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Would you ever enlist yourself in any match-making agency / dating site?
Yes 20%  20%  [ 20 ]
Yes 20%  20%  [ 20 ]
Never 13%  13%  [ 13 ]
Never 13%  13%  [ 13 ]
Um... I'd think about it but... 18%  18%  [ 18 ]
Um... I'd think about it but... 18%  18%  [ 18 ]
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30 Mar 2006, 9:51 am

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It is really not that fun just having sex all the time. Can you handle the talking part? I know I don't like being lonely all the time. Otherwise call my sister don't think she does sex though. I handle the talking part better more like an nt when I am calm. You need that for life in general. There is no way around it if you want them you must find someway to handle social aspect.


Have you been in that situation? I can definetly not handle the talking part, that's why I stay alone in the first place!
I don't want any social contact with women. With porn I can at least see incredibly beautiful women so I don't need to try to get into bed with the first and the worst I can find in the real world.



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30 Mar 2006, 11:04 am

Lonermutant wrote:
Have you been in that situation? I can definetly not handle the talking part, that's why I stay alone in the first place!
I don't want any social contact with women. With porn I can at least see incredibly beautiful women so I don't need to try to get into bed with the first and the worst I can find in the real world.


I think you need to get out of Norway and go to a country like Australia or the United States, where there is some better awareness. From what you've said on here, it sounds like Aspies are really repressed.

Then you might be happier.



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30 Mar 2006, 3:15 pm

Finally someone who gets it. I am very different I don't know if this true for other aspies. I should run a pole. You know loner mutant there is reward for trying to understand women try and calm down take some natural stuff feed that brain and maybe you can get it going again. I become female sensitive when I do right stuff that makes me calm. I always wondered if there were two people in me. Maybe that is were it comes from. I see two different genders but the male definitely controll sexuallity. I am not gay I got raped by one and I am still mad. One in controll when I am mad and the other takes controll when I am in controll. They fight too. Can you see the deepness of my intelligence and gifts?



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30 Mar 2006, 3:17 pm

Not completely sometimes I am suicidal. I still have fealings though and that seems to be from the stuff I put in my body.



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30 Mar 2006, 4:42 pm

ELLCIM wrote:
Lonermutant wrote:
Have you been in that situation? I can definetly not handle the talking part, that's why I stay alone in the first place!
I don't want any social contact with women. With porn I can at least see incredibly beautiful women so I don't need to try to get into bed with the first and the worst I can find in the real world.


I think you need to get out of Norway and go to a country like Australia or the United States, where there is some better awareness. From what you've said on here, it sounds like Aspies are really repressed.

Then you might be happier.



Simply, I want sex, women want a family.



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03 Apr 2006, 1:05 pm

I've had a profile sitting on Lavalife since August of last year, but I never really acted on it - until last Thursday. I paid the fee for 50 credits and contacted a few local women. In just a matter of days I've got four of these women on MSN, and two of them have already offered phone numbers and want to meet me. That's a hell of lot more than what I got through Match.com over three months, for a higher price.

Oddly enough, I've made another observation about local geographic distribution. I am from the western half of my city, where all my life I've found next to no single women and plenty of single guys. All these women I've met so far are from the east half of the city. So, according to the laws of averages and statistics I've posted previously, it very well may be that the ratio of men to women in the east half of the city in my age bracket could be 95 men for every 100 women, while in the west half it could be 115 men for every 100 women - which averages out to the regional average of 105 men for every 100 women. And when I've looked at local women before on various sites, most of them are from around 10 miles away, which corresponds roughly to the distance from my house to the east end of town. Very, very few women register as 5 miles or less.

And the good news also is that the east half of the city is less well off, therefore generally less snobby. I have no need for a large house when I'm older - a small cottage will do. I'm a simple man living in a sea of mansions, Cadillacs, university professors, and CEOs.



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03 Apr 2006, 4:39 pm

No chance for a guy who lives in mid east like me ! !



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03 Apr 2006, 10:04 pm

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What I'm saying is that I find dating sites stupid and that I know that the kind of sex I want only exists in porn.


the kind of sex you wants exists, you're just not having it.



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03 Apr 2006, 11:49 pm

Lonermutant wrote:


Simply, I want sex, women want a family.


I don't want a family. Not all women want a family.



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04 Apr 2006, 12:30 am

Space wrote:
Lonermutant wrote:
What I'm saying is that I find dating sites stupid and that I know that the kind of sex I want only exists in porn.


the kind of sex you wants exists, you're just not having it.


I thought that one-night stands and casual sex was something that nt people quit doing at age 18.


hale_bopp wrote:
Lonermutant wrote:


Simply, I want sex, women want a family.


I don't want a family. Not all women want a family.



Actually read a british article that women who have casual sex are now seen as abnormal.



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04 Apr 2006, 3:09 am

Lonermutant wrote:
What I'm saying is that I find dating sites stupid and that I know that the kind of sex I want only exists in porn.


dude, u should lay off the pr0n... i used to watch a lot of pr0n and then i realized what it was doing to me... just as drugs dulls your senses to the sensory input of the real world... pr0n also does the same thing... too much of it will dull your senses so much that normal women won't even register....

pr0n women know exactly what they want: they want cock. the only thing better than a cock is two cocks!... too bad these women don't exist! normal women aren't like pr0n women and never will be... instead they're just useless b*****s who don't know what they want... but what can u do...!

lay off the pr0n, and after a couple of months (yes MONTHS), your senses will return to the normal level... and once your dick is back in the real world, make sure to spend as much time with women as you can... it's UNhealthy for a guy to lack a woman's touch in your life, even if it's someone to hang out with and talk to.... if you spend enough time with women, you'll realize that you don't really need pr0n anymore


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04 Apr 2006, 3:18 am

I prefer continuing looking at hot pornstars as I'm only attracted to looks. I have a very strict limit to what I find attractive.



hellznrg wrote:
Lonermutant wrote:
What I'm saying is that I find dating sites stupid and that I know that the kind of sex I want only exists in porn.


dude, u should lay off the pr0n... i used to watch a lot of pr0n and then i realized what it was doing to me... just as drugs dulls your senses to the sensory input of the real world... pr0n also does the same thing... too much of it will dull your senses so much that normal women won't even register....

pr0n women know exactly what they want: they want cock. the only thing better than a cock is two cocks!... too bad these women don't exist! normal women aren't like pr0n women and never will be... instead they're just useless b*****s who don't know what they want... but what can u do...!

lay off the pr0n, and after a couple of months (yes MONTHS), your senses will return to the normal level... and once your dick is back in the real world, make sure to spend as much time with women as you can... it's UNhealthy for a guy to lack a woman's touch in your life, even if it's someone to hang out with and talk to.... if you spend enough time with women, you'll realize that you don't really need pr0n anymore



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04 Apr 2006, 3:25 am

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I prefer continuing looking at hot pornstars as I'm only attracted to looks. I have a very strict limit to what I find attractive.


well if ur happy with the way things are then more power to u buddy! :)

i think sex is great & all, but i imagine it gets old without all that other stuff too...!


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04 Apr 2006, 3:27 am

Lonermutant wrote:
Florescent wrote:
It is really not that fun just having sex all the time. Can you handle the talking part? I know I don't like being lonely all the time. Otherwise call my sister don't think she does sex though. I handle the talking part better more like an nt when I am calm. You need that for life in general. There is no way around it if you want them you must find someway to handle social aspect.


Have you been in that situation? I can definetly not handle the talking part, that's why I stay alone in the first place!
I don't want any social contact with women. With porn I can at least see incredibly beautiful women so I don't need to try to get into bed with the first and the worst I can find in the real world.


u know what? brutal honesty is so refreshing...! dude, i like you


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04 Apr 2006, 3:34 am

ELLCIM wrote:
Lonermutant wrote:
Have you been in that situation? I can definetly not handle the talking part, that's why I stay alone in the first place!
I don't want any social contact with women. With porn I can at least see incredibly beautiful women so I don't need to try to get into bed with the first and the worst I can find in the real world.


I think you need to get out of Norway and go to a country like Australia or the United States, where there is some better awareness. From what you've said on here, it sounds like Aspies are really repressed.

Then you might be happier.


actually i heard that europe is the place to be for casual sex... especially in sweden, i hear the women are more liberated and open-minded... and whaddaya know, they're the hottest women in the world! the US is the worst place to be, ranking just a little higher than saudi arabia i imagine due to the christian fundys....! i'm surprised they don't walk like robots due to their chastity belts


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04 Apr 2006, 3:38 am

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Finally someone who gets it. I am very different I don't know if this true for other aspies. I should run a pole. You know loner mutant there is reward for trying to understand women try and calm down take some natural stuff feed that brain and maybe you can get it going again. I become female sensitive when I do right stuff that makes me calm. I always wondered if there were two people in me. Maybe that is were it comes from. I see two different genders but the male definitely controll sexuallity. I am not gay I got raped by one and I am still mad. One in controll when I am mad and the other takes controll when I am in controll. They fight too. Can you see the deepness of my intelligence and gifts?


woah... i wish i were like you...! two personalities means you can get away with having double the normal number of simultaneious girlfriends


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