AspiRob wrote:
BetsyRath wrote:
AspieRob, once she gets married a girl gets hit on twice as much. Just saying!
Could be right there - that probably has to do with the idea of wanting what you can't have. Not that I am talking to married women for this reason. I am too morally controlled to hit on a married woman (not that I would know how to hit on any woman but that is another problem). Do you think that married women might be thinking I am hitting on them when in fact I am just trying to be friendly and practice what little social and communication skills I have?
Well anything is possible - who knows!
I was simply acknowledging your possible notion that because she is married, and you would not sexually assert yourself to a married woman, that risk taking is "safe". She may well get hit on all the time and doesn't assume anything is "safe". This is obviously less true of a married female friend of your friend, or someone you know closely. But in general, with strangers, having that ring on doesn't render a girl less likely to experience attention as a come-on. Just my 2c.
01 Jan 2010, 10:01 pm
