A few things I have noticed on this sub-forum

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Off-topic people also tick me off umm wrong section... kidding! It's sad but true that people with high standards most likely won't meet a person who'll satisfy their standards, but who can help it? Lower the standards = no attraction maybe? You can't blame them. Ya, I also think

We should blame no one, although I can be off-topic at east I try my best to keep ourselves cool here.

And yet let us all love each other (isn't this section Love and Dating?)

Another thing I'm getting sick of is seeing these blunt and nasty generalizations about women on here.

I don't know but I've been thinking about leaving this place. It just depresses me and I'm really sick of this crap about how awful women are. The nice guy crap has been nothing but BS here. I really hope not all guys think this way but this place just reaks of racism and sexism and pretty narrow minded members.


I'm probably sounding a bit too far fetched but it's just getting to me and in ways I didn't imagine. I'd rather go on a forum where I can be a little more honest and open-minded than this rubbish.

I have to agree with MissConstrue, the bigotry here is pretty rank. I haven't been here long enough to think anything of it beyond, "Wow, no wonder Aspies can have a bad rep. These guys are foul."

I've been trying to cut my list back, but it appears I still have too many impossible criteria...

1) must be same species

2) must not require inflation

3) must not threaten to call police when I speak to her

omg

The last few posts remind me of a joke. A man goes to a doctor and says: "whenever I poke my self anywhere on the body, it hurts. Can you tell me what's wrong?" The doctor examined him, and said: "I know what it is: you have a broken finger."

Jokes aside, I still want to point out something it took me years to realize. By and large, girls go for guys with the attractiveness level similar to theirs. Sure, once in a while, a plain-looking guy with poor social skills may have a hot girl show interest in him, but those are statistical outliers. That doesn't mean you'll never find a girl; it means that you might never find a hot girl. Accept it and get over it. Girls "in your league" will make themselves approachable to you, and just might like you if you approach them in a non-creepy way.

A big part of finding dates is marketing. So if you're looking and looking, but finding no one, perhaps you're marketing to the wrong people, like trying to sell fur coats in Maui, HI. Sure, you might find a fur collector there, but if you sell them in Fairbanks, AK instead, they'll go flying off the shelves. Same with the guys who say that women don't like them; it not be your fault personally, but you're approaching the wrong women.

Basically, women want the best guy they can find; it's hard-wired biologically for them. Look at the animal world: the females always look for males with the best genes. So if you want to succeed in the dating world, simply approach women for whom you might be the best guy they can find. Then you'll finally be able to learn what it's like to have a girl interested in you.

You’re absolutely right. All you need to do is go to the mall or a restaurant and spend a few minutes’ people watching to prove this. Most couples look like they should go together! They‘re in the same league, so to speak.

The problem comes when you’re not attracted to the women who are in your league.

My problem tends to be that the women I mesh with personality wise are ones I have zero physical attraction for, and the ones I’m physically attracted to either have nothing going on in the intelligence/personality department OR they know they can do better and reject me.

Women from the first category (personality but no physical attraction) hit on me fairly often. I wear a wedding band to ward these women off because I don’t have the heart to reject them. I have tried dating women like this a few times, but if there’s no attraction, there’s no faking it, at least not for me…

What it all comes down to is shallowness. I wish I wasn’t so superficial, but I am and I don’t know how to change it.

You'll find sexism is the WORST on internet male dominated forums.

Gaming forums are the same.

I don't like the attitudes of a lot of the men here and find them completely unattractive.

I don't frequent this place often but from what I've seen most of the sexist posts are from guys who have been rejected over and over again. I can understand why they feel that way but its not going to help them.

Women get trashed to oblivion on male dominated forums. the fact of the matter is, MissConstrue, you can get a hell of a lot better than the people who speak like this. Never forget that, even if you're picky and find it hard to find potential partners.