28 Dec 2017, 9:34 pm
AngelRho wrote:
Sabreclaw wrote:
AngelRho wrote:
Sabreclaw wrote:
314pe wrote:
Sabreclaw wrote:
nazaya wrote:
Marknis wrote:
I often feel at this point in my life (29, going on 30) that I will have to become what I hate if I want to have a relationship. The men in the culture I live in who have relationships drink until they pass out, smoke until they smell like cigarettes, drive dangerously fast, say reading books as well as non-FPS video games are for "fa***ts", blast loud pop country or rap music, and physically harass women. These are also the same guys who called me "fa***t" as well as punched me up in school. Even the women in the culture I live in have told me they hate "nice guys" and that the bullies were just "toughening you (me) up". I don't want to be fake but I hate how being authentic hasn't payed off for me. 
I think you're right. You'll have to become like ordinary men IF you're looking for an ordinary woman. And I don't know about you, but I hate ordinary...
Looking for a needle in a haystack there, basically.
Easy if you have a good magnet?
Quirky ND women are great, but don't forget that they're women too. And, like other heterosexual women, they like masculine traits in their partners.
If one is bad with the average woman, then they clearly don't have much of a magnet. So searching for a super-rare woman who's still single and doesn't have some kind of horrifying character flaw seems like a rather futile effort.
I can't speak as to how great "quirky ND" women are, because I have never met one in the real world, and frankly the women on this website aren't exactly the kind I'd be putting much effort into chasing after, a fact I'm sure they're all heartbroken by.
What, you mean like hale_bopp and hurtloam? Slw? They’re freakin awesome.
Didn't Hurtloam leave? I don't know who Slw is, and Hale_Bopp's personality is mostly unknown to me. Most of the women I've encountered here I'm neutral with at best.
I think Hale_Bopp was here long before I was. Then she disappeared for a while and obviously she’s back. I’ve crushed on her a long time and she keeps ignoring me. Honestly, though, that’s prolly the smartest thing she could do.
Uh... good for you? You and I don't tend to see eye-to-eye on matters, so it doesn't surprise me one bit we have different opinions on the same people.
28 Dec 2017, 10:04 pm
hale_bopp wrote:
Marknis wrote:
Machine Man wrote:
Wait, you're an adult, right? Why don't you just leave your crappy town and family?
I don't have the money or resources to do so.
I was going to say something face of boo like but I’d best not be a silly troll.
i wish you would say it, boo's posts are funny
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28 Dec 2017, 10:12 pm
Hopelessly3 wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
Marknis wrote:
Machine Man wrote:
Wait, you're an adult, right? Why don't you just leave your crappy town and family?
I don't have the money or resources to do so.
I was going to say something face of boo like but I’d best not be a silly troll.
i wish you would say it, boo's posts are funny
+1
29 Dec 2017, 1:08 pm
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29 Dec 2017, 6:13 pm
hale_bopp wrote:
sly279 wrote:
AngelRho wrote:
Sabreclaw wrote:
314pe wrote:
Sabreclaw wrote:
nazaya wrote:
Marknis wrote:
I often feel at this point in my life (29, going on 30) that I will have to become what I hate if I want to have a relationship. The men in the culture I live in who have relationships drink until they pass out, smoke until they smell like cigarettes, drive dangerously fast, say reading books as well as non-FPS video games are for "fa***ts", blast loud pop country or rap music, and physically harass women. These are also the same guys who called me "fa***t" as well as punched me up in school. Even the women in the culture I live in have told me they hate "nice guys" and that the bullies were just "toughening you (me) up". I don't want to be fake but I hate how being authentic hasn't payed off for me.
I think you're right. You'll have to become like ordinary men IF you're looking for an ordinary woman. And I don't know about you, but I hate ordinary...
Looking for a needle in a haystack there, basically.
Easy if you have a good magnet?
Quirky ND women are great, but don't forget that they're women too. And, like other heterosexual women, they like masculine traits in their partners.
If one is bad with the average woman, then they clearly don't have much of a magnet. So searching for a super-rare woman who's still single and doesn't have some kind of horrifying character flaw seems like a rather futile effort.
I can't speak as to how great "quirky ND" women are, because I have never met one in the real world, and frankly the women on this website aren't exactly the kind I'd be putting much effort into chasing after, a fact I'm sure they're all heartbroken by.
What, you mean like hale_bopp and hurtloam? Slw? They’re freakin awesome.
They are also really pretty and work good paying jobs. They wouldn’t date guys like most aspies guys. I too haven’t meet any nd women locally. I’ve meet playful women which I find super attractive it they’re are all 25 and younger and thus Wouldn’t date me likely. But I don’t make enough either.
I’m playful when I’m happy and not stressed, and around my people, which is almost never.
Wish I could be more of the girl I know I am inside. Too many complicated thought patterns, I’d love to be stupid and not think about anything except what I enjoy, that would be great.
Be stressed less then:p playful women are great. But then I’m playful so biased.
I wouldn’t want woman to be stupid, though unlike a lot of guys here I also wouldn’t mind if she was and I would look down on stupid women. They can be quite cute. They just not as smart. I wouldn’t call them stupid.
Working to climb ladder will cause stress. I don’t envy it. I get enough stress just trying to keep my job without worrying about getting promotions.
What girl are you inside?
29 Dec 2017, 6:16 pm
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30 Dec 2017, 6:47 am
RightGalaxy wrote:
Marknis wrote:
whatamievendoing wrote:
Misery wrote:
First of all, a question: *why* do you want a relationship? What is your personal reason for this?
I'm guessing the only reason he wants a relationship is simply for the sake of having one. Which, as far as I'm concerned, is the worst kind of reason for pursuing it. I can't speak from experience here, but I do believe it can end up hurting you more than it benefits you.
No, I don't want a relationship for the sake of one. If I had that mentality, I would've settled years ago with some nasty redneck woman or gross ghetto hood rat or hyper religious fanatic. I want a loving partner to share my life with instead of an impromptu sex bot which is what most men in the culture around me seem to want. They like "screwing" but don't like anything else about women.
Remember, never get with a woman who you wouldn't want as your mother.
Good LORD!! ! My bad! what i meant to say was "Never get with a woman who you would NOT want as your kid's mother. I was half-asleep last time. I AM SOOO SORRY!! !
30 Dec 2017, 6:59 am
AngelRho wrote:
Hopelessly3 wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
Marknis wrote:
Machine Man wrote:
Wait, you're an adult, right? Why don't you just leave your crappy town and family?
I don't have the money or resources to do so.
I was going to say something face of boo like but I’d best not be a silly troll.
i wish you would say it, boo's posts are funny
+1
Ok
Ok,
I was going to suggest that he open a clit flicking contraption business to get the funds he needs.
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