To all Aspie men who are angry with women.

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clever.

A right is something every person deserves. Courtsey, Respect, Freedom.

If flowers are to be expected. Then theres no intent behind them.
Flowers are to be given as an expression of a feeling, of caring.

How can you have this for someone you don't know yet, or barely know?
I feel the same about a first kiss. I don't believe in kissing untill the feeling is right. Kissing out of convention betrays the purpose.

How is my repeating what I've seen constitute having a chip on my shoulder? From what I understand having a chip means having a pre-conceived idea ahead of time. I did'nt.

Okay; then surely you can Respect that women like the Courtesy of being given flowers, and that they have the Freedom to dump you if they don't like you that much.

Plus, MOST women are just not like this.

Most women would rather date guys who huffily inform them they have no right to flowers and dinner, than guys who buy flowers and dinner?

Wow! Glad I'm not most women.

I'm pleased you're not most women too. Good on you.

Don't you think it's about time you changed the thread title to . . . " Aspie women who are angry with men"?

Nah. Now, this is in my experience only,
but little sweet investments in love seem
to mean a hell of a lot more than spending
money on a date. It's the caring that matters,
NOT the forms.

I'm amused, but not angry.

^^ would you date me?

Don't dare to say no , don't ....

Two little carrots indicates me,
and I hate to crush your hopes
and all, but I'm really not into guys.

lmao or something along the lines of "Gender Wars"

Can't argue with that. I believe in that point too - the caring comes first and it shows a lot. It's also a lot safer than spoiling someone.
It's fair to every once in a while do something nice for someone I guess by buying them something or what not, but I wouldn't do that much because the girl would want more and more.
And no doubt it would become nuts, because they WOULD take advantage of that - tis why I'm NEVER going to allow myself in that situation lol.
What's worse they'd probably also lose interest in you after some time.

But I also believe in Juliekitty's point. Girls like that it seems to be a lot less stressful and difficult doing something nice for someone lol.

I think her point was that you have to be prepared to put some time and effort into the women you care about.

My point is that when women have the choice between men who court them and men who resent the very idea, you can't reasonably expect them to choose the latter.

Well, I can testify that it works the opposite way for me.

Obviously, my interest can't be created if it doesn't exist to start with; but if there's a spark, being really well-treated fans it.

But then, I'm a reasonable woman.