why you are a virgin?

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please keep in mind that not everyone lives in metric-land.

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i am in the process of getting social coaching to help me read other peoples emotions, body language,
and non-verbal cues. im going to be getting it from a non-profit that is only about 25-30 miles away from
me in asheville, nc. im going to be going through a non-profit that does this kind of thing, as well as psych
evals and they only deal with auties and aspies. i did not know they even existed - but i found them by
making some phone calls and visiting some non-profits who only deal with the mentally handicapped.
they are going to help me learn how to make friends and good ones that are keepers, and maybe ill be able
to find an aspie(or autie) who might just deserve to have me - and who might pop my cherry because she loves me. i would not have known they even existed if i did not make the phone calls, and visit non-profits that deal with the mentally handicapped. but before they can help me, i have to get some help from my worker who is helping me get into voc rehab, and i have to fill in some forms, and get all my ducks in a row in a matter of speaking. please wish me the best.

this is what i am like - i am an aspie - i do total truth and stuff the modesty.
plus - i am very comfortable with my sexuality and i am very open with it.

i got kicked out of aspies for freedom - i am very far right conservative - aspies for freedom is something like 70% leftists/liberals - i pissed most of them off .

BUT are you still with her - and is the relationship STABLE - and i am not talking about money - i am referring to emotionally(is she mean to you or not in other words)?

lewdi28792 I am pretty sure there is a forum rule against multi posting.. I know you do it to keep your thoughts in order but it's really annoying and can be considered post spam. Try multi-qouting instead.

the forum software doesn't make it easy to multiquote though. Unless you're very adept at copy and paste, it's hard to get around that...

You stubborn Anglo-Saxons are the exception, you know?!?

1 mile is roughly 1,5 km, so 100 km would be something like 65 miles.



I met 4 ex-girlfriends online and one via a friend whom I had also met online (I've had 5 exes in total). Currently I'm single, but nevertheless my shortest relationship was 3 months and my longest laster for 6 years. Though single today, the life experience I gained from never being single for more than half a year during the last 9 years has been priceless.



What's so difficult about copy-paste? I use it at work (I work in IT) almost constantly

ok - ill try - but how do you do it? do you have to go back to the post(s) you want to reply to each and every time and make 1 great big document out of it? sounds like a bigger PITA than it is worth.

i can possibly do it using tabbed browsing - iceweasel (debian's debranded version of firefox) allows tabbed browsing - i can have the edit box on 1 tab and the forum on another one - but would more than 1 login screw the software up bigger than $hit? or do you do it with a word processor as a scratch pad to help do it?

Reply to different posts in different browser windows or browser tabs (depending on your browser). When you finished writing all posts, just cut-and-paste your text from all your replies behind one another, close the ones where you cut your replies from and only post combined reply that's left.

There are other methods, but this is the simplest one and requires no understanding of BBCode.

I'm IT as well, and I use it constantly too...

The thing is, there's people out there that are not IT... and such things are as confusing to them as holding a conversation is to us...

Oh well... I had a New Year's reception at work this afternoon and I managed to interact with my colleagues in a satisfactory fashion. While many may think I'm a bit weird, there are some people who do clearly seem to be comfortable hanging around me. So at least in a professional environment, I still more or less manage to keep up appearances.

With regards to relationships, it's more difficult. I still haven't managed to find a woman to stay with for the rest of my life and being single at 28 does sound a bit frightening when I see people around my age having children or marrying. Still, I'm trying to cope with that fact and hope to get to know some new people in a local student bar and maybe there's a single history student doing a post-master's degree who enjoys my company and likes to get to know me? I really don't know what to expect, but I have 2 connections there and this may help to get to know a few people. I went to quite a severe depression during the past few weeks after my latest girlfriend broke up with me, but when I came to realise that I pretty much haven't been single for more then a few months for a period of 9 years I graduately learnt to cope with the situation. Now, my main priorities are to get my household work scheduled into my daily life while at the same time developing a social network that hopefully allows me to meet a girlfriend in real life, rather than finding her online as I used to. It's quite a challenge since I'm really poor at picking up girls I haven't already spoken with online first for dozens of hours, but I believe that if I really want to evolve I must at least give it an effort and see how much my flirting skills have improved since I was 18 years old. It is always worth an effort to try to improve yourself. You just have to accept the possibility of failure. But I guess that's just a part of life in general.

ill have to take a whack at it.. im just afraid that being logged in more than once will cause the software running the site/forum to disconnect me.

update:

i came up with a way to do combined posts - i will combine them in openoffice.org writer and them copy/paste it into the search box. it is a little crude and ugly, but it works. i tried it in the ''problems with western men'' category.

I live in Baltimore and I'm not a wigger, that's why I'm still a virgin

I'm a virgin cause girls think having a romantic attraction to me is like having a weird fetish. Girls think it's weird to date guys who they know have problems, because 1.they think it would be creepy to f*** someone who isnt all the way there, in their opinion, and 2.guys with mental problems don't get the same respect as fratboy/jock types do in society. No girl will consider me until I'm at least 21. I've accepted that.

I lost my virginity at 19, so compared with my situation you're still on schedule