most any woman doesn't mean that most every guy shares that opinion. I would prefer to not date at all over dating most women I meet. I like my personal space and time and there are very few people that I would sacrifice that for. A majority of my single friends, both male and female, share my point of view.



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05 Jan 2018, 12:24 pm

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Enough of this 20% crap!

This "theory" doesn't stand up when placed before people who have actually gone out and lived life.

Who in the "ef" is in the "top 20%," anyway? How can you determine that?

Just because a guy looks like a model doesn't mean he smells like one. Or he can have bad breath. Or he can just be a total as*hole.


You're obsessed with smell kraftie... Anyone who looks fit and healthy, will usually smell that way too, unless they haven't showered in weeks.