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MissConstrue
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09 Dec 2008, 1:13 pm

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Hmmm, MissConstrue. Funny, that sure does happen to me a lot. Feel like I get misconstrued everywhere I go. Little shy about this attempt to match up, cuz she's a grizzled veteran with over twelve thousand posts. Still, nothing ventured . . .

1.) ". . . not going to be that picky . . ."

*whew* There's some of the pressure off right there.

2.) ". . . cats . . ."

I love cats. My only pet was cat, Cassie. My unconscious mind is a cat. People tell me I'm like a cat. My coffee cup has a cat on it. Big on cats.

3.) "(no fundamentals)"

As previously stated, not religious

4.) "Aquarius"

Sagitarius. No idea if that's compatible or not. Born on the 21st, a cusp, and also the solstice, as it happens. Figures; my b-day is the shortest day of the entire year. :roll:

5.) " . . . Creative side . . ."

Guitarist since 17. Still pluckin away. 5 guitars. Should be working NY eve too.

6.) "Good in bed"

Oooooh. This is a tricky one. If I say "oh yeah," then it'll seem like I'm bragging. If I say, "no good at all," then I'd be lying. I'll just say that this really depends on my partner. If she's ready to go, so am I. :wink:

7.) ". . . need of space."

Oh yeah. Think I need space too. There might be enough space for everybody around here. I live in a good size place. There's plenty of room.

8.) ". . . try and get along with me.'

Done. If she can get along with me too. fair's fair after all. I'm easy. Or at least that's what some of the girls I know say about me. I'm not sure what they mean though. Is that the same as "pushover?" cuz I hear them saying that too sometimes.

9.) ". . . not discriminatory . . ."

Done. For the record; non-religious, apolitical, and no ideologies. I've got my hands full minding my OWN business. No need or desire to mind anybody else's. What fun is that?

Wow, Miss, this isn't a bad matchup here. Unless you're hiding the fact that you've got a third arm or something, we are pretty good stuff, looks like. Still, these were only your "must-haves." so it's probably a pretty sure thing that there's lots more. Best one so far though, gotta admit.

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That's strange, most people I find myself more in common with happen to be under Saggitarius and Virgo. That's a strange combination if it was in an astrological point of view. :lol:


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09 Dec 2008, 5:42 pm

Personality:
1) Similar social/political views as me (I am rather liberal)
2) Musical/Literary/artistic/creative
3) Must be spiritual/metaphysical, or, at least, tollerant of my leanings in that direction
4) Both independent and respectful of my independence
5) Have at least one shared interest
6) Fairly experienced and creative/adventurous
7) Not overly materialistic
8) Not overly career-oriented
9) Caring/willing to put up with me
10) Open Minded
11) Ideal IQ: 120-160
12) I would prefer someone who was not rigidly alligned with a subculture.
13) Have a strong presence of Sagittarius, Gemini, Aquarius or Aries in her chart. I also seem to get along quite well with scorpio, but have never dated one.

Physical
1) Green or Brown eyes
2) Brown, Black or Red Hair
3) Healthy body type
4) Under 6' tall (I am generally not attracted to women who are taller than me)



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09 Dec 2008, 6:01 pm

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Hmmm, MissConstrue. Funny, that sure does happen to me a lot. Feel like I get misconstrued everywhere I go. Little shy about this attempt to match up, cuz she's a grizzled veteran with over twelve thousand posts. Still, nothing ventured . . .

1.) ". . . not going to be that picky . . ."

*whew* There's some of the pressure off right there.

2.) ". . . cats . . ."

I love cats. My only pet was cat, Cassie. My unconscious mind is a cat. People tell me I'm like a cat. My coffee cup has a cat on it. Big on cats.

3.) "(no fundamentals)"

As previously stated, not religious

4.) "Aquarius"

Sagitarius. No idea if that's compatible or not. Born on the 21st, a cusp, and also the solstice, as it happens. Figures; my b-day is the shortest day of the entire year. :roll:

5.) " . . . Creative side . . ."

Guitarist since 17. Still pluckin away. 5 guitars. Should be working NY eve too.

6.) "Good in bed"

Oooooh. This is a tricky one. If I say "oh yeah," then it'll seem like I'm bragging. If I say, "no good at all," then I'd be lying. I'll just say that this really depends on my partner. If she's ready to go, so am I. :wink:

7.) ". . . need of space."

Oh yeah. Think I need space too. There might be enough space for everybody around here. I live in a good size place. There's plenty of room.

8.) ". . . try and get along with me.'

Done. If she can get along with me too. fair's fair after all. I'm easy. Or at least that's what some of the girls I know say about me. I'm not sure what they mean though. Is that the same as "pushover?" cuz I hear them saying that too sometimes.

9.) ". . . not discriminatory . . ."

Done. For the record; non-religious, apolitical, and no ideologies. I've got my hands full minding my OWN business. No need or desire to mind anybody else's. What fun is that?

Wow, Miss, this isn't a bad matchup here. Unless you're hiding the fact that you've got a third arm or something, we are pretty good stuff, looks like. Still, these were only your "must-haves." so it's probably a pretty sure thing that there's lots more. Best one so far though, gotta admit.

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That's strange, most people I find myself more in common with happen to be under Saggitarius and Virgo. That's a strange combination if it was in an astrological point of view. :lol:


Do you know what your ascendent and moon are?
I know that the prominent sign in my natal chart is actually Sagittarius (in spite of having the Sun in Gemeni). It is posible that you have Sagittarius as your ascendent. Also, I know that Neptune is in Sagittarius in your natal chart (since you are 26 years old). If Neptune is in a strong position in your chart, due to aspects with other planets (conjunctions, trines, etc.), this could lead to it having a strong influence on your personality.

As far as resembling a Virgo, I think this is pretty much a given for anyone with AS, due to the rational, analytical quality of Virgo.



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10 Dec 2008, 12:32 am

I will be straight-forward and honest. I have too many faults as a human being to even hope for a girlfriend; and I don't even believe that the right woman for me exists out there. I would only become a true burden on her and she would most likely end up in a mental institution after being with me. Not to change the subject but some of my faults:

1) un-organized
2) a raging, destructive evil temper (I mean it's bad! Beethoven's temper is nothing compared to mine)
3) a really horrific memory
4) angry or depressed most of the time
5) sloth (hates laborious work)
6) anxious in public
7) never know what the right thing to say is
8) (for some who are superficial) short, bald, hairy, and old
9) cannot trust others especially women due to being molested when I was 9 by a woman
10) hardly a sense of humor (or if cartoonish counts, then that is my sense of humor)
11) sometimes very opinionated (yet...open to ideas)
12) very bad auditory processing problem

Now my virtues:
1) IQ=126 (if that comprises a virtue)
2) very compassionate and caring of those I trust
3) perfect pitch
4) a sweetheart in real life
5) devoted (I would NEVER cheat on a woman - that is just sickening)
6) sympathetic to those I trust
7) sensitive
8) I guess I argue well (when I'm not angry)
9) left brain = right brain (I think logically as well as emotionally)

As one can see, the faults outweigh the virtues; therefore, I will not burden any woman and choose to live alone until I hopefully can fix (with help) those faults. Sorry if I changed the topic, but the topic was to list your dream partner, and I answered.



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10 Dec 2008, 1:01 am

1. Female
2. Not excessively heavy
3. Not excessively evil



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10 Dec 2008, 1:17 am

I would normally say I require my mate to not believe in astrology. But I like guys and guys don't tend to make life decisions based on the position of the planets. So it would seem unnecessary to state.



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11 Dec 2008, 10:37 pm

I would never take astrology seriously.

http://www.theonion.com/content/horoscope/dec-09-2008


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12 Dec 2008, 10:56 am

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I would never take astrology seriously.

http://www.theonion.com/content/horoscope/dec-09-2008


I read the Onion all the time.


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15 Dec 2008, 12:01 am

Personality:

-Male
-Patient, very patient
-Older than I am
-Slower paced lifestyle
-Loner type, or at least, not one with a need for lots of social outings
-Adventurous and free-spirited
-Not affiliated with any particular religion but open minded
-VERY open-minded
-Interest in the metaphysical, and things of a spiritual or esoteric nature.. Somebody who actually THINKS about life and death, space, our reality and the beyond.
-Direct in communication
-Love of animals and nature
-Nocturnal, at least occasionally. Will accompany me when I feel like wandering the streets at 2am.
-Outdoorsy. Actually enjoys being outside, NOT inside playing video games all day [though that's fine every so often, just not every damn day]

Physical appearance:
-Taller and larger than I am.. I like the burly lumberjack types; that would be ideal, I guess.
-Hair that is either long (past chin) OR shaved/bald. With facial hair.
-Slightly disheveled looking


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15 Dec 2008, 2:12 am

Physically:
slightly shorter than 5'7"
asian
a certain facial structure I cant describe
a healthy body leaning towards small
perfectly proportioned to my liking

Personality:
not a b***h (This one is key!)
likes me for me
is willing to have lots of kids... I want a bare minimum of 3
is not a b***h
knows what I am feeling without me having to explain it
is tolerant of the many views in society
is there for you when noone else is
will support you when you a little extra push to get going
creates their own path, rather than having someone else guide her through life
oh, and I dont want to marry someone who is bitchy



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15 Dec 2008, 6:18 am

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socially inept genius preferably with an extremely high IQ and love of math, physics, and sex. looks are negotiable. sarcastic sense of humor is nice. Any sense of humor is great, even nerd humor.


Sorry, I'm married..... :wink:

You are probably the first person that would like my kind of humor when i'm at my best (mostly mixed with a sharp cynical flavour)....normal reply is: how could you say that!?


well I am also married, so I don't think it would matter if you were single or not. Though we could be BFFs. We can have sleepovers and talk math and tie ribbons in each other's hair.


j/k



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15 Dec 2008, 6:41 am

- female
-around my age
-educated
-attractive

...and that's it , the dating's purpose is to know if you like her personality.



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15 Dec 2008, 9:01 am

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well I am also married, so I don't think it would matter if you were single or not.


Depends on the perspective, so this quote could have been from either of us.

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Though we could be BFFs. We can have sleepovers and talk math and tie ribbons in each other's hair.


not too sure about the ribbons in my hair though.....perhaps if they are pink Möbius ribbons...lol



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15 Dec 2008, 7:31 pm

soaring wrote:
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well I am also married, so I don't think it would matter if you were single or not.


Depends on the perspective, so this quote could have been from either of us.

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Though we could be BFFs. We can have sleepovers and talk math and tie ribbons in each other's hair.


not too sure about the ribbons in my hair though.....perhaps if they are pink Möbius ribbons...lol


ooooooo... pink Möbius ribbons... this is about the first time in 17 years I have actually wanted a sleepover.



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17 Dec 2008, 12:34 am

Birdgirl wrote:
Personality:

-Male
-Patient, very patient
-Older than I am
-Slower paced lifestyle
-Loner type, or at least, not one with a need for lots of social outings
-Adventurous and free-spirited
-Not affiliated with any particular religion but open minded
-VERY open-minded
-Interest in the metaphysical, and things of a spiritual or esoteric nature.. Somebody who actually THINKS about life and death, space, our reality and the beyond.
-Direct in communication
-Love of animals and nature
-Nocturnal, at least occasionally. Will accompany me when I feel like wandering the streets at 2am.
-Outdoorsy. Actually enjoys being outside, NOT inside playing video games all day [though that's fine every so often, just not every damn day]

Physical appearance:
-Taller and larger than I am.. I like the burly lumberjack types; that would be ideal, I guess.
-Hair that is either long (past chin) OR shaved/bald. With facial hair.
-Slightly disheveled looking


Sounds like me... except for the burly part. I guess it is somewhat irrelevant at the moment, as I am seeing someone.



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17 Dec 2008, 12:37 am

Shiggily wrote:
soaring wrote:
Shiggily wrote:
well I am also married, so I don't think it would matter if you were single or not.


Depends on the perspective, so this quote could have been from either of us.

Shiggily wrote:
Though we could be BFFs. We can have sleepovers and talk math and tie ribbons in each other's hair.


not too sure about the ribbons in my hair though.....perhaps if they are pink Möbius ribbons...lol


ooooooo... pink Möbius ribbons... this is about the first time in 17 years I have actually wanted a sleepover.


Möbius ribbons? are those just Möbius strips turned into hair peices? If so, sounds interesting, I love Möbius strips.