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Yeah I agree with you, LetsGoBlues.
The closer to the cities you get, the more the online people seem to break down into human crap.

LOl true. Reason I guess is cause these are the people who cant find dates, or are just to not so good looking.

not everyone has an MSN profile because they want to get a bf/gf.

I'm not interested in that but I have a profile so friends that are already on my list can see, or anyone that guenuinly wants to chat can see.

And you think all good looking people have dates? You're wrong. What you look like has nothing to do with whether you've dated / had sex before.

I'm quite sure these people find other sick. shallow, moronic people of their type to procreate with. I just call them "human crap" because they seem to have no morals at all and no real hopes and dreams.

The MSN profiles I speak of are the one's with "single and looking" highlighted in them. I have looked up people with "married" or "long term relationship" before. It's not always about sex!! It is definately not primarily about sex for me! However, the thought is there and I can't lie. Like a popular comedy show here in Canada and the midwest USA outlines in the "man's promise"..... (The red green show)...

"I am a man, I can change,.. If I have to,... I guess."

if I ever go back to being single i'm changing it to single, not looking.

I'd rather have no-one than some pathetic excuse that can't get laid.

See, I could get laid any time I wanted to but I don't operate that way.
A couple of my girl-FRIENDS express interest in me but I don't want them like that. I am just informing people of what men "think" in their heads. LIKE IT OR NOT!

I describe it like having a little voice inside. You can't talk to any girl that you are even remotely attracted without having to supress the voice inside. It's always there. Some guys just never shut it off and it dominates them. They run around and say all the things the ladies want to hear but they don't really CARE about them. Other guys are more able to shut it off and speak completely from their minds.

ALL men think like that or there is something severely wrong with them.
Alot of my logic on this comes from my 2 sisters (24 and 20) who both are attractive and have to constantly beat guys away. My older sister is a waitress+bar-tender and bar-tenders know ALL about the kinds of pigs that are out there.

We are getting a little grouchy here so i'm going to make like Forrest Gump and say "That's all I got to say about that."

I'm sorry but letsgoblues' ignorance annoys me. He seems to have absolutley no idea about people at all.. he lives in this made up world that good looking people's lives are perfect and other people's lives are worthless and stupid.

I wish he would just stop annoying people here and go out and learn more about the people of this world.

i understand how you feel, hale bopp, but have to say this - letsgoblues IS learning about things. and he's learning them here. not all of us are capable of finding ways to learn such things out there in the real world.

why do you think people like me (a rabid feminist) haven't asked for him to be banned before?

Yes but how much of what he may learn will he apply to things if he keeps ignoring pretty much most of the advice offered to him. If he has to keep asking the same question over and over again it doesn't make it look too convincing that he is really learning. If a person wants advice and has gotten the answer to the questions asked, why not read the advice because at times he asks the same question differently as if nothing he has read has been absorbed. That's what worries me about people being made a fool of possibly. I don't like saying that but unfortunately there are people out there that do try stuff like this just to get a laugh and I sure hope this isn't one of those cases. If he's stop asking repetitive questions, get away from his hormones and learn about 'relationships' first and then realize that sex is just an added bonus, he'd be better off.

I think we all hope LGB gets the message mish: a lot of people have given him advice. For what its worth, I don't think he is doing it to wind you up or trolling, and I think despite appearing not to listen, he is taking stuff on board gradually as a 'trickle effect' - I think he reposts similar questions in part because he is nervous.

dunc

Just a few thoughts On internet relationships from me:-) I think that the internet can be a wonderful place to meet people IF you do it right,. online, you meet people and get to know people by who they are, not by what they look like. There are definetely downsides, and care needs to be taken, but I think Internet-started relationships are a great option for aspies, especially. Of course, I'm biased as I'm talking to a GREAT guy who I really like(we've agreed to be just friends for now...) after most of my life being the weird person no one wanted to talk to, so the internet it great for me!!

That's what really creeps me out; especially when I look at just how normal most of us come off in print. I'd really have to talk to a girl online for quite a while to know that a meeting IRL would be positive, that or she'd need to have a personality type which I'm already very familar with.

Some people might think that's a rather egotistical thing to say. Even people like me who are in long-term monogamous relationships can't claim to get it any time I want.

Or she could just be kind and willing to take you for who you are