Rejected by my friend.

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Don't turn a cold shoulder but dont be clingy as I said. This may yet turn out in your favor!

Hey, good for you Reniard!

Um, thanks for all the input and encouragement so far. Been really helpful. Now he wants me to tell why do I like him and what if those qualities goes away later. In writing, cos that's the way he likes to communicate in serious, even though we do meet up sometimes. Now why would he ask that? Is it because he's trying to feed his ego? Or is he insecure? Ordinarily he's always so full of himself. What is the best way to respond? Is being honest, sincere, and confident, enough? I am afraid of sounding needy.

This one is over my head. I'm just writing to say that i think this could turn out well. Wait for advice though.


Meanwhile maybe tell us why you like him. We don't judge. We're here to help!

Awww..it sounds like he just needed some time to process. Now he's testing the waters to see if it is worth it to step past the comfort zone you two have developed.



I would guess he asked because he is seriously contemplating his own feelings and is terrified of the ramifications. Respond the way your heart tells you to respond. In other words, be yourself. Looks like you're doing great so far.