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I have a mood screening planned for the coming year. I just wonder if it will help me at all.

Pick something that you don't mind doing because there's no point doing any exercise unless you are going to stick

with it. I like walking. I'm a fast walker and it doesn't have any of the risks of injury that other things have.

No exercise will make up for a s**t diet though. The trick there is getting into good habits. Take being pre-diabetic

as an incentive to improve your diet.

I know someone who is short and ugly yet has had a number of romantic relationships and two kids. His secret? Realistically assessing his value and approaching partners of similar value. And only asking partners who are likely to say "yes."

Nobody likes to be someone's second choice.

Mark, if you're out there reading this, I talked to a neighbor who has a nephew (about the same age as you) on the spectrum and like you, is also in need of love in his life.

She said that relationships will always hard at the beginning of it regardless if the other person is NT or not and that the first thing you should always do whenever you meet a person is to initiate conversation. If you move the relationship forward too fast, the other person's feelings could get hurt.

In fact, she emailed me this link just for you. Hope this helps.

https://www.meetup.com/topics/singles-with-aspergers/?_cookie-check=om1rJFrqmtWy8N1h&fbclid=IwAR0EvEJzej7Lb20gVwVhmkK8ppo0GS6pRsen9SO587O_l3IEIxvQsdO8iY4

You have value Sly. I hate it when you talk like that. Because when you say you have "no value," it ain't true.

My older brother is racist, sexist, homophobic, and xenophobic but he's always had girlfriends and is married. I am the opposite of those things but I am considered "weird" for being those things.

If you're unemployed and/or living with your parents, then becoming independent should become your #1 priority before you even consider getting a girlfriend. Because you're 30 years old, at that age, it's a huge deal breaker if you're still living with mom and dad.

So have your own place, and be financially stable.

You don't have to be rich, you just have to make enough money to be financially stable.

I could not pass my drivers license because I have Autism. I gave up trying after 2 failed attempts. Autistics are far less likely to drive than non-Autistics. I have had to rely on public transport or being driven by family members.

It took me a long time to get my license. I was 37 when I got it. I had over 70 lessons.

I failed a driving test when I was about 32. Then I waited 5 years.