RetroGamer87
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08 Feb 2017, 6:10 am
The curse of me being tall is that I can't find a girl who's the same height as me. Do you know how rare 6'2 girls are?
RandomFox wrote:
Somehow looking up when I speak to someone feels very awkward and hugging someone while standing, who's of a similar height feels sooo good 
like our bodies match, like jigsaw pieces.
I have never hugged a girl the same height as me. Only girls shorter than me. like our bodies match, like jigsaw pieces.It feels so awkward hugging a girl when the top of her head comes up to her chin. She complained that I was too tall. We couldn't have sex while standing up.
Sweetleaf wrote:
Also I have mostly heard guys say they prefer girls shorter than them
Not me. I think tall girls are graceful and elegant. That's probably why modeling agencies have a minimum height requirement of 5'10 for female models.
08 Feb 2017, 7:17 am
08 Feb 2017, 7:49 am
Alliekit wrote:
314pe wrote:
Alliekit wrote:
I have to say I've heard a lot guys express that aswell, thats why I'm so self-conscious about wearing heels.
If it's almost universally accepted that shorter height is more desirable in women then why do heels exist at all? I don't know any man who wouldn't date a woman because she is too short for him.
Because the arch created is the same as the way a woman's foot looks at the point of orgasm. Also they force a woman's hips to sway more and make her bottom look more rounded and perky. They basically make you feel sexy, I love wearing heels when i am going out but guys just don't love me in heels.
Orgasm part sounds fake. How would a man know how a woman's foot looks at the point of orgasm? Seriously, what position is good for that?
08 Feb 2017, 8:23 am
08 Feb 2017, 9:05 am
314pe wrote:
Alliekit wrote:
314pe wrote:
Alliekit wrote:
I have to say I've heard a lot guys express that aswell, thats why I'm so self-conscious about wearing heels.
If it's almost universally accepted that shorter height is more desirable in women then why do heels exist at all? I don't know any man who wouldn't date a woman because she is too short for him.
Because the arch created is the same as the way a woman's foot looks at the point of orgasm. Also they force a woman's hips to sway more and make her bottom look more rounded and perky. They basically make you feel sexy, I love wearing heels when i am going out but guys just don't love me in heels.
Orgasm part sounds fake. How would a man know how a woman's foot looks at the point of orgasm? Seriously, what position is good for that?
https://www.google.co.uk/amp/www.popsug ... -orange-gb
Apparently that's what a french academic says but who knows I don't know if it is the case
Of we are talking sexual position then you would see the feet if they are on your shoulders or during foreplay.
But maybe it's more for the woman having her feet in that shape reminds her of orgasm.
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08 Feb 2017, 1:21 pm
Sweetleaf
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08 Feb 2017, 1:42 pm
Outrider wrote:
Sweetleaf wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Oh, the Knight of Venus strikes again!! Whenever I talk about behavioral facts in the majority of women, you get offended and you want to defend them all and prove it that you are not like them.
We get it already, you are not like them, you are speccciallll, you are unique, I swear - I believe you! I am not being sarcastic.
But seriously, to deny that the majority of women prefer men taller than themselves is too (as a must requirement).....burying head in the sand.
Look there are plenty of studies, interviews, tv debates, articles, dating sties stats, about this very fact.
And if you actually have a female-dominated social circle, you would hear it too. Go ask other women and see by yourself. There are also males' life experiences here, which you never consider them and always invalidate them: In my experience, I got disqualified quickly on that, before meeting them or on the very first date, so there was not even a chance to make them "overlook" it for other traits.
I am not inventing anything nor I am being unfair by stating this.
But Sweetleaf, seriously.....can you stop doing this frequently? To defend women every time I talk something about some women, it's a Love and Dating forum and I am straight , so normally I won't complain about men here.
When you talked about the player guys in okcupid, I didn't pop out and was like "Oh, so why are you then on Okcupid? Why do you want to date men if they are all that evil and players?
I am not like this, you know! Not all men like this" I didn't invalidate your experiences, nor I turned to Guardian of Men or something.
But on the other hand, you do this all the time, it's ridiculous.
I am offended? I don't feel like I am....and yes you are being sarcastic...
Also I don't think you read my post I just agreed most women may have a height preference...or at least a large enough majority for that to be a generalization. So yeah whatever most women have a preference for taller guys....most guys have a preference for shorter women to. So pay attention.
I don't question that in your experience women have rejected you for height alone, I do think those women are rather shallow if that was really their only reason regardless if you agree with that or not.
I mean unless I really am that much different than other females I would think quite a lot of them are more likely to compromise on some preferences if they find someone they hit it off with...rather than refuse anyone who doesn't fit every single one of their pre-determined preferences. Hence my example of a preference for long hair, not ending up being a requirement.
Also you do invalidate my experiences...every time I mention an experience to point out a different reaction/thought process a woman could have aside from the one you put forward, you sarcastically tell me how I am just trying to show off how unique I am or something .
People are far more shallow and less willing to compromise on online dating, which is what this thread is about.
Trust me, many men who've been here a while would agree much of your views are contrary to their experiences with many women.
Well then I guess I have nothing valid to say...I guess every women on a dating site is shallow and will reject any guy who isn't 'tall' regardless of if they find anything else they have in common, they are all sticklers on that specific feature.
I guess I will refrain from posting anything about online dating based on my experiences, since they aren't valid and don't fit with the general narrative of how 'most' women are said to think, behave and what preferences they have.
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08 Feb 2017, 1:47 pm
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08 Feb 2017, 1:57 pm
08 Feb 2017, 2:00 pm
The_Face_of_Boo
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08 Feb 2017, 2:50 pm
Alliekit wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Honestly, that's the most stupid thing I have ever heard.
That may be but you don't have to be so rude about it.
I am just being myself.
08 Feb 2017, 11:05 pm
09 Feb 2017, 2:42 am
09 Feb 2017, 3:21 am
09 Feb 2017, 3:33 am
09 Feb 2017, 4:08 am
Well, at least they're being more honest
