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psychointegrator
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08 Jun 2010, 1:55 am

Alla wrote:
Is this a typical aspie trait?


The two AP humanoids I know here both want long term relationships.
One is an adult male math teacher with a chica, they have a house together and plan to have children at some point and marriage is coming within the next 6 months I believe.
The other is an adult female who has a VERY detailed list of who she wants as a husband for life. She also wants children.



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08 Jun 2010, 10:20 am

I am avoidant of relationships, and though some may feel that I am "escaping" from one with them, it seems to keep occurring that said relationship was something I never expressly agreed to and was just "Assumed".

I hate assumptions.



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08 Jun 2010, 11:19 am

MishLuvsHer2Boys wrote:
I felt that way about long term relationships till I found the guy I'm currently interested in and things have changed and I really hope things will last. :)


Congrats! I give and receive strength from relationships. However, as much as I look for a bit of romance in a relationship, I look for someone who is suited for being a companion as well.