Claims that a few "super hot men" are hogging all the women

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24 Jun 2019, 4:30 am

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Women require a minimal level of attractivity, and when this is met, they will validate personality. The minimal level probably is dependent on her own attractivity, and so this might be a filter women have to create a manageable dating pool.


Yeah I agree with this...



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24 Jun 2019, 4:38 am

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I'm afraid looks outweight personality for women;
https://www.livescience.com/58607-mens- ... ality.html
You can't fight biology Mona.

Question for you cyberdad! If one can't transcend one's biology then how do we have free will?


Free will is debatable
https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/bl ... -free-will



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24 Jun 2019, 7:51 am

We don't have "absolute" Free Will.....that's obvious.

However, in places like the USA and Australia, most people probably have a decent amount of "relative Free Will."

My "biology" deters me from growing to be 6 feet tall, and to attract certain women.....but I think of it as "that's the way the ball bounces," rather than indicating a "lack of Free Will."



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25 Jun 2019, 3:02 am

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My "biology" deters me from growing to be 6 feet tall, and to attract certain women.....but I think of it as "that's the way the ball bounces," rather than indicating a "lack of Free Will."


Yeah we work with what we got Kraftie...some of us just have to move to high gear to get results instead of cruising through life in first gear wondering why nothing is happening.



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25 Jun 2019, 8:37 am

cyberdad wrote:
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My "biology" deters me from growing to be 6 feet tall, and to attract certain women.....but I think of it as "that's the way the ball bounces," rather than indicating a "lack of Free Will."
Yeah we work with what we got Kraftie... some of us just have to move to high gear to get results instead of cruising through life in first gear wondering why nothing is happening.
And some people "rev their engines in 'Park'", never leave the curb, and then complain about traffic on the freeway.



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25 Jun 2019, 8:42 am

Hire a prostitute already. It's not 1955 :roll:



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25 Jun 2019, 8:46 am

They're not super hot as much as they're narcissist/sociopathic and spew out some really good lines. The guys are doing this just for sex with as many woman as they can have it with. The women are just being misslead. These guys have them believing that they are the only one. No woman will share a man. They are horridly jealous and possessive- when I was young, I almost lost my life because someone's boyfriend said hello to me.
Remember this phrase: "a sucker born every minute."



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25 Jun 2019, 8:49 am

Masculinity and femininity are overrated, anyways. Mods and hippies are the wave of the future.


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25 Jun 2019, 8:50 am

They were the wave of the past, too.



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25 Jun 2019, 11:04 am

RightGalaxy wrote:
They're not super hot as much as they're narcissist/sociopathic and spew out some really good lines. The guys are doing this just for sex with as many woman as they can have it with. The women are just being misslead. These guys have them believing that they are the only one. No woman will share a man. They are horridly jealous and possessive- when I was young, I almost lost my life because someone's boyfriend said hello to me.
Remember this phrase: "a sucker born every minute."


Why assume that they're all being strung along and aren't equally just in it for something with no strings and no need to worry about maintaining contact? No one's being 'shared', because no one's been claimed.


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25 Jun 2019, 12:06 pm

rdos wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
I'm afraid looks outweight personality for women;
https://www.livescience.com/58607-mens- ... ality.html

You can't fight biology Mona.


I've seen the study, but your conclusion is wrong. Women require a minimal level of attractivity, and when this is met, they will validate personality. The minimal level probably is dependent on her own attractivity, and so this might be a filter women have to create a manageable dating pool.


I can't believe I'm typing this, but rdos is right. Physical attraction is an activation barrier, but not the end all be all for most.


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25 Jun 2019, 12:08 pm

1stSauce wrote:
Hire a prostitute already. It's not 1955 :roll:


[sarcasm] Because sex is the only reason someone would want to date [sarcasm]


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25 Jun 2019, 12:17 pm

One would more likely hire a prostitute in 1955 than now.



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26 Jun 2019, 2:22 am

1stSauce wrote:
Hire a prostitute already. It's not 1955 :roll:

experience?



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26 Jun 2019, 2:23 am

Fnord wrote:
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kraftiekortie wrote:
My "biology" deters me from growing to be 6 feet tall, and to attract certain women.....but I think of it as "that's the way the ball bounces," rather than indicating a "lack of Free Will."
Yeah we work with what we got Kraftie... some of us just have to move to high gear to get results instead of cruising through life in first gear wondering why nothing is happening.
And some people "rev their engines in 'Park'", never leave the curb, and then complain about traffic on the freeway.

Either they don't know how to change gear or they don't want to change gear...



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26 Jun 2019, 2:25 am

Antrax wrote:
rdos wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
I'm afraid looks outweight personality for women;
https://www.livescience.com/58607-mens- ... ality.html

You can't fight biology Mona.


I've seen the study, but your conclusion is wrong. Women require a minimal level of attractivity, and when this is met, they will validate personality. The minimal level probably is dependent on her own attractivity, and so this might be a filter women have to create a manageable dating pool.


I can't believe I'm typing this, but rdos is right. Physical attraction is an activation barrier, but not the end all be all for most.


You say potato I say "Potahto"....activation barrier and primary filter means the same thing to me