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13 Apr 2010, 12:44 pm

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If your pics. are anything to go by, then I would take issue with anybody who didn't fancy you.

Damn ! if only I were 30 years younger. ( :lol: about myself)


Well, according to my internet friend who met me...they aren't anything to go by. So he probably doesn't fancy me at all.



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14 Apr 2010, 2:41 am

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It sure sounds like he likes you.

And why not. You're beautiful and it sounds like you have laughs together.

Maybe he's flirty with others too but sometimes insecure guys do that. It doesn't mean he doesn't like you - either solely or along with other girls.

I wonder what would happen if you asked him out? What do the guys here think about that?

ETA: Oh I see someone's suggested that. Well, make it something like a Saturday afternoon movie. A goofy one you can both make fun of, maybe. Humor seems to be something he's comfortable with.

A daylight date is less of a 'date date' and then maybe he'd ask you on a 'real' one. He may be longing to ask you out but is scared to. So, break the ice maybe?


Wow...that could work...Hmm...Or maybe if I started out by inviting him to a get together with other people?

Sure, if you can make him go with you, and not just go for the sandwiches or something.


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14 Apr 2010, 2:51 am

Sounds like he's interested that you like him. Which means, he knows you like him and he's curious as to why. Also, he doesn't find it to be a bad thing. Talk to him more outside of school. That will help you figure his feelings out.



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14 Apr 2010, 7:24 am

I am Really, Really, Really, hesitant about saying this,
but, :oops:
making physical contact with a suitor may be enough to disarm
his shyness
For example, if he says something funny, you may elbow him, and laugh and say "That was funny!"
or just elbow him and laugh. :?
...I have been told that a girl making physical contact with a guy means she likes him....I don't know if this is true.

It really depends on how far you wan't to go with this guy
Do you want to lose your virginity to him?
Do you want to become pregnant by him?
Do you want get exposed to stds through him?

Oh My God, it's ALWAYS SO Complicated! :?

I am giving up giving advice RIGHT NOW!
until next time


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14 Apr 2010, 12:12 pm

syzygyish wrote:
I am Really, Really, Really, hesitant about saying this,
but, :oops:
making physical contact with a suitor may be enough to disarm
his shyness
For example, if he says something funny, you may elbow him, and laugh and say "That was funny!"
or just elbow him and laugh. :?
...I have been told that a girl making physical contact with a guy means she likes him....I don't know if this is true.

It really depends on how far you wan't to go with this guy
Do you want to lose your virginity to him?
Do you want to become pregnant by him?
Do you want get exposed to stds through him?

Oh My God, it's ALWAYS SO Complicated! :?

I am giving up giving advice RIGHT NOW!
until next time


Hmm, well, he doesn't mind touching me. And I innitiated high five today–he seemed happy to give me a big one. :)
I don't want to lose my virginity to him or anything. XD I'd...I don't know. Just wanna know if he likes me, and maybe have fun.



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15 Apr 2010, 12:27 am

With regard to touching, just a touch on the arm whenever he says something that makes you laugh or that you agree with is a good move. It shows "interest"
I don't know if poor eye contact is one of your traits, but if you are looking at him, then he looks in your direction, you then look away then imediately look back at him (this has to be done very quickly, say less than 2 secs) he should be getting the right message from you.



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15 Apr 2010, 11:31 am

Ahh, ok. I think I do that.