True love really may not be for everyone(Nice guys vs mean )

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all the women who voted in here are just bullshitting and playing with your minds... NICE GUYS FINISH LAST people... get used to it... be a badass... it's your only chance. don't be a doormat anymore... if you're a nice guy, it means your love is cheap and comes easy... make them work for it, and in the end, don't give it to them anyway... just to be a badass!

Nice Guys Finish Last (And They Don't Deserve Your Sympathy) http://con.ca/issues/7/9/1194

Being a nice guy does not mean being a non-assertive whimp. I think that some men are very confused about what behavior defines a nice guy. My partner is a nice guy but certainly no whimp. Okay, he has a few behavioral problems but he is still a nice guy. Despite being a nice guy, my partner claims that he has never had a problem finding a girlfriend. He is AS and quite geeky in many ways, but women love him. He says all any guy has to do is go out there and politely ask women if they want sex. He claims that all any guy has to do is go out and politely ask three women if they want sex and at least one will say yes.

hmm.. you may have a point... maybe...

OR I COULD JUST AS WELL BE A BADASS...! it's easier and women are just crazy about that...! the girls who like nice guys prolly have AS and statistics show that there aren't enough AS women to go around..!

i'm not taking any crap from women anymore... it's easier and more comfortable to walk all over them... they're soft & really cushion your feet...!

it all boils down to two choices:

be nice to em and lose em
(or)
use em & lose em

which one is more fun!!??

Nice guys means NICE guys and not wuss or wimps or whatever u call it in English!!

Girls forget that one of the most manly traits in a man is how to treat girl gently .

I genuinely like nice guys and am not playing with anyone's mind, what I don't like are the whiny drips that always say 'woe is me', believe it or not there is a difference. And you like being a badass? Well all I can say is that you must date women who lack enough respect for themselves as to want to be treated like that and, as much as I lack sympathy for these women as they bring it on themselves, it just shows you obviously have no idea of how to handle a real woman cos real women wouldnt stand for this. They would gobble you up and spit you out for breakfast! And you will 'use' the wrong woman one day and she will make you regret it deeply.

I may be just wondering her Fiz but what kind of man do you think I am?

I know that I have a lot to offer a girl but why do things come crashing down? Why do the girls that I've loved always ended far away and that I'll never get to talk to them or see them anymore? What am I doing wrong? I love with all my heart and I put everything I am into a relationship. I don't hide nothing and I try to meet any girl's needs and wants. I want to be all for this girl or that girl. It always ends in total ruin and I don't want anymore more to end that way. I want to find my one true love. Does anyone think there's one out there for me somewhere?
What do you girls think of me? Am I a nice guy?

i don't think 3 women is enough... because when you're asking the second one, your chances are lower than you'd expect because of the dented cheek... and asking the 3rd one is even more slim due to having a black eye AND a dented cheek

just as the value of PI will never be 4, there is no chance of getting laid with this method

and it's so unfair that you can't hit them back.. the bitatches...

Last edited by hellznrg on 04 Apr 2006, 2:08 am, edited 1 time in total.

oh please...! the cloying .... something or other...! blurgh... <sound of puking>

girls prefer to be thrown on the bed like a ragdoll & have your way with them..!

hmm.. lemme see!... seems like your're a perfect match for ....... ANOTHER NICE GUY!

dude, wisen up... if u want to lay girls... u gotta be a BADASS! just like me... my advice to you is, instead of conferring ALL your niceness on one girl (they don't even deserve even a fraction of it)... just spread the niceness among like 5 or 6 of them... god knows you've got enough...! just don't let any of them know about the others... oh... and use condoms...! or make sure you and everyone else is HIV negative beforehand.... i don't really like condoms that much... but i'm not sure cos i haven't had the opportunity to use em much... i, like you, was a nice guy until a few days ago... now i'm just a badass!! my heart is now just an empty shell... i use it to store condoms...

Look man, a lot of us here are NOT looking to "get laid". If that's what you want for yourself, then so be it, but some of us want more out of a relationship than a one-night stand.

I personally want something with depth and substance, and long-lasting.

Yeah yeah what ever man. I think that badass stuff is really driving the girls away in my way of thinking. No I don't think so on that another nice guy part. I'm not gay and nothing you ever say will ever change that. You know I'll have sex with a girl when ever that girl and I get married. I'm a Christain and will I'm willing to wait until then. I'm not really into sex I'm into a relationship with a girl that will last a life time not a pretty short time like your relationships will come across. If you consider this badass stuff is the way to get to a girl or keep girls from you keep doing it but I'll have no part of it. You hear me not a penny of it. You're really lame when it comes to this worldly idea that sex has no respect as it had been in the years before us. Take care.

dude, you're not seeing the potential here...! see, we're born with the nice guy syndrome and we're going to die with it... u can't get rid of it... you can only cover it up with a badassed attitude...!

so when u got the girls, they'll notice some of the nice guy stuff... and they'll think.....

wow... a badass who's a nice guy...! ! WOAH!! !! !!

see what i mean?

dude i was just kidding about the match with a nice guy stuff..!

me, i'm an atheist.. i used to be a christian too, but a karma ran over my dogma u might say...! anyways yeah i'm sure you'll have plenty of luck finding women who don't like to have sex...! the world is full of them!

hellznrg, its pretty clear that you view women (yes, women not girls, girls are underage females that you shouldn't have sex with, duh!! !) as objects. Its all very well if all you are looking for is sex, but that's what prostitutes and escorts are for, or if you are a cheapskate and can't afford them, there are always whores for that. That way you can have as many as you like and they won't give a s**t which works for you cos you blatantly don't give a s**t either!

And not all of us fall for the nice guy badass thing by the way unless its stupid or vulnerable women (yes, women) that you pray on, in which case, shame on you.

Oh and ELLCIM, the reason why this guy doesn't want anything with depth and substance is because he lacks it himself. Pure and simple.

I actually don't take jokes well. I mean one can't really tell when one is kidding. I mean I always use LOL to make sure everyone knows I'm kidding. Now about this whole issue that I've brought upon my self. I'll respect to anyone of the ladies out there. I'll give them anything that they desire as I might of said before but I'll never abuse them emotionally or physically. Of course there's a lot who have sex after they're married not before. I can't see why anyone would have sex before marriage when one doesn't really know the other person, what the other person has physically. You really can't just jump into having sex right off.
Now about you...Oh wait this isn't the place for that. One thing that you should know about me is that I don't take crap well from people of my same sex. I mean if you say anything or any male says anything about my personal life I'll take offense and I'll defend my self. On the other hand I'm more able to listen to females and what they have to say I'll put it to heart.
I really would like you to lay of this real men don't cry kind of thing and this tough guy act. Some women like it some don't. Lay off me and I'll lay off you. You understand? Kidding or not I really don't give a darn about what you have to say. Maybe I'm being to harsh here but I understand that either you are trying to dis me personally. I maybe flying off the handle here but only I'll listen to Fiz to calm down. Take care of your self I mean spiritually.