Why are women on dating sites such hippocrites

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I don't think you can really afford to view money spent on dates as an investment, like, you're paying this money so that something will happen. If you go to an expensive restaurant, you may have all kinds of things that you want to get out of that, (and I'm not saying it's as cynical as wanting the girl to sleep with you, it could just be wanting her to like you and go on more dates with you), but don't forget that all you're actually paying for is good food and drink. Hence, thats really all you can expect to get out of it.

I don't know where you got, that, my goal was "to get lucky." You shouldn't make generalizations like that about men. sheesh! I'm not into renting hookers. Do I want a disease? No. If I wanted a gutter whore, I would look on craigslist. I have spoke to her since the date. Sheesh! I'm not compatible with the girl, which I realized after the date. So, in my opinion, it was 40 dollars wasted. Well, I did get a tastey meal.


Was she drinking those mixed drinks? Because those things tend to be expensive. At least you didn't take her to a dive bar, some people are turne off by them. Probably because they're dumps, but they do have cheap drinks like Labatts Blue. Around $25 is a more reasonable price for me, but 40 dollars is too much for firstd date. I honestly thought it would only be around 25 bucks. Me and a friend have ate at the resturant that I went to for the date, that, I mention above, and normally it cost around 20-25 bucks. That date was one of the more expensive first dates I have been on. Normally, I go for being as cheap as possible.

Asking questions is good, as long as you don't run out of questions. Otherwise good job, sounds like you enjoyed your date.

I wish you guys would stop repeating that to each other. That sure isn't how it works for me.

I don't respect a guy spending money to try to get me to like him - in other words, offering a sweet deal won't make it more likely for me to go out with a guy if I don't want to in the first place. But once it's established that there's an attraction - in other words, once I've accepted a second date - I like being taken out for nice dinners and so forth. It hasn't made me lose respect or killed attraction yet.

She drank a mojito and I drank a vodka martini with a twist.

Well I sent another message to the girl I've been in communication with this afternoon & still no response....does anyone think that the lack of a response may indicate an unwillingness on her part to continue the conversation?

Either that, or she just hasn't got around to answering you yet. Sometimes it takes me a couple of days.

I tried calling her and the phone rang like 4 or 5 times with no answer and then my cell phone seemed to cut out...

I called again about 40 minutes later and this time it went to her voice mailbox. I left a message asking if she'd like to get lunch together on Saturday and to give me a call. She called me about 5 seconds later (so, I don't think she had listened to my message yet). We chit-chatted for just a little bit and I asked about lunch, and she said Saturday would be great and we agreed on a restaurant. Now I need to come up with something to do after lunch. I've got a few ideas, but... Nevermind, I just came up with a great idea! I'll tell you guys after the date.

see, you didn't spend a dime on me and allready I have no respect for you at ALL!

I guess your self fulfilling prophecy just came true!

No worries! I'm not interested in gold diggers.

No, she may not of even checked her messages yet.

I dunno,in the beginning she'd respond almost every day & now nothing.Also POF let's you know on your page when you login if the person has read the mail you sent them & according to what my page says she did in fact read it.

I'll login & check sometime today to see wether or not she read my message sent last night,if I get no response then my guess is that I'm back to square one again.

You should not be single.

Okay, I will elaborate as to why Ben should not be single.

He's attractive, he knows that spending too much money on a date makes someone seem like a try hard and desperate and you cannot trust that you will even see that person again, he seems to agree with equality and having common interests.

Some of you guys that just sit here and bash women and treat them like unintelligent sub species, well duh...it's no wonder why you are single.

Some of you obsess over looks and claim that's all women care about but then you talk about the hot women you can't have. You also have a skewed perception that females are too dumb to play video games.

I would not date a guy like that. It seems to me you just want to wallow because if not, you would look at the real problem and quit blaming all your woes on women who won't so graciously put out to you, yeah as if you are entitled to any girl.

If you have a low opinion of yourself and on top of that women, your hand is going to be your BFF!

On the contrary. I have appreciated Bens advice. I need to work on my self-confidence.

Well, thank you!