I am the 20 year old virgin by choice. Yes, by choice. A small list of the girls that wanted to just have sex instead of a meaningful relationship(because sex fixes everything, right? lol....): Crystal, Kim, Angie, Michelle, Jewel.
Now I will tell you this, this is absolutely not because I am some suave sophisticated guy or such, lol, I'm still quite shy today. My town of Tooele has had the highest teen pregnancy rating in all Utah for a good couple decades, perhaps more. It's like a semi-urban redneck town with asbolutely nothing to do. All of the said girls somehow ended up with a**hole guys that just wanted their juice and when the guy got bored he moved to the next one. So, since they were all quite young (14-16) when it happened, they assumed that good sex means goo relationship and that your man will stick around. Funny thing is, it was the strange feeling of someone just wanting you to be an a**hole and go to town them that drove me away from all of them. The only good lasting relationship I ever had was with a virgin, and I ended up ruining that because of my extensive marijuana smoking.
I ramble on sometimes, I apologize, but that's my story.