How physically attractive do you think you are?

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Researchers in the very distant future will be able to determine Kardashian's remains from the large silicon traces.

Btw, Kim Kardashian pronounces her own last name wrong, this is not how Armenians pronounce the "-ian" part , she americanized this part probably for snobbish reasons; Armenians are 4% of the population in my country and majority in certain parts of the city, so I know how it's pronounced correctly, Armenians surnames often end with "-ian", it's their trademark.

It's pronounced as YAN, Kardash-YAN --> Armenians themselves have been pronouncing this part like this for centuries , so this is correct way.

https://www.hearnames.com/pronunciation ... mitstart=0

Example:

Put me in a room with 9 random people, chances are, I would be ranked the most physically attractive. So I'm at the very least an objective 9/10 physically.

My physical appearance doesn't help me, if anything it plays against me. People expect me to act like a male Hollywood character. I always have to carry 90% of the conversation. I don't enjoy it. I'm not naturally outgoing. I feel alienated.

^ You can easily uglify yourself.

one doesn't have to lift a finger to uglify oneself, if only one just waits a few decades.

Lemme explain to you further on that:
If *you*, right now, go for example roaming around the streets of beirut, almost *everyone* there will be able to recognize you instantly as a western european regardless what you wear (eastern europeans have different distinct features) before you even open your mouth - shop vendors and waiters will speak to you in English before you even say a word.

But if you go to Berlin or Paris or even Madrid, no one will know you're not local unless you speak English to them.

So it's not just about the skin color (some have fair skin in middle east, we have blondes too, but not the same), but western europeans have strinkgly different features to us (as caucasians) and they're much more apparent in real life than in photos; in photos these differences are harder to notice.

The only ethinicy here who are sometimes mistaken as Europeans, as Russians in particular, are the Circassians.

So that's why Kim Kardashian's butt is so oversized.

I changed my mind from my previous answer. I'm still overweight, but now I think my face is a bit pretty. I have a very cute nose.

First of all being "attractive," if that implies being sexually attractive, is far from a "blessing" in my experience. Being sexually attractive pretty much screws up your entire life if you're autistic and clueless.
I used to be sexually attractive, but I fixed it. Life is much better not being sexually attractive.
As for being aesthetically attractive, now that I'm in favour of.
You see that all the time - people who just have a good look about them. It's got nothing to do with wanting to have sex with them, they just look nice. Maybe they have a kind face, or their clothing style is interesting, or some other aspect of their appearance you find pleasing that has nothing to do with sex.
Me, I'm unattractive in both ways. Though the sexually unattractive bit was very deliberate, the aesthetically unattractive bit was rather due to misfortune with my health, so I'm working on being more aesthetically attractive at the moment.
PLUS, I really only care about being aesthetically attractive to myself. I want to feel like I like the way I look. I don't care if anyone else finds that attractive or not.

Even though Im autistic I still get a lot of men say I am beautiful and want to date me
As soon as I started my current bus driving job I got a date straightaway and he might be on the spectrum but he isn't sure , anyway we been married 4 years now.

Female? Maybe.

Male? Definitely.*

The whole thing is like learning that you own a safe with a billion dollars inside.
But you don't know the combination and there are a billion permutations, there's no listening for clicks with a stethoscope, and the safe is impervious even to a thermonuclear blast.

*And make no mistake about it, that difference constitutes a long standing grievance by many men on the spectrum rivaling even persecution by NTs in school. The contrast in the relative sexual value of males and females is seldom cast more sharply than in the ease in which aspie females pick up partners relative to their male counterparts. It's basically the autism version of dethronement by a younger sibling.

Relationships seem to come easier for most aspie women.

Yay, more hateful dishonest BS about autistic women. You should fit right in, new guy!

That is a looong date

Don't worry, I'm sure if you hate hard enough it will be enough to balance out his hate. After all, everyone knows that two wrongs make a right. We could have peace and cooperation between the genders. Yet some people just want to start a gender war?

... I think you might be misunderstanding. I'm saying that being sexually desirable is a bad thing. If you're saying no one wants an autistic male as compared to an autistic female - then that would actually paint the female worse off in this example. Because if she is sexually attractive, people will still see her as such, regardless of being autistic. All the autistic bit wold do would be confuse and endanger her.
In my experience, it made understanding socializing and communicating ten times harder, because everything was rife with subtext and ulterior motives because of my appearance at the time. Every time anyone had anything to do with me, it was all false, BS, lies, based on the fact that I was sexually attractive.
Every time anyone spoke to me, was nice to me, wanted to interact with me or showed any interest in me, it was because of being attractive.
They pretended to have other reasons - they wanted to get to know me as a person, they were interested in my interests, we had things in common and could be friends - but it was all lies. The only reason anyone ever bothered with me at all was to try and trick me into having sex with them based on how well they lied to me, and when I refused, they got nasty. They projected all their own sexual social game-playing onto me, and when rejected, accused me of doing it all on purpose to tease or humiliate/reject them, trying to trick them and play games on them, that I was giving "mixed signals," etc.
I tend to be delayed in these areas, I estimate, approximately 10 years. So they were basically accusing someone of sexual misconduct who had a child's understanding of what was going on.
Nowdays it's much more straight forward. If someone is interacting with me, they're going to have a simple reason I can deal with - usually utilitarian, or just polite. I can actually be nice to people now, without them leaping to the conclusion that because I'm attractive and I'm being nice, I'm making a pass at them or inviting them to have sex with me. It's not the mine-field it was when I was younger and hadn't fixed the sexually attractive thing yet.
/rant.